He showed up... After 1 year and 4 months!!!

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Gisse109
@Gisse109
12 Years

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Yes, I understand. Maybe you are wondering why I haven't reply.I don't want to give the impression he can forget about me and it's fine: still here waiting for him. Besides, I don't want to be his second choice (because I assume he was not alone all this), or contribute to elevate his male ego... Do you undertand my point?? So I am not sure if I would be doing the right thing emailing him back.
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piscesreisen
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12 Years

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Haha, same thing happened to the Libra guy I liked, similar circumstances as yours. he showed up on FB (suddenly liked my stuff) and replied to my email after a few months of nothing...(said he took a long holiday) and his relationship status is gone from FB. (Could be he just hid it though)

Then again, he's continents away and I'm here. Though he did inquire if I'm still planning on visiting his country (yes, for work), and still wanting me to send him things I made to his house. In my case, I'll just keep it light for now & no expectations 🙂 After all, I'm glad enough that he doesn't forget about me 🙂

In your case though, he's definitely interested in you, sounds like!
If you dont feel good about emailing (or expecting more) probably don't email him, but if you're ok with no expectation, defo email him back. After all, it's just an email 🙂
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Gisse109
@Gisse109
12 Years

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Some more news!!..Firstly thanks to all! I have a fake profile on fb and used it to hook up to talk to him with the excuse that we had worked before and blah blah .. (did not accept me as a friend but we chat) .. In short he has a girlfriend (do not know since when and and he never mentioned a girlfriend to me ever), she lives in another country and he does not plan to start a family now cause wants to live a little more life .. I asked what she had over other girls to have been chosen as a gf and he replied: "Attitude and INITIATIVE" .. I wanted to die! .. and I was always hoping him to come to me first!
After that I tried to test it by the side of fidelity .. and yes .. I pretended to be quite attracted to him .. MUCH to the point of making indecent proposals (he lives in Europe and I told him I was out there) .. At first I was speechless because he made —??it clear that he was with someone and that was not the right thing to do, and blah blah .. (good!, I thought to myself) .. but later he ended up asking me for some photos to see if he approved me .. (for you know what!) haha ... (if he only knew that was chatting with me..) ..

End of story, he was going to think about it (sexual encounter) and then email me .........

To all this I keep wondering ... why have he contacted me a couple of times?? What for?? if he is with someone? ..