are we that bad
This topic was created in the Libra forum by Pride of 0ctober on Thursday, May 20, 2010 and has 32 replies.
cuz damn we get the shit bashed out of us on here, generalizing and prejudice go hand in hand. No wonder alot of libra males come here, they ask for advice on us and turn around and recount countless bad times with fellow hurt women on here, or at least that were hurt by libras
its so sad to come to a forum and see yourself get blasted by general statements, im starting to think the women on here could care less about input from libra men, cuz everytime they do say something about the ex, they throw in that they are in a relationship too, which firther proves that they are not in need of advice from libra men. They just rather talk to the women who have been with libras cuz their input is alot better than an actual libra male's. I guess they have it in their head now that libras are this, not b/c he is a man or acholoic, but b/c he is a libra, thats so prejudice lol
but it is what it is really, they should change the name of this forum from libra to libra's ex's lol
its so sad to come to a forum and see yourself get blasted by general statements, im starting to think the women on here could care less about input from libra men, cuz everytime they do say something about the ex, they throw in that they are in a relationship too, which firther proves that they are not in need of advice from libra men. They just rather talk to the women who have been with libras cuz their input is alot better than an actual libra male's. I guess they have it in their head now that libras are this, not b/c he is a man or acholoic, but b/c he is a libra, thats so prejudice lol
but it is what it is really, they should change the name of this forum from libra to libra's ex's lol
yes, i have noticed that and if we disagree then e are unrealistic or in denial of the blueprint laid for us based of the past
Posted by wtf?
some females came here to tell us who we are..
how we should be.. or just to start shit..
I like it..
I had to chuckle, kudos to u for seeing it as blah
Libras aren't bad, you guys a really good people, but if u want bad I think scorpios have it the worst.
They come here when they have been hurt by a Libran male looking for answers...so they bash Librans to see what comes back and also in order to take their anger out on someone that doesnt want to and wont listen anymore...maybe its therapeutic to them and a way of getting out their frustrations!
Posted by amethyst2002
It's frustrating for those of us who WANT the male feedback. The posts I'd started about the stuff with my ex, I was wanting info from the guys and a majority of the comments were from female Libras or females who dealt with Libras. While the input from those who have experienced was one thing, I'd really prefer a guys' POV.
Generally, in ANY situation where I want insight on a guys' behavior, I'd rather hear a guy's POV. Women's advice is so skewed sometimes, no thanks to articles, magazines, media, books, etc. feeding us bs about how men really work.
dont know how that happened lol my bad
ok i feel you, i get caught up in what does appear on here cuz thats all you see, i know i try to offer insight from time to time but it gets washed away by people who constantly down libras, and its kinda hard not to get frustrated(internet or not it still makes my blood boil)cuz im a libra and i take it as a direct insult when i hear what we CANT do or how we CANT love esp. when astrology is much much more deeper than that and thats not aimed at you its a general statement
what i did mean to say to you was that i get lost in the fact that so many women reply i just assume ame that thats what you were looking for on here was a woman's input
i agree about the skewed point of view thing cuz men's point of view is skewed when it comes to women too thats why i dont ask nobody for advice, i hate using other's people opinion to form my own
My chart is full of fire, my moon is in leo, and the rest of it is in water, barely any air. But im still a libra,, cuz i do find myself with libra faults
ok i feel you, i get caught up in what does appear on here cuz thats all you see, i know i try to offer insight from time to time but it gets washed away by people who constantly down libras, and its kinda hard not to get frustrated(internet or not it still makes my blood boil)cuz im a libra and i take it as a direct insult when i hear what we CANT do or how we CANT love esp. when astrology is much much more deeper than that and thats not aimed at you its a general statement
what i did mean to say to you was that i get lost in the fact that so many women reply i just assume ame that thats what you were looking for on here was a woman's input
i agree about the skewed point of view thing cuz men's point of view is skewed when it comes to women too thats why i dont ask nobody for advice, i hate using other's people opinion to form my own
My chart is full of fire, my moon is in leo, and the rest of it is in water, barely any air. But im still a libra,, cuz i do find myself with libra faults
Posted by amethyst2002
When all else fails, as the opposite sex about the opposite sex. Better feedback. But then again, I don't understand females a lot of the time either. They drive me nuts. :/
either way you gotta be careful, the best advice is experience thats my motto
It does get tiring but I never took it personally. If anything might as well put out the awesome Libra guyness
Same thing regarding the large percentage of threads being about problems with a Libra guy. Looks like were number one for breaking hearts and being hard to figure out. Not the worst thing in the world to be known for.
