Depression

I'm new to this forum and like i was always wonder if any other libras have this feeling....when ur sad u get a little TOO EMOTIONAL...and sometimes u cry, u cant stand it u get kind of nuts (not like in a psycho way) and most of the time when ur sad u dont care if ur crying in front of anyone or not if u feel like crying at the spot...u cry...iono most of the time when libras are depress we go on our little world and try to fix it or try to let all the emotions out...sometimes the things that we think of alot gets in our head for more then a week...im just wondering does anyone else have this feeling thats a libra? and one last question....in life time for libras...do u think that we are most of the time emotional....or most of the time happy? thank you.

Yes, i get very depressed and get into crying jags sometimes..but i always make sure that i am alone..i dont want other people to see me that way...i usually can pull myself out of it, though..you have to learn how to get a reign on your obsessive thoughts, becuase they will drain you, physically and emotionally. In terms of us being emotional, i usually approach things from a logical standpoint and can easily seperate the head from the heart..but when i do get emotioanl about something, the trouble starts and i cant think straight.

i usually only cry in front of people when i am really drunk and i usually get really depressed after doing something stupid while i was drunk. so, maybe its just an issue for me because of the alcohol but once every couple of months i will stay home and not go out and party with my friends so that i can tone down the drinking. that only leads to more depression because i cant stand being alone. i also tend to get depressed when i feel like people are judging me or that they think im a bad person or just less than i really am. i think that libras can be very emotional but most people see us as being detached and unemotional, sometimes even cold. i dont think thats because we are any of those things. i think its because we are always trying to be diplomatic and considerate of others. thats why i usuallly dont express my real emotions. for example, if im angry i want to scream and throw things and tell you i hate. instead, i just take a deep breath and try to understand why it is you are doing whatever it is thats causing me to be mad. in some ways this can be unhealthy because people think that they can walk all over me. it also causes me to build up all these emotions and then i explode on someone who doesnt deserve it.

nikki, i agree that libras tend to seperate the head and the heart but i have only found that to make me even more confused because i am feeling one thing but believing another...

friends tend to think we are cold hearts when were pist off..or we dont have emotions...but once we go back home or we are by ourselves...thats when the emotion comes to our bodies and let loose, especially relationship wise...are we more of a charm?..and are we gullible?

i will cry anytime in front of anyone if i feel it coming on. i blame it on overwhelming emotions... like a loss of control thing... if something hits me too hard all at once, i lose it & cry like a little baby 🙂... luckily, it only lasts about 10 minutes (tops) and i can pull myself back together... being sad sucks...

dont be sad libras.

i dont know if any of yall watch grays anatomy but im hooked! tonights episode, however, overwhelmed me. for those who dont watch ill make the plot of it brief. an intern has her hand in a mans chest to hold a home made bomb (dont ask how it got there) still. everyone evacuates, no one knows what to do, bomb squad is called, blah blah blah. of course she, the intern, successfully removes the bomb and places it into the bomb squad members hands. he is slowly walking away from the OR room with his partner. they are going to do whatever it is they do with bombs. the intern steps out into the hall almost smiling. she is thankful. shes in aw. they just took this bomb out of a man without triggering it to go off and the bomb squad is going to get rid of it. everyone is alive and well. then BOOM!!! bomb squad man dies and she is blow backwards by the explosion. of course, she lives. shes a main character. but what the @ $ &*!!! why is the world so unfair? i know that it is only a show but the director came up with that idea because things like this happen all the time in the world. unknowingly, to my dad and sister i ran to the restroom during the commercial. i feel to the ground and seriously thought that i was going crazy. i shock my head back and forth in horror. we are all going to die one day and we dont know how or when. some of us will have our lives taken by someone else. some of us will take our own lives. some will die in an accident and some may just die peacefully in their sleep. some of us are going to die alone. some of us or going to die without ever having accomplished anything. some of us or going to die and all we will leave behind is all the hurt and pain we have caused other and some of us will die having made some great impact on others. but in the end, WE WILL ALL DIE!!! why do we fear death— is it because we have be told that if we dont live right by GOD that we will burn in hell for all eternity or is it because we actually have no @#*^ing idea whats going to happen to us— i sometimes feel like im already in hell with all the pain and sorrow that i witness here on earth. its not just my unfortunate life, even though i should be thankful for all the wonderful people and all the great opportunities i have be blessed to experience. im in hell because of all the troubles, fears, disappointments, lies, deceit, and unjust crap that everyone else has to deal with too. and i hate myself for being so pessimistic because there is so much beauty in the world. theres love and hope and faith. there are kind people who extend their hand to those in need. ive been helped by many. i guess my fear is that im going to die and have done nothing good in this world. im 20 years old and i have yet to do anything that i can say im proud of. i know that you all might be thinking "youre young, you have the rest of your life to live." but what if i die tomorrow— what if i die and i never do anything right, good, or pure—