Foreplay with the libra male

This topic was created in the Libra forum by gem88girl on Wednesday, January 22, 2014 and has 31 replies.
I posted before about how I've been very insecure with the Libra male I??m seeing and most of you told me that I will push him away if I??m not careful. I've decided I??m going to be more confidant as this is how.
When we arrives at mine I will be in a robe I will take him to my room and tell him sorry for being insecure all the time but how that is going to change, with that I will drop the robe and be in the sexiest underwear I??ve ever brought. I will tell him that he can??t touch me, yet. I will then bend down and start to give him a blow job, when I can fill he is hard I will tell him to lie on the bed and put a blind fold on him. I will then get some ice cubes and while he is still blind folded rub the ice cubes over the chest and legs, still telling him not to touch me, while I??m doing this I will have one in my mouth, I will then take it out and take the blind fold off and give him another blow job until he comes.
Sorry it??s so long and I know it??s not really about Libras I just couldn??t find anywhere else to put it. So, what do you think? Any tips or ideas I could add?
Thanks.
Ummmmm, you doing it all wrong
You leaving your man with a hard-on
You just can't give him a BJ, then tease him with ice, girl u crazy as hell, lol
I'm a out going freak when it comes to my libra
It's always something different, when it comes to being playful with my libra, but honey
Tease him the right way
yeah why not
Posted by gem88girl
I posted before about how I've been very insecure with the Libra male I??m seeing and most of you told me that I will push him away if I??m not careful. I've decided I??m going to be more confidant as this is how....


Umm-- why?
You're swinging in the total opposite direction; the overcompensation will be obvious.
I looked at your other thread, and you got some GOOD advice-- this resembles none of it.

Posted by whale09
Gemini girl here,
I had a thing going on with a libra last year. Although I made it clear I wasn't gonna be in the country for long and if he wanna fling that's fine with me. What I realise is libra are charmers. They have a way with words that manipulates you in the moment. Sweet sweet thing they are. And because they are charmers, they know they can get anyone they want. You as a gemini should always keep your head held high and pretend (if you dont feel) like you are confident and proud of yourself. It kinda makes them worry about losing you.
Not too sure if this is true to all cases, but that's how it went with the libra and I. Maybe others could clarify this?
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This ^.
Used to be a group of us that would go bar-hopping (in my early 20's), one of whom was a Leeb.
He was very charming-- and funny, and good-looking-- so he often went home with girls at the end of the night.
One of these girls did something like you're describing (we all heard about it the next day), but her medium was maple syrup.
She was known as "Pancake" forever after.

And that's just ONE of the stories-- he never stayed with any of these girls.
He ended up marrying my Leeb friend, who the most inexperienced among us all-- she'd only dated one other guy.
Be your nice, sweet self-- that's who you were when he started dating you.
Think about it. Winking


a premeditated mess **smh**
Girl your leaving your dude with a hard on
How you just gonna give ya dude a BJ, Then your gonna tease him with ice, it's all wrong
I'm sorry but I'd kill ya
lmao, just my 2 cents,
You don't let a hard one go to waste , o hell naw
How about you figure out what the hell turns him on first?
You made this romance novel shit up in your head and are assuming he'll like it.
It's not a bad start, but leave the ice out of it. You don't know what his kinks are.
LOL. I??m still trying to figure out why you are telling us this. Still not very confident from what I can see.
And don??t bring up your insecurities AT ALL. Leave it alone! Lol. Just stop and he will notice the change, but don??t you bring it up. Sheesh.
Then the others are right, for one you do not leave your man hard. No no. He gets the full package or you at least have to make that sucker blow like a volcano. If he??s your man, and you??re going down on him, you make sure you make it go down.
Rockyroadicecream is right too, you need to ask him what turns him on, however I don??t know a man in history that doesn??t love a good going down. Don??t ask him the night you try to pull this off. It will make the whole thing seem corny and staged. Just remember, the only way he wont like the head is if you try to be all neat, and proper with it lol or leave them blue which is what you are about to do. If you??re going to start something, then finish it with flying colors girl.lol. No half stepping.
Posted by TaurusNikki
Girl your leaving your dude with a hard on
How you just gonna give ya dude a BJ, Then your gonna tease him with ice, it's all wrong
I'm sorry but I'd kill ya
lmao, just my 2 cents,
You don't let a hard one go to waste , o hell naw


