help me please

This topic was created in the Libra forum by baby76 on Saturday, April 11, 2009 and has 5 replies.
I have one libra that i am crazy about. i have known him for 12 years. we at first had just a sexual relationship. off and on for years. for the last month he has been wining and dining me. we have been to different public functions. co workers have seen us out.he called and texted everyday. numerous times a day. he is leaving for iraq in about 6 weeks for 4-6 months. he told me the other day that he just wanted to keep things simple. every since he told me that he has not called me or texted. when i text him he is always busy. i get so many mixed signals from him. i just don't know how to respond to him. i know going overseas is alot to handle and with this being his second time and all he is more stressed than ever. i just don't know how to handle his on again off again mood swings. what should i do?
Being a libra guy my best advice to you is to leave it. As we all know libra's weigh the goods and bads of things and considering he is going over sea's he may be watching out for your feelings as well as his. Libra's love to make others happy, even more so when they care about that person, so I am sure he does care about you. And as for the mixed signals we use them like a hook, we can always be on and off about things but we do this to leave people thinking and wondering. They say once a libra guy has you, he has you for good. See by "hooking" you with these "mood swings" he is making sure he does not leave your thoughts, which shows he care's for you. I think this guy has strong feelings for you but with war ahead he wont risk hurting you or himself. If this is indeed the case then backing off will be the best for both of you. If its not then backing off may put the hook in his mouth.
ythank you so much for your advice. i was so worried about the situation that i could hardly sleep for the past few nights. i think i'll just back off until he gets home in a few months.
^Good idead about waiting it out but he shouldn't be hooking your mind since he will be gone for a while.
i thought so too. alot can happen in six months. he knows that he is still my friend.

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