Confused by a Libra male

So I'm having trouble trying to understand what's going on with my Libra friend. I seem to have scared him off and I'm not sure if it's a temporary thing and he just needs some space to think. I'm a Pisces, so I know I tend to get a bit too emotional/clingy. We both have really similar personalities and usually talk for 3+ hours (sometimes as much as 8 hrs) daily via skype. I really care about him and he knows it, he's said he feels the same about me, but he's going to be leaving for military basic training (UK) in a few weeks. I was kind of against getting close to him because of it, but he's the one that said that it doesn't really mean anything since he could come see me (I live in the US) after he's done with all his training. When we first started talking, I was really skeptical and sarcastic anytime I would say anything, I didn't want to let my guard down and end up liking him (definitely worked out well, aye? lol). He told me he would earn my trust. Any steps that were taken further into our affections for each other, he started and I followed. So have I scared him off because I began to take steps ahead of him? He said he didn't know what to say to me after I said I was going to be a little heartbroken once he left. I prodded him for a better answer and he told me that I made him feel guilty, and he would walk away if he thought my sadness outweighed my happiness with him. Libra males are the bane of my existence -__- I just always feel like as soon as I care for one, it's too much for them and they get all distant

Posted by tiziani
What were the answers you were prodding him for?

I guess I was kinda implying that I thought he would just disappear permanently after he leaves for his training. He knows I have major trust issues from dating another Libra that absolutely abused every bit of trust and affection I gave him. So I had to start making a conscious effort to hold off on sarcastic remarks after he would say something sweet to me or give me a compliment. I suppose I've been second-guessing how much he cares for me. After our last conversation, I'm pretty sure he's blocked me on skype, which is what I'm worried/hurt by. Then again, it could just be my renowned Pisces paranoia/pessimism causing me to believe that. So me being a wounded and stubborn Pisces, I've deleted him off of skype and a social networking site where we were friends. But now I wonder which direction that may cause him to go in. Will it lead him to realize how much he cares about me or just cause him to be completely done with me?

I know, you're absolutely right. 😢
I hope there's something I can do to patch things up at least, I would hate to lose him as a friend, seeing as how he's the only person I feel that understands me. I really did screw up this one

Thank you for your help/advice! 🙂

First of all, you had a mistake to not met each other , even he go to UK. a libra man will not forget you after meet you real. Trust me, I met one the same way as you, but I assure you , after a time, Libra men are bored of this "internet" life and he will disappear for a long time ... Then what will you do ? Why don't you acting now ? Is not important who has the posibility to come to meet , you or him. In my case I was the one who went to his city to meet him ( we are in the same country) as he is a policeman and cannot have free time so much and when he wants. So I decided to go to him. Libra men like decisive girls, so take the decisions if you want him not leave you in one day . They like someone who is brave and acting. You must have the initiative , he will appreciate this on you.
My Libra said the same, he will come to see me, but at last I took the decision to go to see him because he has no this time . We was took same as you before, after that when he was bored of internet life, just text messages , but not so often. Libra men not like pression and fast things. I always gave him space, even in this space (time) I was like "boiled at 100 degree" , but I tried to do other things to occupy my life , to be independent of him , to not let too mich the love feelings to come over my mind ... It is hard to do this, but you have to do it and if he see you are the one who give him that space ( Libra always need space for something ) , he will always be yours, even in this space he meet other girls ( because Libra never can stay alone , they are always in some way with someone near). You must not to be jealous at all ! Never show him jealosy because you will lose him.
I wish you good luck and happiness and be more decisive girl and take actions, you will see he likes this. Libra is very hard to decide to come to see you, I tell you from my experience this . He will say will come, will come, but when he wants do this, in his mind come a lot of questions that make him wait for you better to take this decision..
Anyway, it is worth , but never forget to give him space , time.... Must be very patient with him.

im a libra so i can relate,if he in the military besy give up he got shit for brains

plus u look very naive

I am also a Pisces female having issues with my Libra guy. I love him dearly but I am not sure what is going to happen in the end. Libras are a little diffucult most times. I wish I could help but i am a lost Piscean as well 😢