LOL I swear you and Rocky have no chill button sometimes. lol
Posted by Aesma
But Montgomery, even if he ended up marrying the inexperienced one which happens to be a Libra doesn't mean she doesn't 'rock the bed'.
My 2nd ex was a Libra too like me and the sex was awesome.
We were both very adventurous and willing to try something new all the time. You don't need exp



But Aesama, you're missing the point.
Her "plan" smacks of desperation-- she isn't doing it because she's into it.
She's doing it because she thinks she has to, to "keep her man"-- wtf is with this neurosis?
It's supposed to be fun, right?
Further, if he wanted a pro, he would have gone after a pro.
Her problem? Tbh, I think she's just a little too uptight.
It isn't about experience; like you said-- it's about willingness.
That's all-- she doesn't need to put on a show.

And Rocky makes a very good point:
Posted by rockyroadicecream
How about you figure out what the hell turns him on first?
You made this romance novel shit up in your head and are assuming he'll like it.
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Exactly.
Posted by pinklibra
Posted by TaurusNikki
Girl your leaving your dude with a hard on
How you just gonna give ya dude a BJ, Then your gonna tease him with ice, it's all wrong
I'm sorry but I'd kill ya
lmao, just my 2 cents,
You don't let a hard one go to waste , o hell naw


LOL I swear you and Rocky have no chill button sometimes. lol
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Lmao, my fault
Posted by TaurusNikki
Girl your leaving your dude with a hard on
How you just gonna give ya dude a BJ, Then your gonna tease him with ice, it's all wrong
I'm sorry but I'd kill ya
lmao, just my 2 cents,
You don't let a hard one go to waste , o hell naw



good girl ! Big Grin hahahahaaahah smile
Posted by gem88girl
I posted before about how I've been very insecure with the Libra male I??m seeing and most of you told me that I will push him away if I??m not careful. I've decided I??m going to be more confidant as this is how.
When we arrives at mine I will be in a robe I will take him to my room and tell him sorry for being insecure all the time but how that is going to change, with that I will drop the robe and be in the sexiest underwear I??ve ever brought. I will tell him that he can??t touch me, yet. I will then bend down and start to give him a blow job, when I can fill he is hard I will tell him to lie on the bed and put a blind fold on him. I will then get some ice cubes and while he is still blind folded rub the ice cubes over the chest and legs, still telling him not to touch me, while I??m doing this I will have one in my mouth, I will then take it out and take the blind fold off and give him another blow job until he comes.
Sorry it??s so long and I know it??s not really about Libras I just couldn??t find anywhere else to put it. So, what do you think? Any tips or ideas I could add?
Thanks.




bad girl ! hahaahaha smile
seriously , it was exciting to read this !
I like , it's good to be different sometimes and try new things. we are libra .
we are open minded Big Grin

and we love bad bitches ! smile bad girls
and a blowjob is the best . I don't know all the libras .
but for me , a blowjob is the best thing . I can let my partner suck me for 2 hours and more if she wants ! Big Grin lol
I know , I have good stamina ! hahahah

this song describes me! lol ( asap rocky is a libra )
here :

Posted by muwik
Posted by gem88girl
I posted before about how I've been very insecure with the Libra male I??m seeing and most of you told me that I will push him away if I??m not careful. I've decided I??m going to be more confidant as this is how.
When we arrives at mine I will be in a robe I will take him to my room and tell him sorry for being insecure all the time but how that is going to change, with that I will drop the robe and be in the sexiest underwear I??ve ever brought. I will tell him that he can??t touch me, yet. I will then bend down and start to give him a blow job, when I can fill he is hard I will tell him to lie on the bed and put a blind fold on him. I will then get some ice cubes and while he is still blind folded rub the ice cubes over the chest and legs, still telling him not to touch me, while I??m doing this I will have one in my mouth, I will then take it out and take the blind fold off and give him another blow job until he comes.
Sorry it??s so long and I know it??s not really about Libras I just couldn??t find anywhere else to put it. So, what do you think? Any tips or ideas I could add?
Thanks.




