Exiting emotionallly gracefully

Hello all you Libra lovers, fans, and experts. This sight is refreshing. I want to know how to get over a Libra man that I see everyday not by choice of course and I do not want to have any regrets. We are coworkers and I am used to dealing with this kind by ignoring completely, but it has become uneasy at work, I can't continue to take sabbaticals! I need to go to work. Need a little advice, guys ya'll seem to be on point and I appreciate what I have read so far. thanks

Welp, youll need to back off on the eye contact for starters . If he is the typical Libra guy chances are he will find someone new to flirt and befirend soon enough. Good luck !!

He already has and that is why I need to get him out of my system. He told me it was platonic between them but when he spends time with me she will take off work for days..she is a Libra also and I feared losing him completely so I ignored him. He came to me at the end of the day and said, Bad day? I played it off and said, I just wanted to go home..he stood there staring at me and I never looked up at him again and then I left. He said, good night, and I said, good night. The next day, he walked by and made a point to speak, I spoke but turned away immediately, then after lunch I left for the day. Truth is I care deeply for him but everything I have learned and read says that he will like her more so I don't want to get hurt or display any emotions in front of her. He told me I would never be without him nor his friendship ever and that is a fact and he signed the email ur Knight n shining armour...Libragemmale friend, he knows that I simply adore him but I can not be hurt and I know he if not into me will not be pinned down.

And then the next day when I returned to work, he did not come to work... and I now that was direct result of our interaction or the lack of it...He knows something has upset me but I don't want to talk about it bc I do not believe he is going to stop the involvement and I don't want to be seen as jealous..

It sounds like you are taking the right course of action. Just make sure you are making the right descision first . If you are breaking off with him because you think a Libra male/Libra female bond is better than a Libra Male/Scorpio female YOU ARE DEAD WRONG in my opinion.

Libra is ruled by Venus , he's a chick inside - Scorpio is ruled mainly by Mars , you're the dude. Opposites attract and Air/water relationships often make a fine champagne .I'm not saying Libra/Libra is a horrible match but they may end up mirroring eachother to death and come out bored in the long run.I can't tell you how he feels inside , but you know how you feel. Even if you are coinvinced that you want to break ties that's fine , but write him off entirely - meaning dont make him hate you and regret your friendship (dont get too rough on him). Keep him on the backburner and see how things go in his libra/libra relationship. If he says he has feelings for you he most certianly does.

ooops it should read "but don't write him off entirely" srry

🙂 That made me laugh, the part when you say he's a chick inside and I am a dude...Laughing hard...thank you Sir for that, but am kinda new to this thing and I do not understand the charts, suns nor the moon stuff. I would give you my info privately to find out, sure would like to know...as far as he is concerned, I believe he cares...I truly do but I think he tries to balance the three of us and someone is going to get hurt. The day before I noticed he was standing there waiting where she had to walk past and I had to ask him something so I did a ,beeline and went over to ask him...we began to walk away and I asked him was I interrupting something, he replied, no but when she walked past, she gave him a stare that burned through my soul and he said, good night to her and we kept walking and talking. the next day, she had isolated herself from the rest of her coworkers and he was right there talking to her and he did not even look up when I walked past and granted it was a lil distance but he got peripherals..so I felt a little slighted and did not speak to him the rest of the day and that is when I took the sabbatical only to come back and he had taken one...

Sir, He always calls me sweet, and I tell him he is beautiful...honestly, I give him adoration... as a woman, I love exalting my man even though he is not my, I enjoy telling him he is strong, powerful...stuff like that... calling him Sir... I believes he likes it... a lot, he always say I appreciate you... I do this because I care and he makes it easy, he is not arrogant and it makes it easy for me to do so. But I wonder sometimes what have I done bc I think he may think that I am weak bc I am so kind. I watch my tongue with him, I really try to be careful...bc I know me.

I really appreciate your thoughts.

How do you copy what the other person says in the lil blue boxes and then comment underneath?

OP, are you the girl that was involved in a love triangle with the boss & another female co-worker? Something about this sounds familiar, even the wording of your post.

No. We are coworkers, we work for different bosses.