What I get tired of is posting advice and getting the "Thanks Nic, that is great advice!" then logging on to see part two of the problem as a result of not taking great advice.
It's nice to have you around regardless. I was the only Libra male around here not afraid to make waves for a while. Even chased off a few "scary" Leos and Scorpios.
Did the rounds on the politics forum for a while but most of the people here who like to post about politics are scary stupid and I had to revert to my own rule don't argue with idiots because they will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.
Same thing regarding the large percentage of threads being about problems with a Libra guy. Looks like were number one for breaking hearts and being hard to figure out. Not the worst thing in the world to be known for.
What I get tired of is posting advice and getting the "Thanks Nic, that is great advice!" then logging on to see part two of the problem as a result of not taking great advice.
It's nice to have you around regardless. I was the only Libra male around here not afraid to make waves for a while. Even chased off a few "scary" Leos and Scorpios.
Did the rounds on the politics forum for a while but most of the people here who like to post about politics are scary stupid and I had to revert to my own rule don't argue with idiots because they will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.
And if you have a look around at other threads you'll see woman screaming out all over looking for male imput...hardly any of you guys show up except a few of the regulars and they go further than their own signs...
Posted by amethyst2002
PS- your profile rocks.
mine?
Posted by nicodemus
It does get tiring but I never took it personally. If anything might as well put out the awesome Libra guyness
Same thing regarding the large percentage of threads being about problems with a Libra guy. Looks like were number one for breaking hearts and being hard to figure out. Not the worst thing in the world to be known for.
What I get tired of is posting advice and getting the "Thanks Nic, that is great advice!" then logging on to see part two of the problem as a result of not taking great advice.
It's nice to have you around regardless. I was the only Libra male around here not afraid to make waves for a while. Even chased off a few "scary" Leos and Scorpios.
Did the rounds on the politics forum for a while but most of the people here who like to post about politics are scary stupid and I had to revert to my own rule don't argue with idiots because they will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.
yea, the one thing about this website is you have to learn not to take things so personal just to have a good response or make a good argument, i been on and off here for a while i try to look around but nothing catches my interest alot except certain forums, it used to be alot of libra males on here, it seems like now its just me, you, and wtf(i think)and diddyy libra but he barely gets on but hey, what can you do
the part two thing is funny though cuz it happened to me too, makes you feel like not even giving any in the first place but i take it with a grain of salt now
Posted by amethyst2002
Fo sho. "Interests- uuuuuuummmmmmmmmmmmmmm sex." *snort*
lol i forgot i put that haha
Posted by Pride of 0ctoberPosted by nicodemus
It does get tiring but I never took it personally. If anything might as well put out the awesome Libra guyness
Same thing regarding the large percentage of threads being about problems with a Libra guy. Looks like were number one for breaking hearts and being hard to figure out. Not the worst thing in the world to be known for.
What I get tired of is posting advice and getting the "Thanks Nic, that is great advice!" then logging on to see part two of the problem as a result of not taking great advice.
It's nice to have you around regardless. I was the only Libra male around here not afraid to make waves for a while. Even chased off a few "scary" Leos and Scorpios.
