boring Libra

craps!

ok, I know we have bigger issues here and I should not be complaining...
but...


I'm FREAKIN' BORED with my LIBRA...

ugh...

bored, unsatisfied, uninterested, unchallenged, un-, un-, un- UNEVERYTHING.

there.

I don't even feel like talking to him.
Why? because he's pulling the same shit as before, and, even though he is trying to CONDENSE contact in one call - it's all just not there.
And I KNOW it.
I feel it in my gut. I don't want to have any of it.


I said it. I think the guy is booooorrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrring.

Now, I need to find some way of letting him out nicely, gently, like a good fishy back into the stream, instead of general major dump.

ugh...


vent over.
carry on.

I'd take a boring Libra anyday. I really cannot take this much excitement!

Posted by THEKingofLibra
meh.

that's my thoughts exactly

honestly, I think the guy was jsut stringing me on for the time of his deployment, now that ends in a couple weeks and he drops a "taking a break from talking when he returns" like WTF? I'm supposed to hang around till you get on the plane and than call it quits? well, in my mind it's: "fuck you too, babe" before you get on the plane.

ugh...LIbra's love and hate thing.

I just went over a chat we had in the morning, and I'm trying to see if I went overboard or over reacted, but in view of many things, no, I have not. So fuck it.

I'm done. I'm angry at him and done.
He is trying and was trying to manipulate this whole thing for so long and never realized that I see right through it, but was patient, not my patience has run it's course and I don't even care to look back on anything.

Posted by roamingfree
honestly, I think the guy was jsut stringing me on for the time of his deployment, now that ends in a couple weeks and he drops a "taking a break from talking when he returns" like WTF? I'm supposed to hang around till you get on the plane and than call it quits? well, in my mind it's: "fuck you too, babe" before you get on the plane.

ugh...LIbra's love and hate thing.

I just went over a chat we had in the morning, and I'm trying to see if I went overboard or over reacted, but in view of many things, no, I have not. So fuck it.

I'm done. I'm angry at him and done.
He is trying and was trying to manipulate this whole thing for so long and never realized that I see right through it, but was patient, not my patience has run it's course and I don't even care to look back on anything.

Take it slow and steady and you won't lose him.. taking a break from talking is nothing, really.. they need some space.. not stringing you along or anything. Personally, I don't like to talk to someone everyday. Sometimes people need to talk less.
You are so dramatic. just let go. read a book or go take a walk. nothing has changed.

he returns in about 4-6 weeks...so is he expecting me to hold his hand while he's still deployed and let go when he gets off the plane so he can let loose?...hmmm...yeah....let me hold my breath...he can have this break right now. for good.

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Posted by roamingfree
honestly, I think the guy was jsut stringing me on for the time of his deployment, now that ends in a couple weeks and he drops a "taking a break from talking when he returns" like WTF? I'm supposed to hang around till you get on the plane and than call it quits? well, in my mind it's: "fuck you too, babe" before you get on the plane.

ugh...LIbra's love and hate thing.

I just went over a chat we had in the morning, and I'm trying to see if I went overboard or over reacted, but in view of many things, no, I have not. So fuck it.

I'm done. I'm angry at him and done.
He is trying and was trying to manipulate this whole thing for so long and never realized that I see right through it, but was patient, not my patience has run it's course and I don't even care to look back on anything.

its the same, same sun, same moon, same mars, and the same happened to him...

he doesnt mean it anyway, he is just working his ideal meeting with you, "taking it slow", he actually is interested but cant admit it. i sure when he meets you, it will be the other way round, u will be the slow taker one, not him... lolz.

just be another little bit patient and ull c i was right!