Same floor so we see each other often, but its not that many nice looking guys in that area and he is nice looking and women seem to flock to him. Except this one guy whom has been chasing me for months asking for my phone number and stupid me, I refused bc I did not want my Libra friend to see us. Well, one day he did, I was coming from the ladies room and Pisces was walking by and called me,i stopped, we chatted, I looked up my Libra friend was standing there with a group of people talking to him but he was staring right at me...as if they were not talking to him at all. So later, he made this comment don't let me see you in the corner with him again and walked away...I turned and laughed... this Pisces guy is kinda cute...but he seems idk a little too passive I guess, I did not notice other girls around him, now he comes to my desk and the other girls are all calling him to their desk all of a sudden. I would not mind seeing him but need to be very careful we all work together.

What sight? The sight of text and icons that you can read as responses to your text and icons?

The whole thing sounds like you're behaving immaturely and complicating things. I'm not quite seeing what the big deal is, tbh. Were you actually TOGETHER, or just together in your head and now you're acting like a middle school girl who can't cope with big girl talk?

Guys aren't mind readers. Acting all evasive and weird suddenly won't get anything accomplished.

Scorps... emotionally retarded, I swear. You guys will absolutely butcher a situation because you can't handle your emotions/responsibility of your actions. :/

No, we talked about it. And all people are not alike. I am aware of my emotions so I will shut down instead of hurting someone because they can not seem to recover from it when I do. We are really good friends but neither will make a move and I feel if he is really into me he would make the move. I am not going to. He gets jealous when the other guy seem to follow me around, which I am flattered by but he also knows that I was not interested in this other guy...initially...but he is pursuing and I fell for a Pisces once, they can be cold...

I have really attracted capricorns, aries, of which I can not stand and aquariuses. My first Libra experience.

http://www.dxpnet.com/very hard to do

exiting emotionally gracefully if at all that is

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Posted by WaterCup
OP, are you the girl that was involved in a love triangle with the boss & another female co-worker? Something about this sounds familiar, even the wording of your post.

yea she sounds like the same person who was having an affair with a married male libra co-worker who was also flirting with a libra female co-worker. she was a afraid the he would like the libra better too. and she was taking time off work too...

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Yes, well either she is the same person or scorpios are the same since she is denying it.

Idk who you think I am...bt this my first time on sight...all scorpios are not the same and if you can not have something remotely helpful....please do not post your opinions on this...iwill blockyou

Married! You are insane! don't do married men...idiots u have said noting you too ubusy comparing me to someone elses situation...I wnted opinion on not hurting self nor others but you are responding to about someone else.please don't come on my post taking abut someone else unles it helps...I will block you net post.

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Idk who you think I am...bt this my first time on sight...all scorpios are not the same and if you can not have something remotely helpful....please do not post your opinions on this...iwill blockyou

Ooh touchy, I like! What got you so worked up anyway? If you're not the person we think you are then swim along. There's no need to give yourself a high blood pressure. LOL!

It's "site" you retarded box turtle.

Not touchy...I like too...I have read some of ur post on other sight, you seem to b lil helpful ...be nice to people. Whomever u talkn bout had an affair with married man. nutin good come from that. some ladies like married man, I don't had that experience before did not know man was married, he would be with me everyday, spend night after night when I found out he was married I was crushed that he could do all that and be married. Initially had a hard time gettn over him so I don't want to ever exp. that ever again got over him and he got a divorce and came over in front of my neighbors embarrassing me shouting why I don't want to be with him! Duh...did he need to ask! No Thanks!!! My friend, I wanted this person to be my man maybe lead to marriage would be nice, but he had bad experience..but it was his fault at least he say and I think that's why he still bothered by it. Watercup, however it seem like you do not care for Scorpio people. We truly are not all alike...similar but not all alike. I just do not want to continue to stay in the friend zone...got enough of them. This guy is smooth, and a lot of women like him, but we have been friends for quite some time and he always tell me You so sweet, at first it was endearing now I felt by now he still hurting over ex..i want to cont. to be friends I do wish we could be more but I don't want to bring it u I feel like if this was something he wantd he would have said something by now. He single, I am single but seem like guys have so many choices bc so many single women out there. So I rather stop wanting him and just be his friend which is hard right now so I rather exit the friendship and if he ever decide and I still like him..then maybe but I see him a lot so I try to avoid seeing as much and he notices something is wrong but I refuse to say something..Men that like you to be more than friend will make you know that at least that my experience even if they do something craze..my experience too! so he has not and we get along pretty good, except he always have something to say when I go on movie/dinner dates with other guys..but I don't know I want to protect myself first then the friendship later.

