Hard time accepting the truth; Becomes impulsive?

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Vero23 on Monday, May 20, 2013 and has 4 replies.
I love Libras. I'm a Cancer, and my best friendships have been with Libras but I'm turned off with ignoring the truth. I just can't ignore reality. So does it feel better to believe a lie sometimes? Please help me you beautiful scales.
Thank you Sugar Foot. I have had a similar experience with one Libra gal sort of. I'm a Cancer and we were the best of friends. Anywho I had fallen in love with her. Gosh she was so amazing. That wasn't convenient though. I a woman and she comes from a strong religious background so yea. We were too close for friends though and everyone knew it. I tried to deal with it on my own but after about 6 months I had to tell her. I told her that I had to stop being her friend. We needed some distance bcz she was starting to say things that women don't say to other women. I respected her beliefs and all she stood for. I didn't want to bring her down. So, after I told her she act like I never said anything. She just said she needed my friendship. She pretended like nothing happened. I wanted to talk abt it ; she didn't.
My other friend is in a terrible relationship bless her heart. Her entire family has tried to help her and she gets mad at us. She was in school doing well. Moved out of her Mother's home and with this guy as soon as he was out of prism. Flunked out of school and it's been downhill since. She just pretends like everything is okay when it's out of contril.
I must say, your problem wasn't that extreme but I'm glad that you chose to solve your problems smile
@Sugarfoot, thank you for your input. It sounds like self-growth plays a role in this as well.
@LeoLiza, I agree I don't understand that nature as well. I may be a Cancer but I'm a very direct person. I blame it on the fire in my chartWinking And yes when it all comes down and that relationship is over, I hear all of the very disturbing details. Actually some have already slipped out bcz I know her that well. She just don't know that I do know it. If she did, SHE would immediately start crying. I just love myself enough to do what's best for me.
@Superhero, thank you for your insight on this that was helpful. You sound very mature.
Wow Superhero it's a good thing that she had you to confide in. I'm glad that she overcame that.