Confused about a married libra

Hello all! I was curious to know how do married libra guys act when they have a crush on someone else? I know they are generally flirtatious in nature and their flirting is usually harmless. But I also know they tend to be very faithful and loyal to their spouses. He flirts with a lot of women, including myself. But I get the sense that this guy is different around me, as in a bit more cautious. I have been wondering if that's bc he doesn't want to entertain any feelings of attraction towards me. I happen to be attracted to him but I doubt that he knows as I am careful not to be too obvious. Could it be that he senses that I like him? Or is it possible that he's attracted to me but is trying to push down those feelings? Thanks for your insight!

Be prepared to be burned down by the villagers. They do not take kindly to women going after married men...

He's married.

Rose get a life preferably one that does not include fixating over someone else's man.

Posted by Rose89
But I also know they tend to be very faithful and loyal to their spouses. He flirts with a lot of women, including myself.

LMAO! Yeah right! If they were very faithful and loyal to their spouses, you wouldn't see all the post that there are on libra board. Obviously the wife isn't pleasing and kissing his ass at home that he's seeking attention at work with y'all.

Rose this is uncanny manners, I would cut off all manner with him. If he would cheat to get you what makes you think he won't cheat to dismiss you. This should be enough red flags on behalf of cheating and flirtatious behavior. I know you may be thinking taking a chance to get him but you will be interested in many more men and lasso one before you get of age. Do not worry of being alone. Yes he is masking feelings he knows it would hurt his spouse too much, but in all manner please do not be a home wrecker do not even jump at the opportunity if he divorces her. But you don't have to take my word for it, just don't get burned in testing fire.

Posted by Rose89
Hello all! I was curious to know how do married libra guys act when they have a crush on someone else? I know they are generally flirtatious in nature and their flirting is usually harmless. But I also know they tend to be very faithful and loyal to their spouses. He flirts with a lot of women, including myself. But I get the sense that this guy is different around me, as in a bit more cautious. I have been wondering if that's bc he doesn't want to entertain any feelings of attraction towards me. I happen to be attracted to him but I doubt that he knows as I am careful not to be too obvious. Could it be that he senses that I like him? Or is it possible that he's attracted to me but is trying to push down those feelings? Thanks for your insight!

It's certainly possible the married man is attracted to you.

Hi tizani 🙂 haha what do you mean?

You are right for all we know, we could all be wrong. Haha your wisdom is always appreciated. Goodnight.

What is wrong with you?

Posted by rockyroadicecream
What is wrong with you?

exactly!

love your avatar rocky 🙂

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Posted by Rose89
But I get the sense that this guy is different around me, as in a bit more cautious.

That's probably what all the other women he flirts with is thinking as well.

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Maybe dude isn't doing anything wrong and he's cautious around this chic precisely because he IS married and she wants his dick.

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Posted by LivingOnPorpoise
Hi tizani 🙂 haha what do you mean?

Evening LOP 🙂

I mean the only thing the OP confirmed is that she likes him. The rest is just assumptions made on his behalf. Everyone here mentioning cheating, doing things behind his wife's back... all just assumptions. Anyway, I've outworn my usefulness in this thread. Ciao.

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Yeah, there's a lot going on like that lately - assumptions!

To the OP, the guy is married. You shouldn't bother figuring out how he feels. Stay away, he's MARRIED! I repeat, he's MARRIED!

May just be right sid, and Asema well said.

Posted by Rose89
Hello all! I was curious to know how do married libra guys act when they have a crush on someone else? I know they are generally flirtatious in nature and their flirting is usually harmless. But I also know they tend to be very faithful and loyal to their spouses. He flirts with a lot of women, including myself. But I get the sense that this guy is different around me, as in a bit more cautious. I have been wondering if that's bc he doesn't want to entertain any feelings of attraction towards me. I happen to be attracted to him but I doubt that he knows as I am careful not to be too obvious. Could it be that he senses that I like him? Or is it possible that he's attracted to me but is trying to push down those feelings? Thanks for your insight!

Uhmmmm..doesn't matter if he likes you or not, stop entertaining the thought. Your question doesn't come across as "he likes me as a friend"..it's coming across meaning "he likes me as in I could get with you if you allow me". Yes, most Libra's..male and female are big flirts and yes, it's usually harmless, but I get the hunch that you are asking this question as someone whose interested in more than just a friendship, and in that case, it's not good. Either way, it's TOXIC thoughts, and not much good ever comes out of garbage.

omg.

THERE ARE BILLIONS OF SINGLE MEN TO CHOOSE FROM. Focus on the signals from anyone among them. Or is that not enough for you?

Hello all! Thanks for your feedback. I appreciate it. He's a good guy and I believe he wouldn't cheat, nor do I want him to. I also have no intentions of snatching anyone's man. I was merely curious about why he acts a little differently around me. But you all do not know his mind, nor do I so there is no point in wondering. Thanks again!

Posted by Rose89
Hello all! Thanks for your feedback. I appreciate it. He's a good guy and I believe he wouldn't cheat, nor do I want him to. I also have no intentions of snatching anyone's man. I was merely curious about why he acts a little differently around me. But you all do not know his mind, nor do I so there is no point in wondering. Thanks again!

Not true. Us libras are linked together and do in fact know each other's minds.


Speaking as a formerly married libra man, it doesn't matter how attractive a woman was, I was married. Any flirting I did was just flirting. If one woman took it differently it is a reflection on their usual interactions, not mine. I treat everyone basically the same...it is nicer than most people and has been misinterpreted before.

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Posted by Rose89
But I get the sense that this guy is different around me, as in a bit more cautious.

That's probably what all the other women he flirts with is thinking as well.

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My thoughts exactly..they all think they are special

Posted by LibraSid

Posted by Rose89
Hello all! Thanks for your feedback. I appreciate it. He's a good guy and I believe he wouldn't cheat, nor do I want him to. I also have no intentions of snatching anyone's man. I was merely curious about why he acts a little differently around me. But you all do not know his mind, nor do I so there is no point in wondering. Thanks again!

Not true. Us libras are linked together and do in fact know each other's minds.

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I heart you haha.

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Posted by LibraSid

Posted by Rose89
Hello all! Thanks for your feedback. I appreciate it. He's a good guy and I believe he wouldn't cheat, nor do I want him to. I also have no intentions of snatching anyone's man. I was merely curious about why he acts a little differently around me. But you all do not know his mind, nor do I so there is no point in wondering. Thanks again!

Not true. Us libras are linked together and do in fact know each other's minds.

I heart you haha.

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Hahaha loved this reply too! Brilliant