finally gave up
This topic was created in the Libra forum by baby76 on Saturday, April 12, 2008 and has 10 replies.
i finally did it. i left him for good. i know i raved about how much i liked my libra but he was driving me crazy. though it has been only two days i feel like a weight has been lifted off of my shoulders. we had another blow out as usual but this time it was over a baby. as far as i know we have only been sleeping with each other for the last 7.5 months without protection (dumb on my part i know). (regularly visit the doctor still have a clean bill of health). i also have birth control effective for five years. he asks me what would i do if i get preg? i said keep it because i knew the consequences when we laid down so i would have to face it. he tells me well that wasn't the answer he was looking for. he doesn't want any more kids (he has 2) so i would need to abort it. i said hell no are you crazy? i don't want anymore either(i have 3 from my prev marriage) that's why i have this thing implanted in my guts for 5 years. so basically we go back and forth for a while and i said all you need to do is use a condom and we'll have protection on both ends. he tells me that's not an option and either i need to agree to abort it (if it happens) or we can't have sex again. i told him to f*** off and don't bother me again because he is a stone nut if he tought i was going to do that. then he says no baby we are good. everything is fine. i said not this time and i hung up. have not called sinced. does anyone think that i over reacted? i really don't think i did this time. just want some feed back.
If those words really came out of his mouth, then no, you didn't overreact. Abortion, is my opinion, is not a form of birth control.
exactly!!!! he's really a jerk and i would have never expected tht to come from him.
This should be validation alone that you did the right thing:
*****i feel like a weight has been lifted off of my shoulders.****
*****i feel like a weight has been lifted off of my shoulders.****
Jerk..........
you didn't over-reacted, He cannot not tell you to abort, you did the right thing.
you didn't over-reacted, He cannot not tell you to abort, you did the right thing.
let some time pass by and talk it out
but you are aries right ? aries - libra mmm from my experience it's a love and troublesome relationship , better off as good friends
but you are aries right ? aries - libra mmm from my experience it's a love and troublesome relationship , better off as good friends
i am an aquarius. i thought libra and aquarius were supposed to be so compatible. but i don't even want to talk to him again. his whole outlook at the situation disgusted me. i do feel much better since i ended it though. thanks everyone.
My friend went through this also....she ended up aborting (not that they thought that this was the best form of birth control, neither wanted anymore children) and now feels so much guilt....he has walked away, never to be heard from again...they were together for a year. Yes he came back and talked to her but then left her to deal with it alone.
Its a selfish and disgusting way to treat another human being and unforgivable....no doubt he'll come back into her life at some point because he knows she loves him to pieces...no matter how cruel he was.
he basically insisted she "get rid of it"...she ended up going through it alone and then he said "you didnt involve me"...WTF?
No you are CERTAINLY within your rights to be angry and to rid yourself of him
Its a selfish and disgusting way to treat another human being and unforgivable....no doubt he'll come back into her life at some point because he knows she loves him to pieces...no matter how cruel he was.
he basically insisted she "get rid of it"...she ended up going through it alone and then he said "you didnt involve me"...WTF?
No you are CERTAINLY within your rights to be angry and to rid yourself of him
Funny ... the only women who ever regret the abortion are the ones who were talked into it and didn't do it of their own freewill.
I don't think you overreacted.
I don't think you overreacted.
"Funny ... the only women who ever regret the abortion are the ones who were talked into it and didn't do it of their own freewill"
Of course, like everything else. OH and the story above? a Libra did that to my friend.
But I cannot believe that a man would believe that abortion is a form of contraception? that condoms are not an "option"...grrrrrr
Of course, like everything else. OH and the story above? a Libra did that to my friend.
But I cannot believe that a man would believe that abortion is a form of contraception? that condoms are not an "option"...grrrrrr
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