bad girl ! hahaahaha smile
seriously , it was exciting to read this !
I like , it's good to be different sometimes and try new things. we are libra .
we are open minded Big Grin

and we love bad bitches ! smile bad girls
and a blowjob is the best . I don't know all the libras .
but for me , a blowjob is the best thing . I can let my partner suck me for 2 hours and more if she wants ! Big Grin lol
I know , I have good stamina ! hahahah

this song describes me! lol ( asap rocky is a libra )
here :


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oh lawd you are a mess i can see that right now
Posted by pinklibra
Posted by muwik
Posted by gem88girl
I posted before about how I've been very insecure with the Libra male I??m seeing and most of you told me that I will push him away if I??m not careful. I've decided I??m going to be more confidant as this is how.
When we arrives at mine I will be in a robe I will take him to my room and tell him sorry for being insecure all the time but how that is going to change, with that I will drop the robe and be in the sexiest underwear I??ve ever brought. I will tell him that he can??t touch me, yet. I will then bend down and start to give him a blow job, when I can fill he is hard I will tell him to lie on the bed and put a blind fold on him. I will then get some ice cubes and while he is still blind folded rub the ice cubes over the chest and legs, still telling him not to touch me, while I??m doing this I will have one in my mouth, I will then take it out and take the blind fold off and give him another blow job until he comes.
Sorry it??s so long and I know it??s not really about Libras I just couldn??t find anywhere else to put it. So, what do you think? Any tips or ideas I could add?
Thanks.




bad girl ! hahaahaha smile
seriously , it was exciting to read this !
I like , it's good to be different sometimes and try new things. we are libra .
we are open minded Big Grin

and we love bad bitches ! smile bad girls
and a blowjob is the best . I don't know all the libras .
but for me , a blowjob is the best thing . I can let my partner suck me for 2 hours and more if she wants ! Big Grin lol
I know , I have good stamina ! hahahah

this song describes me! lol ( asap rocky is a libra )
here :





oh lawd you are a mess i can see that right now
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hahaaahah ! omg
what did I said ?
sorry for my english if it's not clear
Posted by tiziani
Libra Men do love women who can emotionally abuse them for sure. Who knows, maybe it's just a phase.



It's one thing to emotionally abuse your libra
Its another to leave a libra male with blue balls, that libra would disappear in a heartbeat
Okay in defense of the OP, you all are total newbs if you think that giving him "blue balls" from a blow job is a bad thing when it comes to foreplay. It's called foreplay for a reason.
If anything, she got that part right. The ice is a little presumptuous because you have no idea if he'd be down for that.
But the whole bit of getting him all worked up so he nearly gets off and then stopping actually will make the orgasm more intense when he finally does climax.
A blow job can be foreplay because with a lot of guys, once they get off, it's over for the night. ...Or you may have to wait a bit for him to be ready again.
Leaving him with blue balls would be a heavy make out session, or giving him a partial bj and NOT continuing beyond that.
Op, the overall idea of yours isn't bad. I just think it's a little overkill if you're PLANNING all this and almost explaining yourself to him before doing this. You should not be using sex to get brownie points with this dude. Nothing wrong with your scenario, but you should really find out if he's into kink like that or not. Given he's a Libra guy, there's a good chance he's okay with it. However, pulling surprises like that in the bedroom without knowing for sure, can kill the mood asap.
Rocky
The OP just had a thread about her libra, check it out and see why everybody if telling her this, I'm not sure if you read her thread
Then she said she is going to give the guy a BJ, then blindfold him which takes time, then while the dude is still hard put ICE on his chest arms and legs, then
What,,,,,tease him alittle ?, then to explain alittle foreplay as to what she is gonna do? Then blow him again, that libra won't be turned on, he would want to leave as soon as the ICE touched him
To give a guy a BJ after you take ICE out your mouth is a bad idea. Ask any guy that
You aren't a guy so I don't know why you're speaking up on why giving him a blow job and then doing something else before he gets off is bad.
I'm going off of experience and hearing what guys have had done to them that was amazing sex.
To each their own but I don't understand why you think why that part is the worst. I also don't think you really read my post either, as you just basically repeated some of what I just said. :/
Haha.
Sidenote- I had a dream about blow jobs after reading this. :/
Posted by Sweeetz
Where is Mr. Defense when you need him? He could give this girl a whole dissertation on how to suck dick. Lord knows that's one of his favorite topics Tongue.



