I feel like I've been in therapy today reading this Libra message board. I don't feel have as crazy as I have for the last month. I have two Libras working on my mind right now. One is my friend and she has been going through a relationship crisis because she has been cheating on her live in boyfriend [emails, phone calls, kissing] for 1.5 years. I had to about go off on her before she woke up and finally listened to me that nothing justified it. It was like pulling teeth to get the whole story. She gave it to me piecemeal over a couple of months. Now it has only been a couple of weeks since she has been honest with him and she is already whining she has to deal with a couple of nights alone because he is off "thinking"..[I'd be more than thinking]duh. I couldn't take it and had to say something [I'm an Aries]and she got pretty mad. I haven't heard from her for a couple of days and after reading here it could be months. My other Libra is a love thang. I feel lucky I've only been blown off for a few days at a time. She has come back and we go a little deeper with our conversation and then she runs off again. Last encounter I went deeper yet and she has ran off for over a week. She is a big challenge for me and I was ready to accept I may never hear from her again but man a week is nothing. It is the longest she has ran off but our last encounter was pretty heavy..heavy topics. I mean it is non-committal on everything. Help me here pls Libra girls. How long does it take to forgive a friend who calls you out on your bad stuff?? I was heavy in my last conversation with my love Libra, could she have ran off forever? Any help will be appreciated.
Nick
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Sep 28, 2005Comments: 0 · Posts: 7602 · Topics: 89
It really depends.
There is a good chance you embarrassed her and might never hear from her again. Or if you wait a few months and contact her, she will be over it. Or she might call you when he breaks up with her.
I don't like heavy. It usually takes me a few weeks to recover.
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It also depends on heavy. We can easily discuss various means of torture, etc and I don't consider that heavy. If you pry into my feelings, THAT is heavy and it takes a very long time to recover.
Hi LS. I think you are right about embarrassing her. I have known her for a long time and luckily she emailed me with a request that she "doesn't want to fight". I think it is free pass this time because she knows I am a true friend and a typical Aries, leading with the horns. I told her I was sorry I was harsh. She came back later with some normal chatter.
I waffled and sent my love Libra a "where are you" note and she responded. She said she gets overwhelmed and freezes. I can't read her but she has said to me over and over she "loves" our writing connection. She freezes because she doesn't think what she writes sounds as beautiful as my writing. Help me more please. How long will she go along with this email romance? Is it a good fit getting to know each other via email? How can I keep her interested? We are keeping it sweet, innocent, and not to heavy as far as a love connection because it is email and we live some distance from each other. She lives kind of far away but I just got official work from anywhere status and I could go for extended visits if we get closer. I'm even learning patience in this forum waiting for libras to help. It is all good...thank you for helping.