ScorpSage
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Frustration!!!! Argggg!
So what now...is this him being NOT THAT INTERESTED...or INDECISIVE....or just shameful (what for though?)!!!!
I mean for example for the almost 2 hours I spent there...we talked all in all for about 30min-40min....I mean what is it??
I mean for example for the almost 2 hours I spent there...we talked all in all for about 30min-40min....I mean what is it??
Ok chill hunny, I understand its messing with your head.
As a fellow scorpio you crave intensity in your personal relationships and the libra is not forthcoming. So it fustrates the hell out of you.
He as you in a state of confusion,where he says something and you spend your time thinking it over and over.
Ok he showed up thats a good sign,he didnt just blow you out-that shows he has respect for you.
You both seem to spend alot of the time doing physical activities,why not invite him to do something more relaxing.
I once read libra loves moderate exercise,not getting all sweaty. Dont know how if thats spot on.
My mr libra was not into anything that got him to sweat too much-he did kick boxing and once if he was getting too hot,he will have a break..
And in regards to the other guy agreeing to go running with you-the libra might feel jealous and left out. However he will never show it openly. Libra has a tendency to remove themselves from a situation or act as though they are cool with whats going on to save face.
You know i have your back.🙂
As a fellow scorpio you crave intensity in your personal relationships and the libra is not forthcoming. So it fustrates the hell out of you.
He as you in a state of confusion,where he says something and you spend your time thinking it over and over.
Ok he showed up thats a good sign,he didnt just blow you out-that shows he has respect for you.
You both seem to spend alot of the time doing physical activities,why not invite him to do something more relaxing.
I once read libra loves moderate exercise,not getting all sweaty. Dont know how if thats spot on.
My mr libra was not into anything that got him to sweat too much-he did kick boxing and once if he was getting too hot,he will have a break..
And in regards to the other guy agreeing to go running with you-the libra might feel jealous and left out. However he will never show it openly. Libra has a tendency to remove themselves from a situation or act as though they are cool with whats going on to save face.
You know i have your back.🙂
@Femmescorpion
Thank you...lol...Yeah I lost it for a little bit! lol
It's odd, it just seems as if us Scorps make a conscious choice to be obsessed, I don't know if it has ever happened to you.
I have just realized that if I want to forget about someone I could do it just as easily as when I just want to be obsessed! lol...Although OBSESSION is more entertaining!!!
There is this thing I love about INTENSITY, OBSESSION, DRAMA!!! MMMmmm tastes delicious!!! lol
Back to topic...I saw him on Sunday and we were working out and talking...I told him about my first triathlon coming along and he basically said no biggy anyways it's your first...just go with the flow...and then I said...yeahh well I still want to make good time, I'm actually quite competitive...and then he looked at me...not knowing what to say and ended up saying...you see me I am more of "doing the stuff for fun, relaxing" and then for once I wasn't shy to say that on the contrary I was quite happy about my competitiveness! Surprisingly he replied: Well I appreciate competitive people, it means that you have drive, discipline and will power and then I said: yeahh..I guess so as long as it doesn't go too far...too much of a good thing is like not enough!
Anyways...learning and realizing that we are very different...I mean he is still a great guy...but I am not sure we're that compatible...I mean I see life with a goal in mind...he sees it with no goal...and that's a pretty big difference.
He is still quite charming...but anything more—
Thank you...lol...Yeah I lost it for a little bit! lol
It's odd, it just seems as if us Scorps make a conscious choice to be obsessed, I don't know if it has ever happened to you.
I have just realized that if I want to forget about someone I could do it just as easily as when I just want to be obsessed! lol...Although OBSESSION is more entertaining!!!
There is this thing I love about INTENSITY, OBSESSION, DRAMA!!! MMMmmm tastes delicious!!! lol
Back to topic...I saw him on Sunday and we were working out and talking...I told him about my first triathlon coming along and he basically said no biggy anyways it's your first...just go with the flow...and then I said...yeahh well I still want to make good time, I'm actually quite competitive...and then he looked at me...not knowing what to say and ended up saying...you see me I am more of "doing the stuff for fun, relaxing" and then for once I wasn't shy to say that on the contrary I was quite happy about my competitiveness! Surprisingly he replied: Well I appreciate competitive people, it means that you have drive, discipline and will power and then I said: yeahh..I guess so as long as it doesn't go too far...too much of a good thing is like not enough!
Anyways...learning and realizing that we are very different...I mean he is still a great guy...but I am not sure we're that compatible...I mean I see life with a goal in mind...he sees it with no goal...and that's a pretty big difference.
He is still quite charming...but anything more—
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@Femmescorpion
I mean he is still a great guy...but I am not sure we're that compatible...I mean I see life with a goal in mind...he sees it with no goal...and that's a pretty big difference.
Don't confuse complacency in one area of life for having no goals or drive at all. I am very motivated in my family and my work. I have drive, determination, desire all that good stuff... but not for competitive underwater basket weaving. Just because he isn't competitive in everything he does doesn't mean he doesn't care about anything. Remember Libras like balance, we don't have to be the best at everything.
I didn't mean to say that he had no goals...it's just that given our age difference...he is at a more stable time in his life as opposed to me who is struggling to be good at everything so that I can be proud of my life when I look back in my late thirties...I am not a perfectionnist I just like to set goals and actually try to achieve them...
One of the reasons I am attracted to him is for this exact same thing...I love how nonchalant he is...he calms me down...I just feel at peace when I talk to him...he listens to me and makes me laugh...he has this quirky way of making jokes...plus he is easygoing...I don't feel under pressure around him other than "relationship related anxiety" lollllz!!!
One of the reasons I am attracted to him is for this exact same thing...I love how nonchalant he is...he calms me down...I just feel at peace when I talk to him...he listens to me and makes me laugh...he has this quirky way of making jokes...plus he is easygoing...I don't feel under pressure around him other than "relationship related anxiety" lollllz!!!
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