Is it a Libra thing that makes people feel like they can just comfortably talk about their entire life upon first meeting? I mean, do we give off that air of trustworthiness right off the bat?
Sometimes I don't even have to ask questions, but whenever I meet a new female, she almost immediately begins disclosing her entire life story. The only exception I've found so far are (true to form)...water signs, minus Pisces. I can get a Pisces talk pretty easily. Cancers take a small amount of coercion. Scorpios though...pfft. I could get my Scorpio ex to talk about their secrets but even in her revelations, I had to constantly listen for what she wasn't saying.
Anyways, back to my question...do any other Libras (or other signs) tend to notice how people trust us and tend to open up easily?
Not so sure about that. I didn't open up to my libra husband right away. I did notice however my bbf the aries with the scorp moon had this ability to get people to trust her right away and disclosed alot about themselves.
As a Scorpio I can find it very hard to open up...I mean I'll talk about the weather all you want but don't ask to tell you where I live or what I do for a living or where I come from...pretty much anything personal won't come out by itself...unless I am asked the questions and even so!!!
ATG, the exact same thing happens to me. People tell me they just feel comfortable around me. They feel like I would never judge them for anything they tell me. I think it has to do with our balanced views on most things. In basic conversation people see I am fair and try to understand all sides of a discussion. That "slow to judge" thing is comforting to most people so they open up and just keep talking.
i wouldn't say i seem trustworthy, but i do know that i have very atypical standards for judging people, and a lot of things that would shock and disgust others just seem like normal life to me. i'll look down on someone if they're cheap to a waiter, but if they told me they used to be (or are) a prostitute or drug dealer or something, i really don't care. i mostly just care about manners and lack of bigotry.
i'm also very need-to-know. i mostly don't care all that much about someone's life story. i care about interacting in the here and now. and i think that for a lot of people, this lack of pressure to disclose will actually lead them to disclose.
plus, i'll usually just pick up on things, and people are so shocked and amazed that they'll just spill 'wow, yeah, how'd you know'
for some reason, scorpios tend to open up to me a lot, as do cancers. pisceans often don't...or maybe they do and i just don't pay attention. that could be it too.
i think a lot of people have stuff they really want to spill, like they're just walking around with this heavy load on their shoulders. so when they meet someone they feel they can talk to, it's hard to keep holding it back, because they want the relief.
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I mean, do we give off that air of trustworthiness right off the bat?
Sometimes I don't even have to ask questions, but whenever I meet a new female, she almost immediately begins disclosing her entire life story. The only exception I've found so far are (true to form)...water signs, minus Pisces. I can get a Pisces talk pretty easily. Cancers take a small amount of coercion. Scorpios though...pfft. I could get my Scorpio ex to talk about their secrets but even in her revelations, I had to constantly listen for what she wasn't saying.
Anyways, back to my question...do any other Libras (or other signs) tend to notice how people trust us and tend to open up easily?