Aries girl confused abt libra man

I am really confused about this libra guy. We met through this professional website linkedin while I was looking for job in June. Later we started talking and he was guiding him and supporting me regarding my career. Hes been really sweet and caring to me. He used to message me like whole day while he was in office and while studying after coming back from office. Hes doing a course and plan to switch his job once the course. The course is abt to end in mid august..that what he says. I used to support him and tell him to study rather messaging me. But he said hes good at multitasking. He even initiated in asking to meet me. A day before his mid term exam, I told him to concentrate on studies and we can talk later on.He felt really nice about it. The nest day I wished him goodluck for the exam. At night, I just msged him asking abt his exm and asked him if we are meeting the next day. He said its doubtful cos renovation has started at his place so he needs to be there. His dad passed away when he was young. Hes 27. That day after coming back from dinner with friends, he msged apologizing that he couldnt talk properly to me.

He used to apologize for evry late reply. He even tried meeting me tht day. We had a great time. He
showed me his family and friends pictures in his fone. Later while he was dropping me home, he said
he wanted to kiss me. But I said I am comfortable wit kissing on his cheek. So we kissed each oder on
cheeks. Before this we did discuss abt the status of r relationship on which he said we r special frnds.Later on we turned vry gud frnds.. I didn't concentrate on labels cos I was feeling special..a week later he msges requesting to stay frnds fr time being cos hes busy wit course thing and hes feels mentally pressured if he doesn't msg me on time as he feels I feel bad and this makes him feel bad abt it.I dint wanted to push him and felt its just abt a mnth or so.. so I agreed giving him his space.

Later after 10 days I went for an interview near his office and made a plan to meet him a day bfre my
interview. He wasn't excited..no clue why..he was more like you shudnt push ur self for it..hes ok if I dunt hav to travel much.. and nxt day hes all excited..msged me gud morning..wht time is ur interview n wen will I get free.. guess what he did..he took an half day fr me..planned fr lunch n movie..gave me a surprise.. he dint behave as frnds..which we had discussed earlier. He kissed on hands while watching movie..we ate from one spoon.. n while he was dropping me home, he randomly kissed on my sideneck.I was all confused because he said we r supposed to act as frnds n then he was all mushy wit me.. I said this to him n he backed off..he dint ans to my ques.he said he will think n ans latr..we had his awkward silence in his car..i left without saying bye.. he initiated to brk the ice by msging me gud morning the next day.. after like 2 days he was aloof..into his things..i felt neglected..I thot of calling n shared my feelings wit him..he said thts y he had told me to stay frnds..hes busy wit wrk n course so unable to giv me time. Days went..

1 day i felt nice hes msging initiating to talk..(we used to alternatively take initiatives..like
naturally.. ) and the odr day hes all aloof n distant.. I used to control my emotions bt
once or twice shared wit him.. n gt the same ans tht hes busy wit course thing.. case studies.presentations..wrk pressure..n exm pressure.. I was understandng n controlling
my craving to talk to him.. I tried asking him if we cud meet..he showed interest n we
tried making a plan for movie bt suddenly he rembred tht he shud ask his mother if she
has sum wrk..n hen he tld me tht he has to go to sum relative's place. I said replied cool.
Later in the evening his msges tht hes still dere till dinner so wun b able to msg me.. I
found it weird cos I wasnt msging/calling him..

Now the talk has decreased.. I was initiating fr past week/10 days n I dint do 1 day..so
he msged me.. now his exm is ovr bt hes busy wit presentations n wrk.. n busy studyng
fr interviews.. I dint do anythng fr 2 days n he also dint msg me..i called him yestrday
asking him hws evrythng..he said hes been busy wrking.. gng fr wrk early n coming
home late.. we had like 7 min talk.I asked him to meet me sumday n he tld me abt his
plan wit frnds. so he will let me knw wen he can meet.latr i was near his place n thot of
asking him to meet me like fr 5 mins..he msged me tht hes nt at his place n driving. I
saw his car parked outside his house. Is he avoiding me? He seemed to be interested
n made clear tht hes busy wit course thing.. I am all confused. Has he lost interest..?
I asked him the same..n he said its nevr been the case of nt interested hes just been
busy..hes been meeting frnds..den y no time fr me? What should I do? I really like
him..How to make him chase me?

i am sorry for such a big story bt i am really confused. whenever I ask him is he ignoring me/nt interested he just tells me he is been busy wit course thing and job so hardly get time. And later he tells me tht he went out wit frnds.. so if he can take out time for frnds..y nt me.. why understandng is expected frm me? once he said he isnt looking for a relationship ryt now cos he lacks time.. I am getting hyper day by day.,.gng all crazy in my head.. really need a good advice. I just dont want to lose him bt how can sum1 stay frnds wit person whom u like.. hes all sweet to me.. never ignores my msges/calls.

I m not in the position to give opinion ( because i m a gemini and also have troubles with a libra man) What i tell u could just be a reference. Libra women are better at analyzing your situation I m sure.

In my opinion. It seems like he's losing interest tbh. 😢 if u really want him, let him chase u or at least take the initiative to contact u. If he told you he doesn't want a relationship, let it be.

I m dating a libra , he's a jerk ... Always late and flaky for dates. But at least , he would contact me almost everyday and replies to my messages quite quickly. And he would call whenever I ignored him for few hours. And he told me he wants a relationship and he said I m his gf.

You are lucky because u haven't slept with him or officially dating him. You could still see someone else. It would be really hard to break off once you have started with him. They are natural charmers , just like satan.

Good luck 😢

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