Clarify the libra please

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I would like some insight into both Libra males and females, as reading online simply brings further confusion. Both of my parents are Libras & I am dating a Libra... But sometimes I can't read them...

Online I read: (please clarify further with examples or experience):
1) libras lie/ libras are completely honest?
2) libras are committed and faithful/ libras cheat?
3) libras don't feel deep emotions/ libras feel deep emotions
4) can you clarify when they're indecisive and why.
5) if they want men or women & get them, then they don't know what to do with them?
6) long for commitment/ too scared to make a commitment.

I've grown up all around libras and would love some insight to better understand the conflicting info out there
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In my experience

1. Yes they've all lied. Be it small or large. I've known a lot of libras males/female
2. I feel in the beginning yes their faithful. Or sexually faithful anyways. But I think when they realize their mate isn't perfect then they seek affection somewhere else and not worrying how this effects the person they are with. Which causes (see #1) lies
3.hmmm...maybe to a point. They move on to fast for me to believe they feel real deep emotions. In the honeymoon stage HELL YEAH they do but do they really? My ex libra told me ppl come in your life for a short period or a long period. And that's how he breaks them down. PERIOD. No need for the dramatics he moves on. Even the females to me.
4.they don't like making the wrong decision. When me and my ex libra broke up he was like let's be friends because this isn't going to work. As soon as I said NOPE then he wanted to work it out again. It's like I want to put you on the shelf during my downtime or as a back up just in case.
5 shinny and new. My ex told several lies to get me and I don't think he thought about the consequences as if I wouldn't find out. I want what I want when I want and will do whatever to get it. I've dealt with three libras all different but ended up the same. All cheated and lied and never understood why you're upset. I'm going through a break up over one so no contact. But the other two called eventually and acted like shit as GREAT between us and will ask you out the whole thing. It's like they have amnesia or something lol
6. See #4. It depends on motive and compatibility. I was in a relationship with two but the first one I found out was going through shit with his ex and. Didnt know until after the fact. Lol he's married now and has the picture perfect life but this fool is still cheating smdh. I see him at work and he STILL calls my desk disguising his number to get me to answer. Smh.

Girl good luck it ma not be worth it.
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What if your relationship is an incomprehensible confusion for both parties involved? I feel we want to talk. Maybe. But neither of us will start or maybe she's waiting for me to do it...... I don't know what to make of her behavior, and she....... she seems to wait and if nothing happens, gets desperate and distances herself far enough that she isn't near me, but close enough so that we can observe each other. This is a mess. :/
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No, and that's the problem; in Spanish, there are words that are way similar sounding, so I could have sworn that someone who would know said that she does but the conversation was not with me, and the person who said it is someone who I know likes me, so she would probably be hurt were I to ask about it. This Libra however became overly observant when she found out my orientation and seems to have people watching me when she can't be wherever I'm at. I'm way shy and she..... I don't know. Like I said, she seems to be maybe expecting something from me. A lot of the people who she's pals with and know about this thing have reached out to me although this isn't something brought up though another Libra seemed to try to squeeze it out. When she did something a while back, I tried to hide my smile from her coworkers who observe me, and someone shouted, "IN LOVE!!!" but I disagree as if it was me they were referring to, that word is too strong for someone who's only said four words to her.q
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Posted by Sugarfoot
There's gotta be some way you could figure out her orientation. It's too much of a risk for you to just chance it because she works with you. You're in a tough position : /. Sounds like she does know you're interested though.



Oh, we're not coworkers per se, we just work in the same place but for different people. Sadly, the last thing you mentioned is probably true. l wish I were more discreet with my interest, but for some reason I can't be. But she seems to take mental notes about me since she found out about me based on who I saw her speaking with and all the crap that has happened in the last almost six months. I'm starting to wonder if she's being extra friendly to the one coworker of mineshe gets along with in an effort to pull out info from her though I know she won't say anything unless ms. Libra reveals her intentions first.

Regarding Libra and jealousy, I don't know if that's what I'm seeing on her face when she sees me with other women or if she's angry for a completely different reason. Regardless, the influx of her coworkers she gets along with most talking to me was rather slow in the beginning and suddenly increased. If this actually has anything to do with me, I wonder if she and/or a few of her people have been reading up on astrology or paying loads of attention to how my interactions work. I hear you all are freakishly observant in an effort to be as informed as possible. 😆
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Online I read: (please clarify further with examples or experience):
1) libras lie/ libras are completely honest?
2) libras are committed and faithful/ libras cheat?
3) libras don't feel deep emotions/ libras feel deep emotions
4) can you clarify when they're indecisive and why.
5) if they want men or women & get them, then they don't know what to do with them?
6) long for commitment/ too scared to make a commitment.

1) I am always honest , almost to a fault , gets me in trouble sometimes
2) I am always loyal , when i desire someone else I get honest with myself about my present relationship , weigh the options and get out if I am swaying the other way
3) I feel , boy do I ever feel , but Iafter I feel for a bit , I get over it quite quickly , I have no patience for unnecessary drama
4) that question makes me dizzy , so no ....
5) after the newness wears off , if it gets boring or the other person gets lazy , I am out
6) yes , this has been true in my case , although my relationships have been long term , always , 13 years , 10 years , the last was 4 years

hope this helps
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If you look at what you typed you basically got your answer: balance. I tend to be brutally honest, but I lie as well. I've never cheated, but I just as soon end the relationship to just not have the title of cheater (a fine line, but a line). I feel my emotions deeply for certain things, for others not to much. The big thing is I rarely show it so it gives the appearance of no emotion (stoic would best describe it). I'm usually always indecisive haha, but if put with someone else who is the same I'll make the decision. It all sucks very much....