Can you hear me now?

hello everyone again! Months ago i met a libra guy. he was funny. we laughed and talked on the phone for hours. i told him that i was not romantically interested in him but he seemed like he would be a cool friend. he didn't really care to hear that so he stopped calling me. just the other day out of the clear blue he called me and was like hi lady how have you been? seeing as how i didn't recognize the number or voice i replied who the hell is this? after he identified himself we spoke for a few minutes and he was like i was giving you some space to get rid of the older guy you were seeing. i had to once again tell him that he is friend material. he has called for the past few days everyday. do libra men hear only what they want to hear?

Well if i like a girl i don't accept a no that easly
+ it's a challange , how can you not want a libra ?

Upheaval- i love libras. they are great.my last boyfriend was a libra. then he turned out to be a jerk. but man was he hot. how many times does a woman have to tell you know before you give up? he would be a great friend but nothing more.

"do libra men hear only what they want to hear?"

Aren't we all like that—

Mmmm i don't give up unless i suddenly realise the girl has flaws or if i met someone more interesting..
But than again i've got a stuborn , persevering taurus moon

They're relentless. He'll change your mind, it's his mission now. 😉

what kind of flaws??

I have always been with Libras that dont mind a strong woman
then there was some Gem. that stated how to be soo lady-like
uh, those are gem's

Aqua's are supposed to be compatible w. Lib's but most Aqua's I know (my moon included) are/were sorta tomboys...

i thought so too(aquas and libras being compatible). i am rough and tough but i also know how to turn on the 100% lady persona. with my last libra we bumped heads only when i went against his wishes and stated my own opinion about certain things. needles to say the guy i started this post about stopped calling again. he'll probably call in another few months. lol.

yup, rough and tough (to a point)

I can hang with and be friends with the garbage guy as well as a blue collar bloke from the upper east side- makes no diff. to me.

Libra's I find, find interest in the chick that dznt really want them...they can be so independent with a lot of things going on in their head that a girl that is just as independent is appealing to them...(most of the time). the more we pull away the more they chase...I think they like to chase...that's my vague understanding...its gives them time to sort out their crap (I hate that word butter for s**t)

I have had significant Libra's and insignificant Libra's in my life and I swear its the ones that I wasnt so interested in were the ones that chased me and *bonus-were the ones that proved to be the best of friends later when the chase died down...I have one that was a great friend and we hung out for months and maybe into a year or so... he finally got drunk enuff one nite to come out with (what is wrong with me that you dont want to date me—) ugghhhh- he was just not physically doing it for me...but so much freaking fun.

white collar bloke is what I meant to say - no diff.
basically my friends are far and wide

another Libra was into me and later became my roommate. He had in a round about way implied that he wanted to date (we were roommates 2 separate times in 2 separate places and a year or so apart from ea. times)
he came back to the area as did I and he stayed. Partly to help me out I suppose and part to see if I'd date him then...neither.
I even dated other guys and he still hung around and waited to see.

He went back home finally after several years of hanging with me, met a girl, got married months later, had kids - he was so much fun (we had so much fun)
I wound up regretting not seeing where that would have gone- marriage I am sure...years later, here I sit.

well guys low and behold he came to my job today. he was like why haven't i heard from you lately. i responed dude did you forget i just spoke with you the day before yesterday? he was like but you didn't call yesterday. can i get a call when you get off tonight or at least before 2009? i said if it's not too late. anyway, i hate to be questioned because too many questions make me feel like i'm on the verge of being smothered/confined and i instantly got pissed. can someone explain this form of chasing? thanks.

no, they dont break up w. you...they just ask you a million times "is this going anywhere" and when you cant answer them straight off (which is what they are totally capable of as well)...they go and look for someone else, still hanging on to you...until they find someone else and then, like pussy's let the chips fall where they lay

responsibility for their actions sometimes elude them...that's the maddening part.

bullshit
asshole
dickhead
butt munch
just curious what the system will come up with when typing not so nice words.
sorry...

fuckmunch
dumbass
pussy
shithead

butterhead - that's funny.

if a libra man says don't call me again during an argument does he really mean it?