Do Libra women commit easily?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Gem13 on Tuesday, October 31, 2017 and has 24 replies.
There's a Libra girl that has been on my tail for 2 weeks now. She came on really strong. Calling and texting too much even for a Gemini's standards and my attention was on a Pisces at the time.

I started to ignore the Libra in an attempt that she would understand the communication was excessive. She has gotten the point and now the level of communication is nice.

She has a Taurus moon.

Anyway, she seems eager to date and seems keen on me. Has made it clear she wants to be courted and given ample attention and made it clear she is a relationship oriantated person and this is the longest she has ever been single.

Question is, is it easy to get a Libra woman into a relo?
Sorry it's been 3 weeks now.
Posted by Gem13
There's a Libra girl that has been on my tail for 2 weeks now. She came on really strong. Calling and texting too much even for a Gemini's standards and my attention was on a Pisces at the time.

I started to ignore the Libra in an attempt that she would understand the communication was excessive. She has gotten the point and now the level of communication is nice.

She has a Taurus moon.

Anyway, she seems eager to date and seems keen on me. Has made it clear she wants to be courted and given ample attention and made it clear she is a relationship oriantated person and this is the longest she has ever been single.

Question is, is it easy to get a Libra woman into a relo?
Ruuun. These types are the ones you avoid because it will be a total shit show. That is a big red flag because she's not chasing you out of genuine interest, she's chasing you because she has SOME interest and she's sick of being single and trying to force something to work so she won't be single. My dingbat Libra friend did this and ended up with herpes from her newly wrangled boyfriend of 3 weeks (a guy she admitted she wasn't all that into but was sick of being single).

Beware of a woman who cries about singledom like it's a curse. They won't make smart choices in finding a relationship and just grab whoever is available. You're her, "you'll do" option. Keep your focus on someone else and keep shrugging her off. She's not that into you, just the idea of the relationship.

Never trust someone who isn't happy single and who think a relationship is the solution to happiness.
I love it when any interaction begins with a power play...
Posted by Gem13
Sorry it's been 3 weeks now.
Is it easy to get any woman into a relationship? Maybe she wants to explore the possibilities with you. Libra will out though if she sees no potential...if you are interested stop dangling the carrot and give her your time. She will either enjoy her time with you, where its going and chill. Or realise you ain't all that, and chill.
Just to add. I wouldn't say much about us is "easy" esp commitment, BUT once we are commited-we are all in. What are you looking for, and what's going on with the Pisces?
The libra is a really great chick. She was treated really badly by her Gemini ex (I'm also a Gem). Anyway, she's been really open about it all and we've spoken almost everyday for the past 3 wks. However I have dissapeared on her twice for more than 2 days because I was too consumed with a Pisces.

I took the libra out on Thur night to a show. First time we met. She was really cute and nice. Was really thankful and appreciative and was concerned about how she looked because I gave her like 30mins to get ready and she needs "at least 2 hours".

I don't want a relationship.. I just want to date around and the Libra knows this. We're supposed to be seeing each other on Sat night.

Pisces cut me off yesterday so that's a done deal. Posted about it on Pisces forum.
I mean let's be honest, Libra women and men have a lot of similarities and I've never found myself chasing a Gemini anything. Despite what they say Gems are too flighty for Libra. And Libras are usually playing hard to get.

So either your friend is desperate or you're exaggerating, which wouldn't be a stretch for a Gem.
I think Libras tend to be direct and people take that as desperation. She may very well just be trying to get to know you. We ARE relationship oriented but a lot of times people get a big head about themselves when Libra goes "all in" getting to KNOW you. Then when we don't get the same enthusiasm and disappear ya'll come to this board wondering why we're talking to someone else.

Libras are misunderstood, I gotta say.
@heliumfiasco, you just hit the nail on the head. I just got off the phone to her (2hours) and what you wrote above described her very well.

She IS trying to get to know me and I believe this is where her I guess aggresiveness came from? Not sure thats the right word to use though.

She definitely likes a high amount of communication and expects the same in return which works for me. I have a merc in gemini, libra moon and rising.

She told me tonight that I'm very intruiging and she's scared she might "lose control" around me/with me so she wants to tread lightly. She's actually a really cool chick and I can see us getting along very well.

She did make it clear that while she likes a high amount of communication if she isn't getting the same back she backs off and loses interest fast.
@clockwise, she def hasn't been playing hard to get. She seeked me out and slid into my dms and it went from there.

Initially her communication was a bit much for me.. I needed her to pull back so I could chase and she did when I wasn't reciprocating and now its at a good level.

Mind you my head was also in the clouds with a Pisces during that initial period.
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Posted by Gem13
There's a Libra girl that has been on my tail for 2 weeks now. She came on really strong. Calling and texting too much even for a Gemini's standards and my attention was on a Pisces at the time.