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we already met irl...this is just a one UGH... 😢

Posted by TasteOfChaos
You're about as wishy washy, confusing and as indecisive as a Libra...


http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/messages.asp?id=2459518

it's his fault. I want black or white. I leave the gray for my kids.

to sum up a relationship between Libra and Gemini:

a single Gemini girl minds her own world roaming from place to place carefree as can be, but...along comes a Libra and says: hey there, happy and content all around Gemini girl...and she perks her head to the side thinking: hmmm...you're a little different...let me analyze you...and so the unsuspecting girl falls for the general Idon'tknowwhatIwant from life Libra charms...


seriously. that's exactly how that plays out.

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honestly, I think the guy was jsut stringing me on for the time of his deployment, now that ends in a couple weeks and he drops a "taking a break from talking when he returns" like WTF? I'm supposed to hang around till you get on the plane and than call it quits? well, in my mind it's: "fuck you too, babe" before you get on the plane.

ugh...LIbra's love and hate thing.

I just went over a chat we had in the morning, and I'm trying to see if I went overboard or over reacted, but in view of many things, no, I have not. So fuck it.

I'm done. I'm angry at him and done.
He is trying and was trying to manipulate this whole thing for so long and never realized that I see right through it, but was patient, not my patience has run it's course and I don't even care to look back on anything.

its the same, same sun, same moon, same mars, and the same happened to him...

he doesnt mean it anyway, he is just working his ideal meeting with you, "taking it slow", he actually is interested but cant admit it. i sure when he meets you, it will be the other way round, u will be the slow taker one, not him... lolz.

just be another little bit patient and ull c i was right!

we already met irl...this is just a one UGH... 😢

yes i know uve already met him, i mean when he comes back, u said he wants a break for 4-6 weeks. possibly telling him its 4 weeks rather 6 i guess so u are both happy...

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he wants to carry on till he gets on that darn plane from Iraq and THEN have a break from talking - like wtf? do to what?...meh...he can go ahead with that...on his own. he can have that break right now...for good.

ugh 😢

kwim?

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to sum up a relationship between Libra and Gemini:

a single Gemini girl minds her own world roaming from place to place carefree as can be, but...along comes a Libra and says: hey there, happy and content all around Gemini girl...and she perks her head to the side thinking: hmmm...you're a little different...let me analyze you...and so the unsuspecting girl falls for the general Idon'tknowwhatIwant from life Libra charms...


seriously. that's exactly how that plays out.

all in his weird manners and funny ways... yes same description... it was SO WEIRD for me!!!

WHO'S THIS GUY... all rough and muscled and dressed up with holes in the pants hahahahaha funny!!!

lol@gem girl, thats also the way he talks! alright—

alright— alright—? hey!, oh alright!!!! oh yeah!!!
#
shit, really—!!! hahahahaha

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that is EXACTLY how that plays out...and YOU know it 😛 😄

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Posted by roamingfree
honestly, I think the guy was jsut stringing me on for the time of his deployment, now that ends in a couple weeks and he drops a "taking a break from talking when he returns" like WTF? I'm supposed to hang around till you get on the plane and than call it quits? well, in my mind it's: "fuck you too, babe" before you get on the plane.

ugh...LIbra's love and hate thing.

I just went over a chat we had in the morning, and I'm trying to see if I went overboard or over reacted, but in view of many things, no, I have not. So fuck it.

I'm done. I'm angry at him and done.
He is trying and was trying to manipulate this whole thing for so long and never realized that I see right through it, but was patient, not my patience has run it's course and I don't even care to look back on anything.

Ouch, well that's different I guess.
Taking a break when he returns sounds a bit harsh tbh, going off what you posted previous to that.
So fair play to you there.🙂

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that's the thing...he's "giving" me the fair play...meh...Libra boy...he's not amusing me so much anymore...I'm dissatisfied with his and mine performance, and you know where that will go... ---> straight out the door...

yeah...I know...it's been a take take not give and take 😢
and thank you. honestly. 🙂

Posted by amethyst2002
Not really. He stopped trying as in it was hard to get him to do anything anymore. All he wanted to do was play video games and he became really inconsiderate, which is what I mean by "out of hand." I'm not talking about the wooing stuff that a lot of stuck up bitches expect 24-7. Expecting a little consideration isn't asking much, imo.

