Decan I Libras are you debaters?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by spica on Saturday, March 2, 2013 and has 13 replies.
This libra keeps debating every point I make. I ask is it for fun she does that? Said no but obviously it's for fun!
So, I don't think the other 2 decans are so big into debate as the first decans. Could it be the double libra influence?
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I'm third decan and will.say the skys green to get a good debate going! And yes I get a kick out of it. I often play devils advocate and people are usually shocked when at the end of the debate I reveal that I agree with the person I'm debating and just wanted to give the other side of the discussion fair representation smile
My husband is second decan and he'll say something random if he's bored to see if I will bite and.give him a debate. I like debating with Libras as can go on for hours and no one feels bitter at the end of it. Other signs seem to take you having differing opinions as a personal attack or assume you must be stupid for offering up a different point of view.
My.scorp sis hates debate and cant discuss anything without getting angry! Other friends have asked me if I'm ok after I've had a debate with my.husband that they have witnessed as they just dont.understand we both enjoy it and it isnt an "argument"
However back to the original point. No I dont think first decan is more likely to debate then other Libras. I remember on this.site a few.years ago being told its the Libra Mars placement that can make this trait more apparent.
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Posted by Leeeebra
she's bored out of her socks, and need to develop a hobbit. Maybe debating is her hobbit, then the advise is to maintain safe distance, unless that's your cup of tea as well. lol, good luck.


That hobbit is scruffy and dirty and needs a good smacking lol!
I always keep a safe arms length distance from 'er too, lmoa!!
Yes she is in the debate team.. I asked her kindly not to practice on me. There is a time and place for everything Big Grin
It isn't my cup of tea, too much debating is actually pretty irritating. Everything can be picked on and debated.
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Posted by Theultra79
Lol
I would say that I'm more confrontational than other leebs I know. But I don't pick apart everything that people say. If they say something I don't agree with I will ask questions to try to understand their pov. Debates are fun for me though. As long as it doesn't get ugly.


I agree with that. As long as it doesn't get ugly! lol.. but it's no fun being debated against in everything. It's actually pretty downish.. plus she did not have the points, just wanted to do so for fun.. Maybe I seemed like I am a good challenge. It was actually a big waste of time.. asking questions would be better.
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Posted by libra sun
I'm third decan and will.say the skys green to get a good debate going! And yes I get a kick out of it. I often play devils advocate and people are usually shocked when at the end of the debate I reveal that I agree with the person I'm debating and just wanted to give the other side of the discussion fair representation smile
My husband is second decan and he'll say something random if he's bored to see if I will bite and.give him a debate. I like debating with Libras as can go on for hours and no one feels bitter at the end of it. Other signs seem to take you having differing opinions as a personal attack or assume you must be stupid for offering up a different point of view.
My.scorp sis hates debate and cant discuss anything without getting angry! Other friends have asked me if I'm ok after I've had a debate with my.husband that they have witnessed as they just dont.understand we both enjoy it and it isnt an "argument"
However back to the original point. No I dont think first decan is more likely to debate then other Libras. I remember on this.site a few.years ago being told its the Libra Mars placement that can make this trait more apparent.


I think the first decans are debators, second decans are the propriety adherers, 3rd decans are the devil's advocates or the havoc makers (at their worst) lol!
By the way what is that fullstop between words, is it trending now? I keep getting drawn to that, it's an interesting phenomenon...
Yeah I like to "debate" Libras too, but this Libra (she's a youngin' so she's forgiven) does not know when to stop that's the difference.. I do like a "debate" as long as no insults are thrown and the points are valid and logical.
Yeah I think Scorps operate on the emotional plane and debates arent their cup of tea more than driving their point in..
As for Libra Mars.. I do know a few.. they don't like debates.. they are actually very passive people.. they dont even like arguments.. but if they're mad, they'd pretend all was fine and dandy whilst keeping resentments.
I didn't check this girl's chart.. I don't think I want to right now, but maybe I would later.
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The full stop is me typing on a phone quickly and being too lazy to make sure I hit the space button lol. The only first decan Libra I'm still intouch with is my grandma and she doesnt really debate shes more of a "I'm right your wrong theres nothing to discuss" person, makes a great sunday dinner though haha!
Ive always been called a trouble maker smile and I cant even deny that I say stuff to get a reaction/start a debate. I'll often give the opposite view whether its actually the view I agree with or not.
Thinking about it of all the Libras I hung out with at school it seems to be all the first decan that I parted ways with. Going to have a little think about that one and work out why lol
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Posted by libra sun

Ive always been called a trouble maker smile and I cant even deny that I say stuff to get a reaction/start a debate. I'll often give the opposite view whether its actually the view I agree with or not.
Thinking about it of all the Libras I hung out with at school it seems to be all the first decan that I parted ways with. Going to have a little think about that one and work out why lol


lol!
that was what she did, regarding the opposite view..
Hmm.. 3rd decans and 1st decans don't mix? or did u mean, u had many 1st decan friends?
let me know if u work out why.
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Posted by Theultra79
Yea that would be very annoying. I have a friend who can be like that when she's in a bad mood. Born 9/25. It's exhausting and a downer too. She probably does think you're a good challenge. Or, everybody else just plays her to the left and you're the only one nice enough to still engage her.



she's 27/9. I think the Sept libras are alot nicer than the octs
She can be argumentative but she doesnt mean any harm.. I think she probably only does that to me. she cant be doing that to firends?! theyd drop her like a hot potato hehe.. anyway she isnt so bad at all.
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LOL! She's a sweetheart Winking
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I had many first decan friends at school but didnt stay in touch with them afterwards, used to date second decan Libras and stayed good friends with second and third .
I agree 1st decan Libras seem nicer, maybe they are too nice for me Tongue . At my school it was weird because I wasnt into astrology but my friendship group was all Libras with my bestfriend aqua and a couple of aries thrown in. We always disagreed but never fell out smile
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Hii,
I debate a lot as well. I am just so diplomatic also... I mean, sometimes I am nuts because if u ask me a question, most of the times i stuggle giving one answer. I might give u several and explain you why. And at the end, all of them make sense. Heheheh smile
Iam a very good negotiator as well. I was put in a room with four walls and nothing else, just me and other man (professor at university), to negotiate on selling/buying a business a never heard of, for $ 5 million. I walked out from the room buying it for 2.5Million $ $ $ . smile))
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I was planning on typing that I don't really like the word debate...and was going to re-name it into something different, with explanations concerning why, and examples.
Then I was going to mention Spica's 'animosity'(tongue-in-cheek)to some of the things I say to her on the board at times, and then question whether she caught the same vibe from the other girl as she does from me. And then I was going to address what is it about that vibe that makes 'one' (me/her) downer, figure out the aspects and go point by point to give some assurance and explanation why, and reasons to my personal mind-state when discussing anything with anyone.
It was then that I realized..the answer is yes. And now, my feelings are hurt.
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