And oink oink rockyroad whateva you are the one talking bout sight..or site...who cares...you look like the retarded one...we are really good friends, spend time together but neither has made the move and I don't want too. he is a man he single I am single granted he had bad experience that I still know he seem to struggle with and you can not tell someone how long to grieve after a hurting relationship. I would never do that to him, but I like him...a lot we get along well together, we laugh and I have never had sex with him.. I already like him if we did that whew! don't do friends with benefits! Guys don't have to be mind readers...they are guys! and as crazy as it might be they will make their interest known and idk we talk bout things but If he wanted to be more by now I think he would have made it so, sooo I rather gently exit without offending him and having regrets just in case we have interest later...

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Not touchy...I like too...I have read some of ur post on other sight, you seem to b lil helpful ...be nice to people. Whomever u talkn bout had an affair with married man. nutin good come from that. some ladies like married man, I don't had that experience before did not know man was married, he would be with me everyday, spend night after night when I found out he was married I was crushed that he could do all that and be married. Initially had a hard time gettn over him so I don't want to ever exp. that ever again got over him and he got a divorce and came over in front of my neighbors embarrassing me shouting why I don't want to be with him! Duh...did he need to ask! No Thanks!!! My friend, I wanted this person to be my man maybe lead to marriage would be nice, but he had bad experience..but it was his fault at least he say and I think that's why he still bothered by it. Watercup, however it seem like you do not care for Scorpio people. We truly are not all alike...similar but not all alike. I just do not want to continue to stay in the friend zone...got enough of them. This guy is smooth, and a lot of women like him, but we have been friends for quite some time and he always tell me You so sweet, at first it was endearing now I felt by now he still hurting over ex..i want to cont. to be friends I do wish we could be more but I don't want to bring it u I feel like if this was something he wantd he would have said something by now. He single, I am single but seem like guys have so many choices bc so many single women out there. So I rather stop wanting him and just be his friend which is hard right now so I rather exit the friendship and if he ever decide and I still like him..then maybe but I see him a lot so I try to avoid seeing as much and he notices something is wrong but I refuse to say something..Men that like you to be more than friend will make you know that at least that my experience even if they do something craze..my experience too! so he has not and we get along pretty good, except he always have something to say when I go on movie/dinner dates with other guys..but I don't know I want to protect myself first then the friendship later.

I'm sorry but was I mean to you at any point on this thread? Excuse my ignorance for not getting what you mean by "be nice to people". I'm actually one of the nicest people on this site, even if I have to s

say so myself😛 I'm also not getting what you mean when you say I seem not to care about scorpio people because that is so wrong on many levels. I'm not stupid enough to judge everybody of a certain sign as one thing & one thing only. So no, I have nothing against scorps. The only sign I should hate is libra but I don't even hate them. I dislike some people of my own sign though, so it's not about sign but the individual.

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Posted by WaterCup
OP, are you the girl that was involved in a love triangle with the boss & another female co-worker? Something about this sounds familiar, even the wording of your post.

yea she sounds like the same person who was having an affair with a married male libra co-worker who was also flirting with a libra female co-worker. she was a afraid the he would like the libra better too. and she was taking time off work too...

Yes, well either she is the same person or scorpios are the same since she is denying it.

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that last statement...no worries though I have read so much on Scorpio woman I have to laugh..we do get a bad wrap sometimes, but you have to mature at some point..and learn some self control..but I admit we can unleash..Are you a lady or a man? What is your sign?