I started to ignore the Libra in an attempt that she would understand the communication was excessive. She has gotten the point and now the level of communication is nice.

She has a Taurus moon.

Anyway, she seems eager to date and seems keen on me. Has made it clear she wants to be courted and given ample attention and made it clear she is a relationship oriantated person and this is the longest she has ever been single.

Question is, is it easy to get a Libra woman into a relo?
Ruuun. These types are the ones you avoid because it will be a total shit show. That is a big red flag because she's not chasing you out of genuine interest, she's chasing you because she has SOME interest and she's sick of being single and trying to force something to work so she won't be single. My dingbat Libra friend did this and ended up with herpes from her newly wrangled boyfriend of 3 weeks (a guy she admitted she wasn't all that into but was sick of being single).

Beware of a woman who cries about singledom like it's a curse. They won't make smart choices in finding a relationship and just grab whoever is available. You're her, "you'll do" option. Keep your focus on someone else and keep shrugging her off. She's not that into you, just the idea of the relationship.

Never trust someone who isn't happy single and who think a relationship is the solution to happiness.
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I’ve done this. Very true. Ugh, hopefully never again

I'm just like this girl so let me give you my perspective. When I'm single, it's by choice and not because I don't have options. I like to wait and when I'm sure someone has my total attention I go for it tunnel vision! IMO, you caught her eye and she doesn't want to waste any time doing the time wasting bs that seems to be modern dating. So, she likes you, so what?! If you like her do something about it because trust me she'll get bored and you'll be dead to her like a flash of a light.
Posted by Gem13
The libra is a really great chick. She was treated really badly by her Gemini ex (I'm also a Gem). Anyway, she's been really open about it all and we've spoken almost everyday for the past 3 wks. However I have dissapeared on her twice for more than 2 days because I was too consumed with a Pisces.

I took the libra out on Thur night to a show. First time we met. She was really cute and nice. Was really thankful and appreciative and was concerned about how she looked because I gave her like 30mins to get ready and she needs "at least 2 hours".

I don't want a relationship.. I just want to date around and the Libra knows this. We're supposed to be seeing each other on Sat night.

Pisces cut me off yesterday so that's a done deal. Posted about it on Pisces forum.
Sooo, you're being a misleading fuckboy by seeing her with the intention to just fuck around and she's lying to herself about what's really going on in this situation and pretending she can handle casually seeing a dude when she wants to pair off like nobody's business?

This'll go down in a firey clusterfuck.

Have fun.
Posted by Gem13
The libra is a really great chick. She was treated really badly by her Gemini ex (I'm also a Gem). Anyway, she's been really open about it all and we've spoken almost everyday for the past 3 wks. However I have dissapeared on her twice for more than 2 days because I was too consumed with a Pisces.

I took the libra out on Thur night to a show. First time we met. She was really cute and nice. Was really thankful and appreciative and was concerned about how she looked because I gave her like 30mins to get ready and she needs "at least 2 hours".

I don't want a relationship.. I just want to date around and the Libra knows this. We're supposed to be seeing each other on Sat night.

Pisces cut me off yesterday so that's a done deal. Posted about it on Pisces forum.
Also, exhibit A of when a dude isn't that into you. Ladies, pay attention.
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Posted by Gem13
The libra is a really great chick. She was treated really badly by her Gemini ex (I'm also a Gem). Anyway, she's been really open about it all and we've spoken almost everyday for the past 3 wks. However I have dissapeared on her twice for more than 2 days because I was too consumed with a Pisces.

I took the libra out on Thur night to a show. First time we met. She was really cute and nice. Was really thankful and appreciative and was concerned about how she looked because I gave her like 30mins to get ready and she needs "at least 2 hours".

I don't want a relationship.. I just want to date around and the Libra knows this. We're supposed to be seeing each other on Sat night.

Pisces cut me off yesterday so that's a done deal. Posted about it on Pisces forum.
Sooo, you're being a misleading fuckboy by seeing her with the intention to just fuck around and she's lying to herself about what's really going on in this situation and pretending she can handle casually seeing a dude when she wants to pair off like nobody's business?

This'll go down in a firey clusterfuck.

Have fun.
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Took the words right out of my mouth and said it better 👏
@Sola

I figured she had a liking to me from the beginning. I guess I just wasn't used to how strong she came on. Maybe its a Taurus moon thing? I also experienced the same with an Aqua w/ Taurus Moon a few months back. They seem to come on strong initially if they take a liking to you/want to know you.

Last night she said that while she ISN'T looking for a relationship if she met the right person she wouldn't want to let the opportunity pass her by.

