Gemini female and Libra male at work
This topic was created in the Libra forum by Zwritergal on Saturday, February 14, 2009 and has 12 replies.
Any thoughts on this situation. I work with guy who, from the first minute he met me he was staring at me like he had never seen a woman before. Now several months later, he has managed to get my contracts at work extended, he pulled some strings. He tells me he cares about me, he reminds me he is the one who got me to stay on at work.No one can say anything behind my back, he defends me at all costs. Then he said something the other day about some guy talking to me as in he probably said he loved you. He reminds me how much he cares about me every day. Its so obvious to people at work the way he stares at me, so I turn the otherway. I am totally confused with him. We are in a white corporate world and we are both older, not kids. He's a married guy, and I am with someone. He is relentless, he manages to go behind my back and get me on projects with him, without my approval. The sexual chemistry is definitely there, and its hard to work with him at times. I am afraid this is going to lead to somethine more and when i am around him I can't say no to this guy, he sucks me in. The latest is we both got offices in another building where no one can see our connection in our dept. He arranged that too. Any thoughts on what this guy is up to? IF it was an affair, wouldn't he have approached that by now? I am a Gemini and I like to be prepared, but i can't make sense of him. I could swear he thinks he is in love with me. this is so confusing.i think the worst part is, i am not happy in my relationship and he knows it. I think he is using my vulnerabilities against me to get his way. I want to believe he is just caring, but this is too way out there.
Has anyone ever dealt with a Libra male before?
Has anyone ever dealt with a Libra male before?
Run away Z! Run far away!
i love gemini women muuuuuuahhhh ! i think all libra males do
^lol AG, Didn't you play your Libra dude?! 
--- actually, it's not him I looking at, it's Zwritegal... what vibes are you giving off?
you gotta deflect him, sooner or later, he'll get the message but Libra guys can be very persistent, you have to get your smarts on too and predict what he's going to do - I mean think everything underhanded... you're gemini afterall 
--- actually, it's not him I looking at, it's Zwritegal... what vibes are you giving off?
you gotta deflect him, sooner or later, he'll get the message but Libra guys can be very persistent, you have to get your smarts on too and predict what he's going to do - I mean think everything underhanded... you're gemini afterall libras and geminis together forever go for it sweet heart and ask em whats his wifes zodiac sign bet he leave her for you especially if she's a aries or a scoripio or a cancer or a sagitarius
Thanks. I appreciate everyone's opinion, interesting. Yes, I am a Gemini. I am sure I give off the wrong vibes. Yes, the chemistry is there. But i didn't plan on him being married. He's keeping me employed, and I think it can be fun at times. Not sure what he is up to next. He is not from the US either. So his S.American charm and good looks make it even harder to resist. But at least going to work is fun!
bet he leave her for you
purleeze!
--- talk about stepping away from reality, but coming from a fellow libra male, not at all surprised.
purleeze!
--- talk about stepping away from reality, but coming from a fellow libra male, not at all surprised.
never forget, if he cheats while married and clearly plans for it, he will do it again
but then again Geminis love mental stimulation and I notice they get bored pretty easily and tent to play games so hmmmm it might work, personally I would run like hell fire but again Gems seem to go for the mental stimuli....you will be okay if you don't mistake chemistry for him being in love with you....good luck with that.
whatever most libra males find gemini women very attractive i personally plan on getting married to one cause they really seem to understand our nature besides libra
^^^ based on how many relationships with gemini women you have had?
Astrologically and in theory, yes gemini and libra is a good match but realistically, you're only dealing with sun sign here, then the moon, mercury and others come into play, no? I mean say you come across 1 million of the opposite sign you're supposed to get alone with and understand your nature, are you attracted to every single one? even if you are, are you gonna get involved with each one you come across? or is the fact that they carry a sun sign blinding you from what really is?
--- the point here is understanding the meaning of commitment, if you're committed, you are committed, cut those ties before beginning another. It's fun and games until someone gets hurt... the thing is, is she the 1st one in the office he has done that with? I doubt it... her sign may have attracted him, who know? but so will the next hot gemini girl in the office that comes along, no?
Astrologically and in theory, yes gemini and libra is a good match but realistically, you're only dealing with sun sign here, then the moon, mercury and others come into play, no? I mean say you come across 1 million of the opposite sign you're supposed to get alone with and understand your nature, are you attracted to every single one? even if you are, are you gonna get involved with each one you come across? or is the fact that they carry a sun sign blinding you from what really is?
--- the point here is understanding the meaning of commitment, if you're committed, you are committed, cut those ties before beginning another. It's fun and games until someone gets hurt... the thing is, is she the 1st one in the office he has done that with? I doubt it... her sign may have attracted him, who know? but so will the next hot gemini girl in the office that comes along, no?
^that's right...
No, I loved him, he just couldn't accept my free spirit, and he was possessive and controlling....He still does sweet things for me, all the time...but its coming from a completely manipulative place. I understand him very well, he's trying to make me dependent on him so he can attatch permanently to me. Once he makes himself invaluable to me, he'll start making demands. lol. To bad for him I see right through him
lol - how very theoretical and aquarius... attempting to predict the future, understanding people like objects... nice
--- just sounds like you 2 were at different places at the time wanting different things.
Libra as air signs as you know have no need for people to attach to or possess ... trust me even my libra friends that are male do sweet little things for me all the time, even the married one, it's in the nature of the sign to idealise and romaticise a lot of things... it may not have anything to even do with the person they're seeing. They just like to perfect every move...
Some people think like that so a lot of people misinterpret motives... I get that too... even when I don't even care that much.
No, I loved him, he just couldn't accept my free spirit, and he was possessive and controlling....He still does sweet things for me, all the time...but its coming from a completely manipulative place. I understand him very well, he's trying to make me dependent on him so he can attatch permanently to me. Once he makes himself invaluable to me, he'll start making demands. lol. To bad for him I see right through him
lol - how very theoretical and aquarius... attempting to predict the future, understanding people like objects... nice
--- just sounds like you 2 were at different places at the time wanting different things.
Libra as air signs as you know have no need for people to attach to or possess ... trust me even my libra friends that are male do sweet little things for me all the time, even the married one, it's in the nature of the sign to idealise and romaticise a lot of things... it may not have anything to even do with the person they're seeing. They just like to perfect every move...
Some people think like that so a lot of people misinterpret motives... I get that too... even when I don't even care that much.
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