Don't even get me started on how he didn't bother being there for me when my grandma died.

So explain, how was I lazy?

Also, when I say the laziness affects the other in the relationship, I'm referring to the guy not even putting forth much effort in being a decent boyfriend/human being. Getting lazy and just stringing someone along for your own uses, whether it be emotional or sexual, is ridiculous. To expect something more than that bs is laziness?

that's pretty much it.

Posted by amethyst2002
I'm not referring to funerals or anything. I never expected him to go. I meant as far as emotional support, he wasn't there. I don't remember specifics, but I just remember being able to call him and tell him what happened. But he pretty much "disappeared," on me after that. I may have seen him once or twice after that point, but I know that around that time I went almost 2 weeks without physically seeing him, partially due to schedules and partially due to his flakiness (read: his prioritizing Call of Duty).

But I definitely agree with you. Oddly enough, it's something I have to remind myself about him. Along with all the confusion, he pulled that bs. Wtf yo.

Some people's children.

I'm actually not too surprised with RF's case. I get it better than I can explain why I get it, if that makes sense.

all you said makes perfect sense. sorry about his flakiness when it came to your needs during the time of your family's need.

btw, on a side note this is my horoscope for a week:
Gemini Horoscope (May 21-June 20)-
"This is a good week for romance as your luck in love seems unstoppable. A first date may go very well and could lead to more; or if you are committed, your relationship has a good chance of heating up."

wtf—HEATING UP as in FRIED to a CRISP? lmao

Posted by aquagirl24
hahahaha i just think its been a terrible weak for the libras as it seems theyve all been dumped... will they ever understand— i say no!!!

Yes, yes it has been a terrible week..

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hahahaha i just think its been a terrible weak for the libras as it seems theyve all been dumped... will they ever understand— i say no!!!

Yes, yes it has been a terrible week..

well its not our fault, as u can see from our posts we tried our bests... 🙂 didnt we—

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I wasn't pointing any fingers.. Just confirming that your comment on this week being terrible and the fact that we just won't understand.

you both are cracking me up - Thank YOU.

well, you know it's up and down here 😢
pretty shitty at the moment, can't wait till the time passes so it's a distant memory.
thank you for your words though - I appreciate it. 🙂

arg...what is it with men?
I did my sulking and riding the emotional roller coaster for 2 days, and today I wake up feeling much better and semi aiming for the happy place I was in before Mr. Libra decided to stroll into my life, totally unlooked for by my...and today, I turn the puter on, check my fbook, watch some news, make coffee, change the clocks, everything but check my emails...than finally after about an hour of feeling alright, and taking charge of my life...I go and check my email, not expecting anything from him, but undeniably, after the Friday morning fiasco, and my laying it out to him what bothers me...here it is:

K,

Ok...I am done sulking. I am gonna call you later, so we can talk. We
need to iron some things out, Baby. Kiss.

Always yours,
J.



wtf—


now what do I do with him??

Posted by LibraLuv
roamingfree.... LISTEN TO THIS Okay pumpkin!

THE.LIBRA.FUCKING.LOVES.YOU.... heeheehee. I thought I would try some of you guys' (. . .) inbetween words. I think that is so cute... anyhoo... back to what I was saying before the interruption of the news broadcast in my own mind... Don't worry, I get my own jokes...haha. anyway.

WOMAN! STOP PLAYING! THE MAN LOVES YOU... It's our (Libras) way. I know it's different, but I'm sure you my dear have done something to him and he is not letting go. He had to pull back in order to think about what was happening to him. You have obviously changed his life in a good way. I'm smiling about that 🙂

Enjoy this love that you are receiving from him, be the stabilizer that you gems can be for us. We are the stabilizers for other people, but don't forget we have to be stabilized as well. You are it for him, embrace it. Show that man the love that only you can give.

