Do Libra Men Stay Friends?
This topic was created in the Libra forum by somechick on Tuesday, April 14, 2009 and has 13 replies.
Met him..he chased me, i fell...he pulled away but stayed in the picture. I suggested friends... and thats what we are (i think). We see each other on average every 2nd day... He initiates it. If i'm away or busy when he wants to see me then he will ignore my message the following day if i suggest seeing each other. But i always reply straight away to him.
It's not about sex, we enjoy each others company and can stay up talking til the sun comes up. Do Libra guys keep girls as friends, for friendship.... or because they hope it will eventually become something more...or for some other reason?
It's not about sex, we enjoy each others company and can stay up talking til the sun comes up. Do Libra guys keep girls as friends, for friendship.... or because they hope it will eventually become something more...or for some other reason?
YES. Libra men are notorious for trying to hold on to all good relationships; regardless of its form. (intimate, friends, etc) Libra men usually have a lot of female friends.
They often don't know where to place you (friend or lover) and will keep you around while they figure it out. usually at arms length (sex/no sex... friends.... drunk make out buddies...friends again)
They often don't know where to place you (friend or lover) and will keep you around while they figure it out. usually at arms length (sex/no sex... friends.... drunk make out buddies...friends again)
At what point do they realize they want to be with that person?
Like what makes them or you as a Libra be decisive about a person?
Like what makes them or you as a Libra be decisive about a person?
Its all very well to say to yourself that you can be friends after being intimate...it all goes well until one or the other finds a new partner...make sure you arent setting yourself up for a huge fall and that you arent secretly hoping for more in the long run.
Im currently in this situation myself where a r/ship breakdown has occurred not with a Libra but this guy is adamant he wants to keep me as his best friend because that is what we are/were but I will struggle with that knowing that at any point one of us will move on with another.....seeing my Virgo every 2nd day or once every week or 2? I dont think that would be healthy and it takes everything in me to decline the friendship offer but it must be done.
To stay friends wont allow you to move on - if you're spending every 2nd night/day with him how the hell are you going to find somebody new? Is this where you want to be forever? on the friendship shelf, hoping, waiting, giving and continuing to give minus the sex FOR NOW?
Personally I'll never do it again but yes Librans love to keep you sitting there while they flirt and have sex with everybody else.....I know all too well....did that for a year, never again
Im currently in this situation myself where a r/ship breakdown has occurred not with a Libra but this guy is adamant he wants to keep me as his best friend because that is what we are/were but I will struggle with that knowing that at any point one of us will move on with another.....seeing my Virgo every 2nd day or once every week or 2? I dont think that would be healthy and it takes everything in me to decline the friendship offer but it must be done.
To stay friends wont allow you to move on - if you're spending every 2nd night/day with him how the hell are you going to find somebody new? Is this where you want to be forever? on the friendship shelf, hoping, waiting, giving and continuing to give minus the sex FOR NOW?
Personally I'll never do it again but yes Librans love to keep you sitting there while they flirt and have sex with everybody else.....I know all too well....did that for a year, never again
When they are chasing after YOU!
Theres no guaranteesin life somechick. Libra's do keep people around because they need people to like them and will give false hope . (Not all the time) but alot of the time they just want you to still like them and be a friend. If your not okay with that than just leave. Don't ever let someone tell you what to do or feel like you owe them something or that they are right. Libra's do that alot and usually their idea of "right" is for themselfs and no one else. Don't put up with other peoples wounds. Never.
Exactly and if you're always there?? what's he got to chase?
Leave him be, let him go on for a while...go do your thing, dont hang out with him - what for? He's getting your company and doesnt have to work for it
Leave him be, let him go on for a while...go do your thing, dont hang out with him - what for? He's getting your company and doesnt have to work for it
He isn't flirting with other girls. He knocks them down like flys when he's around me and i'm assuming he's not trying his luck with other girls when he's not with me either because he would tell me. He tells me when someone tries to flirt or hit on him. I'm moving away from this area in a week so i wont have to see him much or at all after that because we will be almost an hour apart. I'll be able to detatch once that happens but i have less than 1 week left to figure this out. I have never told him how i feel and i have acted somewhat detatched because i don't want to get hurt or feel rejected and am so unsure of what will happen when we have distance between us.
i need to ask him what he wants or how he feels but the words wont come out of my mouth. I'm a leo with aries rising and aries moon and i can't even speak... This guy has turned my roar into a purr. How do i ask him what this is?
i need to ask him what he wants or how he feels but the words wont come out of my mouth. I'm a leo with aries rising and aries moon and i can't even speak... This guy has turned my roar into a purr. How do i ask him what this is?
Ok....I thought long and hard and after reading other posts on here and also reading my own i have realised that maybe i'm just seeing the bits i want to see, rather than the whole picture and what it really is. I've been drinking a bit lately to deal with the stress of selling my business and i think it blurred my vision. I lost my confidence somewhere. I'm trying to rationalize and make excuses for someone elses behaviour when i shouldn't be. I have no control over how he feels or what he wants. I can't control the situation i can only control how i handle or deal with it. I know what i want and what i need and he obviously isn't the person for the job.
Instead of focusing on him, i'm going to focus on me. I want to be someones princess not someones convenience. I am and I deserve better than this.
Thank you for all your advice, i guess the answer was always there. I was just asking the wrong questions.
Instead of focusing on him, i'm going to focus on me. I want to be someones princess not someones convenience. I am and I deserve better than this.
Thank you for all your advice, i guess the answer was always there. I was just asking the wrong questions.
Posted by somechick
Ok....I thought long and hard and after reading other posts on here and also reading my own i have realised that maybe i'm just seeing the bits i want to see, rather than the whole picture and what it really is. I've been drinking a bit lately to deal with the stress of selling my business and i think it blurred my vision. I lost my confidence somewhere. I'm trying to rationalize and make excuses for someone elses behaviour when i shouldn't be. I have no control over how he feels or what he wants. I can't control the situation i can only control how i handle or deal with it. I know what i want and what i need and he obviously isn't the person for the job.
Instead of focusing on him, i'm going to focus on me. I want to be someones princess not someones convenience. I am and I deserve better than this.
Thank you for all your advice, i guess the answer was always there. I was just asking the wrong questions.
haha YES! I have so been here >
Eff hiM!lol. now he's all sorry and trying to be a suck cos i told him i was pissed. i kind of having fun with the up and downs though... makes it a little challenging and i have aries moon and rising so i usually get bored in relationships after a week. at least this one is entertaining even though its unstable
yes, libra men want to stay friends they come and go out of your life.
I have not seen or spoken to my ex libra for a while and he pitched up yesterday to tell me he is getting married. I am glad for him. But I am really into my cancer. So, his little things tricks don't work on me anymore.
have to run going out of town for the weekend.
I have not seen or spoken to my ex libra for a while and he pitched up yesterday to tell me he is getting married. I am glad for him. But I am really into my cancer. So, his little things tricks don't work on me anymore.
have to run going out of town for the weekend.
Wow that was 8 years ago....
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