Did the rounds on the politics forum for a while but most of the people here who like to post about politics are scary stupid and I had to revert to my own rule don't argue with idiots because they will drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.
yea, the one thing about this website is you have to learn not to take things so personal just to have a good response or make a good argument, i been on and off here for a while i try to look around but nothing catches my interest alot except certain forums, it used to be alot of libra males on here, it seems like now its just me, you, and wtf(i think)and diddyy libra but he barely gets on but hey, what can you do
the part two thing is funny though cuz it happened to me too, makes you feel like not even giving any in the first place but i take it with a grain of salt nowclick to expand
I still like to give advice if I believe I can help someone out. The practical problem with it is if I am going to post advice it is pretty long and thought out. Having a fiance and two kids, if people aren't going to listen the first time I really can't justify taking all of that time to do it a second time when my family would appreciate the attention a lot more.
Pshhha. Don't take it pesonal. Look at the source. There is a reason why unreasonable people don't get along with libra.
In general, people think we see the velvet and think we are weak so they try to bully us into doing what they want. They always forget about the iron fist.
In general, people think we see the velvet and think we are weak so they try to bully us into doing what they want. They always forget about the iron fist.
Right on as usual LS.
I actually like hearing the male libra point of view. Libra men are all too new to me. I've been drawn to aries and pisces...so this is all good to hear from the male libras. i want to know what they like and don't like.
all is forgiven
its not just the relationship thing, its men on here who think tlow of libras and will argue us down cuz thye dont like libras for lord knows what
But one arguemnt i will always stick and die by, and this aint to yall, is if some ppl on here are gonna use astrolgoy t otalk about a person why not use it as a whole, thats what im saying cuz sun sign alone cant determine much, believe me
i hate whe nppl think they kno me based of text book readings, let alone someone i dont know but thats not aimed at yall, i, just like a few other libra men, have no problem giving advice but like nic said, it gets a little old when there is a part 2, some women just vent to other women for a matter of relating to painful memories of sept-oxt. heartbreakers
its not just the relationship thing, its men on here who think tlow of libras and will argue us down cuz thye dont like libras for lord knows what
But one arguemnt i will always stick and die by, and this aint to yall, is if some ppl on here are gonna use astrolgoy t otalk about a person why not use it as a whole, thats what im saying cuz sun sign alone cant determine much, believe me
i hate whe nppl think they kno me based of text book readings, let alone someone i dont know but thats not aimed at yall, i, just like a few other libra men, have no problem giving advice but like nic said, it gets a little old when there is a part 2, some women just vent to other women for a matter of relating to painful memories of sept-oxt. heartbreakers
and beleive me we can hypnotize just as good as scorpios, that goes for the women too, we might not stare at you or whatever other tendacies they have but that doesnt mean we cant spin a mean web around you
But i have alot of scorpio influences including the rising, but im a libra at heart and i couldnt change it for tha world
But i have alot of scorpio influences including the rising, but im a libra at heart and i couldnt change it for tha world
Well Libra men can definitely draw you in better than any other!That i am starting to realize! I don't know how it is that i am 32 and am just being introduced to libra men. pisces men ummm...no more. Aries...well they seem to be players. I love listening to all that the libra men have to say. The libra male i am interested in can total captivate you.
Oh...and Nic..you seem to be very captivating yourself...no disrespect to your libra lady...sure she understands. lol
Oh...and Nic..you seem to be very captivating yourself...no disrespect to your libra lady...sure she understands. lol
Reading the Libra threads have been an excellent learning experience for me, the Leo. (Nicodemus, I don't think you like Leos a lot but hell, I can't stand them (us) either, so.
Libras, pls keep in mind that the level of self awareness is extremely different and tht ppl will tend to react more "violently" if the Libra somehow mirrored back their own weaknesses.
I understand your frustration towards giving lots of neverending, never taken advice, and yes, situations can get repetitive, so maybe a good idea would be to have a thread that refers ppl to some generally accepted Libra readings to start off somewhere.
ex.: so many times ppl complain of the coldness after the first dates, the Libra disappearing act, etc. I find that the "damage" is suffered more by ppl who don't understand how the Libra shadow works :http://songsdomain.tripod.com/librashadow1/index.html. Of course all Libras are not the same, however to me reading these two pages only (and taking 5 min. to reflect) would answer lots of questions and keep ppl more relaxed in their dating thing.
but hell, I can't stand them (us) either, so. Libras, pls keep in mind that the level of self awareness is extremely different and tht ppl will tend to react more "violently" if the Libra somehow mirrored back their own weaknesses.
