Back with Libra Man -repost from Astrology Board
This topic was created in the Libra forum by H243 on Tuesday, April 16, 2013 and has 3 replies.
I accidentally posted in Astrology and then saw I could post on libra board...sorry.
I am a Sagitarrius woman dating a libra man and am not sure what is going on. It's a long story so I apologize. We started dating last year and were together for 3 months. During that time things were perfect but he was a little over the top...texting me every 10 minutes telling me he missed me and things moved extremely fast. We were practically living together, but then had 2 arguments over this ex-girlfriend of his that he was still friends with and who is still in love with him but he says he has no interest in other than friendship. He broke up with me because he said that he knew that eventually we would end up fighting over her again and would rather end it before we went too far and he got hurt. I should say that when we were together I joked about him being over the top and really did analyze everything he did which he said drove him crazy. For example if he didn't hold my hand I would think something was wrong because he normally did,
Two months ago I wrote him an email saying that I was in love with him and realized I had been wrong about being jealous about his ex-girlfriend that he is still friends with. We started dating again, but this time it is completely different. He now only wants to see me about once a week and even though he is extremely busy with work this time, even when he has the time we don't spend it together. When we are together it is amazing, but he isn't even close to over the top. I am the one texting him that I miss him, etc. Can anyone tell me what is going on? Is he just taking it slow or does he not want to be with me? By the way, I have known him for 5 years, so I am not a crazy girl who just fell in love after a few months.
I am a Sagitarrius woman dating a libra man and am not sure what is going on. It's a long story so I apologize. We started dating last year and were together for 3 months. During that time things were perfect but he was a little over the top...texting me every 10 minutes telling me he missed me and things moved extremely fast. We were practically living together, but then had 2 arguments over this ex-girlfriend of his that he was still friends with and who is still in love with him but he says he has no interest in other than friendship. He broke up with me because he said that he knew that eventually we would end up fighting over her again and would rather end it before we went too far and he got hurt. I should say that when we were together I joked about him being over the top and really did analyze everything he did which he said drove him crazy. For example if he didn't hold my hand I would think something was wrong because he normally did,
Two months ago I wrote him an email saying that I was in love with him and realized I had been wrong about being jealous about his ex-girlfriend that he is still friends with. We started dating again, but this time it is completely different. He now only wants to see me about once a week and even though he is extremely busy with work this time, even when he has the time we don't spend it together. When we are together it is amazing, but he isn't even close to over the top. I am the one texting him that I miss him, etc. Can anyone tell me what is going on? Is he just taking it slow or does he not want to be with me? By the way, I have known him for 5 years, so I am not a crazy girl who just fell in love after a few months.
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I think this is more a guy thing and not necessarily a Libra thing.
You showed jealousy of the ex and over analyzed gestures that he wanted to do.
He likes you enough to try it again, but is probably treading lightly since you came across insecure and insensitive to his feelings.
You showed jealousy of the ex and over analyzed gestures that he wanted to do.
He likes you enough to try it again, but is probably treading lightly since you came across insecure and insensitive to his feelings.
Hmm, I think there are few Libra traits present there. I??m shocked to hear that a sagg over analyzed anything. Life is too fast for most of them slow down to even try to analyze. However, when you made jokes about him being over the top, he might??ve laughed it off with you but he made a mental note not to do that the next time, which explains his somewhat distant behavior. Libra??s are always watching their partners every move, even when you think we aren??t. We are making a mental note of everything. Don??t ask me why, we just do. We are the natural born analyzers and yes it drives us plain bonkers. As far as how you acted towards his ex, I would need a little more detail about how he interacted with her before I gave opinion on it, because truth of the matter is the fact that he KNOWS his ex is still in love with him and he still hangs with her is disrespectful to yall relationship period. He needs to put himself in your shoes.
Take me for example, I have a Pisces ex, whom I know for a fact is very much still in love with me. I have no romantic feelings for him whatsoever. However I do care for him, because he was a part of my life for so long, since age 13. So even though I have no feelings for him, I still check to see how he??s doing and everything. BUT, I wouldn??t do that if I were in a relationship with someone because I know how he feels about me. I know that anytime I check in on him, he sees it as an opportunity for us, which is certainly not the case. There is NO attraction at all. So since I know that, I wouldn??t jeopardize a relationship with someone I honestly do like in that way, for someone I don??t. It simply wouldn??t make sense on my part.
Take me for example, I have a Pisces ex, whom I know for a fact is very much still in love with me. I have no romantic feelings for him whatsoever. However I do care for him, because he was a part of my life for so long, since age 13. So even though I have no feelings for him, I still check to see how he??s doing and everything. BUT, I wouldn??t do that if I were in a relationship with someone because I know how he feels about me. I know that anytime I check in on him, he sees it as an opportunity for us, which is certainly not the case. There is NO attraction at all. So since I know that, I wouldn??t jeopardize a relationship with someone I honestly do like in that way, for someone I don??t. It simply wouldn??t make sense on my part.
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