Frustrated!!

What do I do community??

I cut ties with my Libra ex gf about 3 weeks after she kept going distant toward me. I started dating new people and moving on fine.

She wiggled her way back into my life with sweet words and charm, everything was fine but she took a trip this past weekend and didn't answer any of my calls or respond to any of my text messages.

Literally out of no where she started displaying this behavior, I haven't heard from her for 3 days. I'm absolutely angry by this, when I walked away before I was feeling good, but love is a powerful thing. I wish she would either treat me the way I treat her, or just leave me alone and let me go live a life without her.

It really hurt that she chooses to ignore me out of nowhere after we was on good terms and I was planning something for her. She never asks how I am anymore, never asks me to spend time, never considers my feelings or stops and says "what could I do to make him smile".

Some people tell me to kick her to the curb and don't look back, others tell me she is probably just going through something and if she is worth is don't give up on her.

But I'm sick of feeling this way. Every girl from my past I just didn't care to give this kind of effort, but she was one of a kind and had the biggest impact on my heart.

She tells me that she wants me as her friend right now but sees herself married to me later on. What does that even mean? I'm a guy and I've never used that line before

Can you ladies explain what I need to do to get her to be consistent with me? Or should I not fall for her traps and run back anymore?

You're right, I don't think she is going to change either

Tell her to change.

Is this a libra thing? My libra ex sent me flowers and never answered my call/text when I thanked him. 2 days later, he changed his number. I haven't heard from him since.

I am torn. I'm not sure if he's mentally ill or just a giant asshole.

@Libra82

I did meet a Virgo girl but I ended up being too honest with the girl and told her I would like to continue dating you but I am still in love with my ex and she choose to end things.

I try my hardest to be honest no matter the outcome.

But my libra ex gf would call me and text me if I ignore her, making promises to no longer take me for granted and tell me I'm the one for her.

When I give her a chance to show me all that, she pulls one of these stunts.

I guess she plays this game where she gives me enough to make me stay but when she has my full attention and love she disappears. I haven't heard from her since a Saturday good morning text and she hasn't responded since.

I'm just trying to not be the stereotypical guy who treats women bad and moves on without a care in the world but it's not enough for some.

Posted by Deedee86
Is this a libra thing? My libra ex sent me flowers and never answered my call/text when I thanked him. 2 days later, he changed his number. I haven't heard from him since.

I am torn. I'm not sure if he's mentally ill or just a giant asshole.

Dear, just like the OP, you two are being fucked around with by two very indecisive people who have no idea what they want and have no problem wasting others' time and emotions while they fuck around in life.

Neither of you should be wasting time on such leeches.