Dating a libra man

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Miapia on Monday, February 20, 2017 and has 4 replies.
Has or is anyone dating a libra man? Long story short with mine...

We dated for half a year. He lost a family member really close to him. He left me for one of his friends and dated her for two months. After the left her he told me he realized what he had with me, how much I am always there for him and how much he loved me. He was in a bad place when he lost his loved one and was trying to escape everything that reminded him of that person. I took him back because I could not imagine the pain and confusion losing that person put him through. Now we've been together for over a year. I find it hard to love him. He doesn't like confrontation, he hates talking about an issue we need to fix... he's just really hard to understand. I'm always feeling like he may leave again. I know that's on me. But I do not get appreciation from him anymore. We went from buying each other cards randomly, writing love notes, making random trips we know each other would enjoy... I get nothing from him anymore. Is this just how libra men are? Once they win you over they stop trying? I need advice!
A couple years ago this happened in my relationship. When I questioned him he said that he didn't always try to show that he loves me because he thought that I already knew.
Posted by Miapia
Has or is anyone dating a libra man? Long story short with mine...

We dated for half a year. He lost a family member really close to him. He left me for one of his friends and dated her for two months. After the left her he told me he realized what he had with me, how much I am always there for him and how much he loved me. He was in a bad place when he lost his loved one and was trying to escape everything that reminded him of that person. I took him back because I could not imagine the pain and confusion losing that person put him through. Now we've been together for over a year. I find it hard to love him. He doesn't like confrontation, he hates talking about an issue we need to fix... he's just really hard to understand. I'm always feeling like he may leave again. I know that's on me. But I do not get appreciation from him anymore. We went from buying each other cards randomly, writing love notes, making random trips we know each other would enjoy... I get nothing from him anymore. Is this just how libra men are? Once they win you over they stop trying? I need advice!
Hello @MiaPia

this is how Libra men are. I used to date one for many years. When we first started dating, he would always wine and dine. Then when he knew I was IN LOVE with him, he felt like he could do whatever he wanted... including being very laid back in showering me with dates, gifts, etc. but that does not mean he does not love you anymore. Libra men feel like once they got you, they got you! They don't have to do the EXTRA for you anymore.
Thank you all! I've never dated a libra before. It's a totally different relationship. He sounds a lot like the other men you have all mentioned. This helps me, I wasn't sure if it was just him or all libra men. Sure sounds like it's all lol. Thank you again!