happy with leo. but thinkin of aries ex
This topic was created in the Libra forum by libra chick on Friday, January 11, 2008 and has 8 replies.
so things are going pretty well with my leo man. (best friend turned boyfriend) but lately ive been thinking a lot about my aries ex.
i was with this aries man for three and a half years from 2000- 2004. that relationship was a lot of me giving and him not giving as much as i would like.. probably the most intense relationship ive had. you could say he was my first REAL love. the good times were one of the best in my life. but the bad times... oh man can we say suicidal?? lol. they were pretty bad. it ended after i was fed up with giving my all and he wasnt. he tried to win me back but i wasnt havin it. i was just too tired. i fell out of love with him really fast.
i had a relationship with a virgo for a year and half after that relationship and then was single for about two years. it took me a really long time to get over that virgo even though i know that we werent right for each other.
ive had small relationships in between that time and now with an aqua guy, picean and a fling with a leo guy.
being in this new one with mr leo. things with him are good but i cant shake the feeling of the aries and find myself thinking about him a lot more than i should. is it because they are both fire signs? i did have a fling with aries ex while i was single- not something i would have normally done. (2006 was a who-cares... carefree... do what i want to- year for me)
why am i thinking about my ex? did he have something that im lacking in my current relationship? and out of all my exbf's and lovers... why him?
what do you guys think? am i just nuts? lol.
i was with this aries man for three and a half years from 2000- 2004. that relationship was a lot of me giving and him not giving as much as i would like.. probably the most intense relationship ive had. you could say he was my first REAL love. the good times were one of the best in my life. but the bad times... oh man can we say suicidal?? lol. they were pretty bad. it ended after i was fed up with giving my all and he wasnt. he tried to win me back but i wasnt havin it. i was just too tired. i fell out of love with him really fast.
i had a relationship with a virgo for a year and half after that relationship and then was single for about two years. it took me a really long time to get over that virgo even though i know that we werent right for each other.
ive had small relationships in between that time and now with an aqua guy, picean and a fling with a leo guy.
being in this new one with mr leo. things with him are good but i cant shake the feeling of the aries and find myself thinking about him a lot more than i should. is it because they are both fire signs? i did have a fling with aries ex while i was single- not something i would have normally done. (2006 was a who-cares... carefree... do what i want to- year for me)
why am i thinking about my ex? did he have something that im lacking in my current relationship? and out of all my exbf's and lovers... why him?
what do you guys think? am i just nuts? lol.
(( why am i thinking about my ex? did he have something that im lacking in my current relationship? and out of all my exbf's and lovers... why him?))
Bcoz Aries is a more perfect partner for a libra compared to leo. Leo might charm you, love you and all. But wont complete you. But then if you havent tried Aries, you wont get to analyze yourself better and might prefer to think like its the best.
Bcoz Aries is a more perfect partner for a libra compared to leo. Leo might charm you, love you and all. But wont complete you. But then if you havent tried Aries, you wont get to analyze yourself better and might prefer to think like its the best.
Yes, you're just nuts. Find another Aries who won't push you to that extreme----someone who RESPECTS you.
I like Aries , they seem like strong pals who know how to have fun (bonus!)
I think it just takes a Libra a long time to let go. We want so desperately to make sense of why we lost someone that we love, especially if we feel we weren't given an acceptable answer to that question. We just move it around and around and around our heads. We can't understand the loss and what *WE* do to make it happen. We figure there has to be a solution.
I think sometimes we convince ourselves that we really want that person, but what I think is we really want the answer and want everything to be okay.
I think we romanticize the person we miss, until we are able to come to some conclusion about why everything worked out the way it did. Then we let go never looking back. But until we reach that conclusion, we turn it over and over in our mind.
Sometimes, I think it is just because we want to win. Sometimes, I think it is just an escape for when like hands us a relationship bump.
I sometimes lament about the Leo but I am shockingly happy with the Aries. I don't think I would trade him if I could. I am still seeking a way of coming to terms with the relationship that makes sense to me. What was it all about? I really don't know and that is why it haunts me.
Make sense?
I think sometimes we convince ourselves that we really want that person, but what I think is we really want the answer and want everything to be okay.
I think we romanticize the person we miss, until we are able to come to some conclusion about why everything worked out the way it did. Then we let go never looking back. But until we reach that conclusion, we turn it over and over in our mind.
Sometimes, I think it is just because we want to win. Sometimes, I think it is just an escape for when like hands us a relationship bump.
I sometimes lament about the Leo but I am shockingly happy with the Aries. I don't think I would trade him if I could. I am still seeking a way of coming to terms with the relationship that makes sense to me. What was it all about? I really don't know and that is why it haunts me.
Make sense?
Maybe you are still in love with your ex or haven't found anyone yet that can truly replace him.
ive been thinking about this topic a lot the past few days and i think my problem here is that with the aries ex it was all about intensity. conversations with him were intense, fights were beyond intense love making was crazy passionate. its like he couldnt get enough of me whether it be good or bad. with my current leo we started off as best friends so now there is just a comfortability there that wasnt with the aries ex. the aries was very unpredictable and kept me on my toes every second of everyday. my leo is very low key and private and likes things calm and casual which i dont mind too much but i think what is happening is i miss the craziness of life with the aries. i guess i need to spice things up with the leo... any suggestions? if any of you are into charts here are the specs of our charts...
me.
Sun Libra 5?18'16
Moon Gemini 25?00'12
Mercury Virgo 17?48'05
Venus Leo 26?21'48
Mars Leo 29?23'16
Jupiter Sagittarius 6?21'25
Saturn Scorpio 3?27'06
Uranus Sagittarius 5?56'55
Neptune Sagittarius 26?34'46
Pluto Libra 28?29'53
True Node Gemini 18?49'57
his.
Sun Leo 22?14'15
Moon Aquarius 15?45'52
Mercury Leo 27?21'20
Venus Virgo 25?56'05
Mars Cancer 18?27'36
Jupiter Libra 8?30'07
Saturn Libra 6?51'44
Uranus Scorpio 26?06'06
Neptune Sagittarius 22?11'08
Pluto Libra 22?04'48
True Node Leo 1?41'25
me.
Sun Libra 5?18'16
Moon Gemini 25?00'12
Mercury Virgo 17?48'05
Venus Leo 26?21'48
Mars Leo 29?23'16
Jupiter Sagittarius 6?21'25
Saturn Scorpio 3?27'06
Uranus Sagittarius 5?56'55
Neptune Sagittarius 26?34'46
Pluto Libra 28?29'53
True Node Gemini 18?49'57
his.
Sun Leo 22?14'15
Moon Aquarius 15?45'52
Mercury Leo 27?21'20
Venus Virgo 25?56'05
Mars Cancer 18?27'36
Jupiter Libra 8?30'07
Saturn Libra 6?51'44
Uranus Scorpio 26?06'06
Neptune Sagittarius 22?11'08
Pluto Libra 22?04'48
True Node Leo 1?41'25
"i guess i need to spice things up with the leo..." No you need to call your ex or find another Aries. -
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