I understand your frustration towards giving lots of neverending, never taken advice, and yes, situations can get repetitive, so maybe a good idea would be to have a thread that refers ppl to some generally accepted Libra readings to start off somewhere.
ex.: so many times ppl complain of the coldness after the first dates, the Libra disappearing act, etc. I find that the "damage" is suffered more by ppl who don't understand how the Libra shadow works :http://songsdomain.tripod.com/librashadow1/index.html. Of course all Libras are not the same, however to me reading these two pages only (and taking 5 min. to reflect) would answer lots of questions and keep ppl more relaxed in their dating thing.
if you ask me, ppl get upset because the Libra decision process is logical but shows no mercy. Society teaches us to give points for trying (even without succeeding), but Libra won't settle untill they really find their true partner. You are expected to stand your test for perfection and if rejected still find it in you to walk away (mmaybe disappear) on your two feet, even while hurt. Well, most ppl don't find it logical. They feel cheated or mislead by the royal treatment given by Libra while Libra is doing its balancing act. They mistake it for true feelings. Why would anyone do\say those things if not in love, they ask? Is the Libra being dishonest? And then, how can the Libra pretend that I trust their judgement and walk away while my emotions have been played? Well cause to Libra this is all part of the game. Ppl don't approach it with logic, I'll agree to that (myself included, I think its a general pattern)
"its men on here who think tlow of libras and will argue us down cuz thye dont like libras for lord knows what"
Who cares. Make a rational intelligent and respectful argument or GTFO. I think everyone remembers Kris. He represented the exact point you are trying to make. Not to make it about him, but it reflects exactly what you are saying, like it is some sort of feat to go to the Libra forum and call out Libra males. Whatever, stand face to face and we both know you would be preaching a different gospel.
"Oh...and Nic..you seem to be very captivating yourself...no disrespect to your libra lady...sure she understands. lol"
Lol. All to well. I love recieving compliments, she knows I take them for what they are One of the great spices of life. I will take as many as I can get for in a contest of captivating I am afraid she would beat me handily.
" (Nicodemus, I don't think you like Leos a lot but hell, I can't stand them (us) either, so. "
There are many things I admire about Leos, many things I gladly attempt to learn from. My issues with Leos are usually with the males. The air of superiority rubs right up against my actual superiority
All kidding aside we just arent on the same page. I won't say the same level becuase in the grand scheme of things there are no such things. I don't have the same issue with Leo girls, in fact, I find them entertaining. I would love a little Leo in my girl and well, in my girl I have a Leo moon. Your heart and conviction in people is admirable, mentally though the wavelengths just don't mesh in an interdependant relationship.
There are a few Leo guys that while I can find no fault of moral or ethic I just can't relate to the way they represent themselves. Live and let live, or else
Who cares. Make a rational intelligent and respectful argument or GTFO. I think everyone remembers Kris. He represented the exact point you are trying to make. Not to make it about him, but it reflects exactly what you are saying, like it is some sort of feat to go to the Libra forum and call out Libra males. Whatever, stand face to face and we both know you would be preaching a different gospel.
"Oh...and Nic..you seem to be very captivating yourself...no disrespect to your libra lady...sure she understands. lol"
Lol. All to well. I love recieving compliments, she knows I take them for what they are
One of the great spices of life. I will take as many as I can get for in a contest of captivating I am afraid she would beat me handily. " (Nicodemus, I don't think you like Leos a lot but hell, I can't stand them (us) either, so. "
There are many things I admire about Leos, many things I gladly attempt to learn from. My issues with Leos are usually with the males. The air of superiority rubs right up against my actual superiority
All kidding aside we just arent on the same page. I won't say the same level becuase in the grand scheme of things there are no such things. I don't have the same issue with Leo girls, in fact, I find them entertaining. I would love a little Leo in my girl and well, in my girl I have a Leo moon. Your heart and conviction in people is admirable, mentally though the wavelengths just don't mesh in an interdependant relationship.
