Confused, where do I stand?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by zolomc on Tuesday, March 5, 2013 and has 3 replies.
New to this forum... He's a Libra, I'm a Virgo
So I started 'seeing' my manager at work. We kept it secret and professional. We never let on at all that anything was going on.
We went on a few dates, we would text most days, I will go round his on his days off, everything was going great. (and the be clear we never had a sexual relationship, I wasn't ready)
It was Christmas and as we work in the nightclub business we were super busy and we saw each other less and less! I obviously made the mistake of asking where this was going too early, as he backed off. I gave him space and we would talk occasionally.
Now in the New Year, he has a night off and hits the town with the lads. The next day my best girlfriend at work rings me to tell me he went home with a girl that night. It upset me a lot.
Two weeks later we have a training session at work, afterwards I go to the gym, he goes to the pub for drinks with others from work. That night I get calls and voicemail's from him, not making a lot of sense he wants to know why I didn't come out. I ignore them.
The next day, I hear that he went home with another woman. This time I'm even more hurt and confused.
A few weeks pass and he has another night off. On the night out he is attacked and mugged! In hospital for 5 days with blood on the brain!!!!
The day after he is realised I get a Facebook message, asking for my number again. I'm reluctant to give it to him but desperate to know if he is ok.
Since then he has texted everyday!! We arranged to meet up but unfortunately plans fell through. On his first night out since the attack (a month later) I get 8 calls, texts and fb messages about wanting to see me after work!! He was determined to stay up and wait for me to finish, but I was out really late and he obviously fell asleep ha.

Am I wasting my time? Do you think the attack has made him think differently about me?
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So, are you looking for commitment? How does this play out long term? From your point of view I mean.
Sounds like you are on different pages here, it doesn't seem like he wants a "relationship" but he does like you....
Libra is a friendly, flirtatious, delicious creature... They can be oh so seductive but I don't think that necessarily translates to exclusive.
My boss is a Libra, he was the biggest player in town back in the day, but the minute he met the girl of his dreams - feisty Taurus- he dropped out of the game for real.
There was no confusion or uncertainty, he made it perfectly clear where they stood.
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Yeah I am looking for something more serious than just friendship.
In the beginning, around Christmas, he said that he 'really liked me, but didn't want a relationship'. So all those times he went home with someone else, he wasn't in the wrong. We have never been official.
Something feels different about this time though. So fingers crossed when he is well enough to come back to work full time, we can see if things are better?
LIBRA1234 - He has expressed issues with the whole thing from the beginning. So maybe that was his reason for not wanting a relationship??
I would love to ask him where we both stand, but I'm worried I'm going to scare him off by asking too soon into the 'relationship'?
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