She definitely has options. She's a really pretty, smart girl and has a lot going for her. Also her being single is her choice. She ended her 4 year relationship with the Gemini and has been single for 8 months now and says she isn't the type to sleep/date around and she's always gone from relo to relo.
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Posted by Gem13
The libra is a really great chick. She was treated really badly by her Gemini ex (I'm also a Gem). Anyway, she's been really open about it all and we've spoken almost everyday for the past 3 wks. However I have dissapeared on her twice for more than 2 days because I was too consumed with a Pisces.

I took the libra out on Thur night to a show. First time we met. She was really cute and nice. Was really thankful and appreciative and was concerned about how she looked because I gave her like 30mins to get ready and she needs "at least 2 hours".

I don't want a relationship.. I just want to date around and the Libra knows this. We're supposed to be seeing each other on Sat night.

Pisces cut me off yesterday so that's a done deal. Posted about it on Pisces forum.
Sooo, you're being a misleading fuckboy by seeing her with the intention to just fuck around and she's lying to herself about what's really going on in this situation and pretending she can handle casually seeing a dude when she wants to pair off like nobody's business?

This'll go down in a firey clusterfuck.

Have fun.
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I'm not being misleading considering I've made it clear I DIDN'T want a relationship and expressed my reasoms why. Misleading would be me telling her I wouldn't mind a relo or I was searching for one and then just fucking her over.

I don't have intentions with her. I'm happy to take it as it comes and get to know her.

Also, we're both females and gay.
Posted by Fafa
Are you over your pisces? Just read your other thread. Don't play with a libras heart. Sounds like you really into this pisces. I don't feel it's the end . For some reason I see libra getting hurt
I'm definitely not over the Pisces. My feelings are very strong and it will take some time to get over them. I don't want to hurt anyone. I know how it feels and how horrible it is. I've made it clear to the Libra I don't want a relo but I am open to getting to know her. I really just hope that things between the Pisces and I are finished because I don't want her to re appear in my life if I'm at a stage where things are going well between the Libra and I

I don't think you really are into this girl. Usually Libra's (if theyre using their heads and not on some delusional idealistic bs) can tell if you are serious about them, or if they see relationship potential with you.

If she's coming on to you, she really likes you. If she still comes on to you when you're actively showing disinterest, then she might not actually like you for you, but more like the idea of you or the idea of being in a relationship with you.
Still a great example of when someone who isn't into you. You both are being stupid as shit, so have fun with that mess.


Also, this is why you DON'T chase someone who is clearly not into you. You get taken advantage of and used. You're not over this other person and using this chick as a placeholder.
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Are you over your pisces? Just read your other thread. Don't play with a libras heart. Sounds like you really into this pisces. I don't feel it's the end . For some reason I see libra getting hurt
I'm definitely not over the Pisces. My feelings are very strong and it will take some time to get over them. I don't want to hurt anyone. I know how it feels and how horrible it is. I've made it clear to the Libra I don't want a relo but I am open to getting to know her. I really just hope that things between the Pisces and I are finished because I don't want her to re appear in my life if I'm at a stage where things are going well between the Libra and I

honestly you need to leave the libra alone. I get you explained to her you dont want a relationship but it seems you guys do relationship things and it seems she is into you.. She will develop feelings.. Can you not be alone/single? Get over pisces completely before moving on... Be fair because right now you are not...
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Yeep. This is why dating is a cluster fuck. You have self absorbed people like this who are so fixated on their wants and needs that they don't see how it affects others. The OP is just taking advantage of the Libra because she's there to help her distract from the other person.

"But I told her!" ...yeah that's an asshole, immature, and selfish response. Aka, "fuckboy." I don't care if you're a guy or girl, same damned thing. It basically prefaces "I won't be responsible for anything even though I know I probably shouldn't do this!"
Oh so now the Libra is really just your back up because the fish turned you down.

To answer your question.

Personally its hard for someone to pin me down, I NEED my independence but if I am committed I will be 100% committed.

Posted by Sola
I'm just like this girl so let me give you my perspective. When I'm single, it's by choice and not because I don't have options. I like to wait and when I'm sure someone has my total attention I go for it tunnel vision! IMO, you caught her eye and she doesn't want to waste any time doing the time wasting bs that seems to be modern dating. So, she likes you, so what?! If you like her do something about it because trust me she'll get bored and you'll be dead to her like a flash of a light.
playing hard to get libra style : I showed you that I REALLY like you, so now come and get me. a fair deal isn't it?

in all seriousness, I can't be with someone that I don't absolutely adore. total attention, tunnel vision, etc. in other words, being hopelessly in love is a lot better than being the reason why someone is not loved (enough). is this why ppl say we are weak*ss?