Posted by WaterCup
say so myself😛 I'm also not getting what you mean when you say I seem not to care about scorpio people because that is so wrong on many levels. I'm not stupid enough to judge everybody of a certain sign as one thing & one thing only. So no, I have nothing against scorps. The only sign I should hate is libra but I don't even hate them. I dislike some people of my own sign though, so it's not about sign but the individual.

🙂 that's funny.lol

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Posted by WaterCup
OP, are you the girl that was involved in a love triangle with the boss & another female co-worker? Something about this sounds familiar, even the wording of your post.

yea she sounds like the same person who was having an affair with a married male libra co-worker who was also flirting with a libra female co-worker. she was a afraid the he would like the libra better too. and she was taking time off work too...

Yes, well either she is the same person or scorpios are the same since she is denying it.

that last statement...no worries though I have read so much on Scorpio woman I have to laugh..we do get a bad wrap sometimes, but you have to mature at some point..and learn some self control..but I admit we can unleash..Are you a lady or a man? What is your sign?

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I'm a "lady" lol & my sun is aquarius. And what I meant by the line you pointed is, if you're not the person that I initially thought you were then female scorps must be similar because that other person wrote the exact same things you wrote in your original post. She also took her time to read up on the compatibility between her love interest & the other woman. Both were libras just like in your situation & she also was worried that he might like her more, etc.

You write like an illiterate jack ass and it makes it really hard to read your posts. If you come here wanting help, the least you can do is write legibly so we can at least understand what it is you're asking.

But given the fact you're insanely touchy, have an attitude problem, and are blowing up a simple situation (you are indeed very immature, especially if you're taking time off of work to avoid one person who your vagina tingles over), I don't think there is much helping available for you.

Figure it out on your own, sweetcheeks.

rocky road, you are illiterate jackass and you don't have to read my post..AT ALL! I have read your comments also, and you never have nothing helpful..FOR ANYBODY! you angry troll! I have seen you on other post and you absolutely never make any headway in anybody's situation...Its plenty of people on here that help you're sure not one of them...no more post from you. thanks!

Good, I hoped you were with Watercup as name but did not want to assume. nice to meet...hmmm..what happened to the triangle friends? I never used to pay attention to signs until I got older, looking back seeing similarities with people..I don't know any female aquarius's at least I do not know if they are...my close friend is a Taurus and she is mean as butter to everybody else. its nice to meet new folks, new prespectives..watchin Kevin hart Let me explain...good night, have a good evening.

Supersize hero, you are right, work is work and it should be separate. I have never been into signs before, I know this will work out. thanks

Sorry, I did not pay close attention to name, Size zero superhero..again, thanks.

Scorpyep.
You are giving him too much emotion, trust me a Libran has a 6th sense, they pick up everything that woman feel and react to it however they want. You are best to smile, laugh and be teasing with him, dont look away or down when he is talking to you, that just makes him feel in control of you, and a Libran will like the idea of controlling you, but you will not be GF material as they do not like anyone that is weak like that.

He will come after you, if you show him the fun, happy side to you, don't be all over him, but always be happy when you see him, always be the first to break the conversation and leave, find things interesting to ask him, something really random, smile and leave when he answers you. You have to turn the tables girl.

Thanks geminisparkle. I have met a nice Libran male here and we speak often, in fact he ran my charts for me explaining quite a bit. His opinion is that we would make a fiery/harmonious couple by what he new so far. I just don't know. So many women want him I just figured I would just back off and let him come to me if he becomes for real and want to get out of the friendzone. I think it is safe for me because I like him a lot but can not risk being hurt. I appreciate your comment, I think you are right. I have been so kind for so long and people tend to take if for granted and I think he has. one day we were playing and he made a comment that I really had to take a look at. I asked myself what have I done to this man. He thinks I am a push over because I am so careful on how I talk to him. I got a little smart, just a little and he got serious so quick. It was so funny, I thought wow! he can dish it out but he can not take it. It was playful but he still got upset, then he realized I was still playn with him and he fixed it, but see, I can cut with my tongue and in my past people usually don't fully recover from that, and I don't ever want to be like that with people I care about, so I am careful. But bc I am so sweet to him, when I get smart, he looks at me just like I cursed him or something, and I be just playing with him...idk thank you dear I will certainly keep all the good things in mind.