In the words of ewashington... What ever happened to him.. anyway...Peace be unto you, babes. 😉

my Libra may love me, but I'm loving your advice 🙂 Thank You

@ amethyst:
we took the "beast" apart today. he's sorry. I will give him a break, because he IS deployed. The reality there is different than ours. We shall see. However - You are right, I will keep my distance somewhat. In the end it's only a few short weeks left, in about a week, our communication will be down to a minimum until he's here again - he will not have his private net, because they will be moving into transition housing.

So, in that regard I will keep your advice. He's only done the cooling off once, and it was short lived, so we shall see. Everything will be different when he's back.

@KOL - niiiiiice face.... lol

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@ amethyst:
we took the "beast" apart today. he's sorry. I will give him a break, because he IS deployed. The reality there is different than ours. We shall see. However - You are right, I will keep my distance somewhat. In the end it's only a few short weeks left, in about a week, our communication will be down to a minimum until he's here again - he will not have his private net, because they will be moving into transition housing.

So, in that regard I will keep your advice. He's only done the cooling off once, and it was short lived, so we shall see. Everything will be different when he's back.

@KOL - niiiiiice face.... lol

its different, u sent him that mail. i told u he likes u, problem is showing it... that is THE PROBLEM... capri moaner... mooner :/

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lmao@ capri moaner....yeah, I wish he has something else instead of that, lol - drives me bananas, but than I have a virgo to try to blend with that - another moaner to me...we like to moan I guess lol...he's trying, though...sheesh...like I have to pull on the leash every so often on a silly dog to remind him how to walk beside me...well, few more weeks of this nonsense and than its real life.

it's exhausting though. partially I think because there is so many other things on a plate, and deployment is like a bad, bad, bad pregnancy.

lol, me too...he's going out of his way on reassurances - that's all he can do from sandbox. It would be unreasonable to expect more, so I'm just going to sit back and take the scenic route to this...or at least try to, because who am I kiddin' I will dive right into it. lol

darn combination. lol

all I can say now is: crazzzzy boys

Libras....crazzzzy boys...but...caps are nuts, saggs are wild, scorps are good for bed only, virgos are lame, leos are fun, but I dont want to blow air up their ass all the time, gems - annoyance, bulls and rams - same ol stubborn ramming into the wall, and pisces....horrible...I don't really have a choice...so mind as well roll with it...
hopefully some of us don't lose our minds 😉

and when a boy keeps saying to a girl: wild horses, baby, wild horses...well, that kind of settles it lol

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hahahaha i just think its been a terrible weak for the libras as it seems theyve all been dumped... will they ever understand— i say no!!!

Yes, yes it has been a terrible week..

well its not our fault, as u can see from our posts we tried our bests... 🙂 didnt we—

I wasn't pointing any fingers.. Just confirming that your comment on this week being terrible and the fact that we just won't understand.

what fingers— ahhh i think u might have cap stuff in you, maybe that is why ur week has been terrible... 😛

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Cap in my moon uranus and neptune.. And why was last week so terrible? Did something shift or move? I'm really curious!

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hahahaha i just think its been a terrible weak for the libras as it seems theyve all been dumped... will they ever understand— i say no!!!

Yes, yes it has been a terrible week..

well its not our fault, as u can see from our posts we tried our bests... 🙂 didnt we—

I wasn't pointing any fingers.. Just confirming that your comment on this week being terrible and the fact that we just won't understand.

what fingers— ahhh i think u might have cap stuff in you, maybe that is why ur week has been terrible... 😛

Cap in my moon uranus and neptune.. And why was last week so terrible? Did something shift or move? I'm really curious!

fecking hell!!!

is that your moon, are u concerned— i dont know but its been a bad week for all the libra suns cap moons ive spoken to.

i dont know are you in a relationship atm—

pm coming up lolz. x

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No relationship for me.. I haven't felt good about one since two years ago. My week has progressed a little bit. I apologized to some of my friends that I had distanced for the week. I'm curious as to why so many libra sun/cap moons have experienced such negativity this week. Was there some kind of transition in the stars or something last week?