There are a few Leo guys that while I can find no fault of moral or ethic I just can't relate to the way they represent themselves. Live and let live, or else
I know..
the paradox with Leo males.. think Bill vs. Bill (Clinton): one year you'd say he's saving the world and then couple of yrs later you'd go "please someone save him from himself".
They're like ballet dancers, the public sees as soon as they let themselves go (mind you Im sure there's some Libras in the front row, initially there to see some nice leg. just kidding ). Leo males have a choice: age like complete clowns mimicking some faded glory or fight it like ..don't know, Obama? its all in the working that we redeem ourselves.
the paradox with Leo males.. think Bill vs. Bill (Clinton): one year you'd say he's saving the world and then couple of yrs later you'd go "please someone save him from himself".
They're like ballet dancers, the public sees as soon as they let themselves go (mind you Im sure there's some Libras in the front row, initially there to see some nice leg. just kidding ). Leo males have a choice: age like complete clowns mimicking some faded glory or fight it like ..don't know, Obama? its all in the working that we redeem ourselves.
Oh, not so soon Obama is well on his way to going down as the worst president since Jimmy Carter (yes a Libra) and he still has a lot of time left. Not a good example, or rather a good example of what is the worst in Leo males. Narcicistic, Elitist, Imperialist, brave when has the high ground, coward when he is in trouble.
i love reading boards on libra men becuz u only kno a small few so i dnt have much experiece with them on a personel level. i've actually neva click with them. i will say that their very funny and accomadating 2 their womens needs from observation, i dnt think i would ever date 1 seriously but it is interesting 2 b around them. it gives me a chance 2 look on the outside looking in...i wish i knew more libras
Hi, newbie here on dxp. I saw this post and had to reply. No, a long time ago I was engaged to a wonderful Libra male. He was fun, classy, intelligent, generous, had excellent taste. He was one of the best relationships I've ever had. If I hadn't been so young when we were engaged I would have married him. I've never been that close, or intimate with anyone since, not even my own husband. Libra boy was my best friend. We did everything together. He was not ever hot and cold with me. He was a fixup through my two best Pisces friends. They knew we'd get along great. I went out with him right after a bad break up the day before. I expected nothing out of it because I was still hurting. I ended clicking so well w/him that I just had to give him a chance. Never regretted it.
are we that bad
Depends on the person describing you. I don't think so personally.
Posted by Pride of 0ctober
cuz damn we get the shit bashed out of us on here, generalizing and prejudice go hand in hand.click to expand
Generalizing and prejudice is on every individual zodiac forum. Libras are wonderful to those who enjoy them and horrible to those who had a bad experience, just like any other sign.
Posted by LisaLeo
if you ask me, ppl get upset because the Libra decision process is logical but shows no mercy. Society teaches us to give points for trying (even without succeeding), but Libra won't settle untill they really find their true partner.
LisaLeo, I don't know how you did it, but I think you're the one with the true insight to Libras. That's basically the gist of the indecision. Props to you.
Posted by little_sparrow
Pshhha. Don't take it pesonal. Look at the source. There is a reason why unreasonable people don't get along with libra.
In general, people think we see the velvet and think we are weak so they try to bully us into doing what they want. They always forget about the iron fist.
I agree with this too.
in my opinion I think saggis ar the worst...they dont care about peoples feelings...LIbras are nice, most friendly and most positive of all zodiac signs...I love them ( as friends ) 
Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
Some people should get out of the libra board a little more often and take a look at the other sign boards..
Same story, different actors.
I agree. Curious Visitor can get out of the Cancer board, she's the type of Libra that gives Libras a bad name.
Posted by Shaka_laka_boomboom
Some people should get out of the libra board a little more often and take a look at the other sign boards..
Same story, different actors.
yup yup... not taking it personal is the key I guess...
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