Omg, I forgot about Mr D
Where the heck is he, lol
You don't have to be a guy to understand that ICE and DICK don't mix
Where my fellas at, ?
If any woman puts ICE in her mouth then puts it to any mans DICK atter that, he would punch her in the head for sure, lmfao
Plus the OP which I was referring to is going off of trying to keep this man, worst idea ever to get him to look at her any other way
We just had a guy agree about that part being the worst, which was stated, and which I was referring to
The wood is hot and hard then you decide that the ICE would make him cum? Not the best way to make the guy feel good since the ICE would put it back down
OMG ! I tried to post a comment here and this website is fantastic ! If you write something, the website change the sense and the words and reffer to you !!!! instead to reffer as who you write ! Fake website ! Relaly ...
Posted by rockyroadicecream
You aren't a guy so I don't know why you're speaking up on why giving him a blow job and then doing something else before he gets off is bad.
I'm going off of experience and hearing what guys have had done to them that was amazing sex.
To each their own but I don't understand why you think why that part is the worst. I also don't think you really read my post either, as you just basically repeated some of what I just said. :/



he is right !
I agree with you ...
TaurusNikki
I don't know the feeling . but I'd like to try it with ice...
as he said :
'' You aren't a guy so I don't know why you're speaking up '' ...
... smile
Posted by muwik
Posted by rockyroadicecream
You aren't a guy so I don't know why you're speaking up on why giving him a blow job and then doing something else before he gets off is bad.
I'm going off of experience and hearing what guys have had done to them that was amazing sex.
To each their own but I don't understand why you think why that part is the worst. I also don't think you really read my post either, as you just basically repeated some of what I just said. :/



he is right !
I agree with you ...
TaurusNikki
I don't know the feeling . but I'd like to try it with ice...
as he said :
'' You aren't a guy so I don't know why you're speaking up '' ...
... smile

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I can speak how I feel, who the fuck are you to tell me what I can or can not say, this thread hasn't been stated in 3 days why the fuck do u care, it already over, and who the fuck said that I was. A guy, if you haven't tried it with ICE then why the fuck are you posting then, like I been saying its from my understanding, GO FUCK OFF, when you become a grown ass man then speak
Posted by TaurusNikki
Posted by muwik
Posted by rockyroadicecream
You aren't a guy so I don't know why you're speaking up on why giving him a blow job and then doing something else before he gets off is bad.
I'm going off of experience and hearing what guys have had done to them that was amazing sex.
To each their own but I don't understand why you think why that part is the worst. I also don't think you really read my post either, as you just basically repeated some of what I just said. :/



he is right !
I agree with you ...
TaurusNikki
I don't know the feeling . but I'd like to try it with ice...
as he said :
'' You aren't a guy so I don't know why you're speaking up '' ...
... smile




I can speak how I feel, who the fuck are you to tell me what I can or can not say, this thread hasn't been stated in 3 days why the fuck do u care, it already over, and who the fuck said that I was. A guy, if you haven't tried it with ICE then why the fuck are you posting then, like I been saying its from my understanding, GO FUCK OFF, when you become a grown ass man then speak
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( shaking my head , negatively )
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Posted by MrBalance
Posted by TaurusNikki
Girl your leaving your dude with a hard on
How you just gonna give ya dude a BJ, Then your gonna tease him with ice, it's all wrong
I'm sorry but I'd kill ya
lmao, just my 2 cents,
You don't let a hard one go to waste , o hell naw


Well I hope you put in more than 2 cents smile
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Lmao, I always do
Make dem scales go upside down Winking
I'm all about keeping things interesting for my libra, he already crazy in the head, might as well make him crazy in bed
Keeps me and him balanced, and his brain on cloud 9 for about 24 hours til next session, Muahahahaha
Wateva makes you feel good works for me

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