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Apr 03, 2011Comments: 0 · Posts: 1451 · Topics: 31
decides ( "saying" is a different thing)its over . . its really over. I tend to cut ties ties with closest to me in a very airy way. Like a quick samurai slice very precise but no way of putting the pieces back. I tend to disappear like air just like that. Changed numbers , deactivate facebook, change emails and if its possible change jobs and address. . . . easiest would be changing hair haha. Yeah I would give that person all the chance to fix everything and mend the relationship but when my heart pleads to me that it cant take any hurt anymore i get an instant decision of leaving. Sometimes when my heart is like dying and shit its feels like it wants to come out of my chest and find a smarter mind and body to live on. Im tempted to throw away my cellphone coz i memorized his number. Im strong. Im a fucking Libra. I have experienced heartaches, i can survive this shit.
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Oct 21, 2011Comments: 91 · Posts: 2252 · Topics: 23
Be strong my dear Libra.. in no time you will find yourself without heartbreak. It may take a bit but eventually things do get easier with time. Don't throw away your cell hun you'll regret that because you will eventually have to get another.
Keep busy, surround yourself around things you love to do and people you love to be around. If you feel yourself getting all mushy again about him then try to think of the reasons of why you said enough. The heart has a tendency to over look the issues and the bad that initiated the original decision to leave. Remind yourself over and over again until it becomes subconscious when you think of him you think of his faults. That helps a lot!
I'm getting a divorce from a Cancer whom I was married for in 13 years. I understand where you are coming from. Just remember you will be stronger Libra and a better woman from all of this. Keep your head up high my darling! Keep moving and focus on refueling your soul.
Lots of love, compassion , and good thoughts!
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Oct 21, 2011Comments: 91 · Posts: 2252 · Topics: 23
sorry to hear about the divorce thing. Its just like everytime i feel the relationship is ending i feel so afraid of whats gonna happen next. I know someday ild be okay but i wanted to be more than ok. Evry relationship i give my all and more thats why it so draining when it fails its like " fuck it im done working". thank you this made me feel better.
Aww thanks but don't be hun! I am so much healthier and happier without him. I completely understand. I give myself fully and when it's not reciprocated it kills. The fear of the unknown it a bitc* but just think your soul mate can be around the corner just waiting for you. Be positive my dear! It will all work out for the best. =D
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Mar 31, 2011Comments: 0 · Posts: 373 · Topics: 29
Yeah..I am like this too
I'm hugely influenced by my Libra rising..indecisive..but when it comes to break ups..I always cut off everything and burn the bridges. Never ever, ever think about going back, or being friends. Never.
Only one exception..my Cancer ex. Because I just can't hate him LOL so we are still friends, and we are still sweet with each other which is a weird thing, knowing me...