He's baaaaaack! Libra (m) for Cancer (f)
This topic was created in the Libra forum by sucha_d0ll on Tuesday, March 17, 2009 and has 10 replies.
for those that chat w/ me - I'm a Cancer, I broke up with him about 2 months ago. When it ended we were both so damn stubborn, we stopped talking.
he texted me friday, tried to play it off like he was just 'checking in on me' and spilled his heart out. I really never expected all of that verbal communication and emotion to come from a Libra... but he sure let me know exactly how it was these last 6 or so weeks. hearing him talk about how he felt, it was just the way i was feeling.
i just listened though, i didn't tell him too much because i am still sizing the situation up. (the crab is still in her shell, examining the surroundings until she feels it's safe to come out! lol)
ok ok... all bs aside... most of us have gone back at least once. was it regretful? successful? i haven't decided yet; i need to figure this crap out first.... good advice?
Sweethearts? Spica? Sagittarius89? krysrenee7?
he texted me friday, tried to play it off like he was just 'checking in on me' and spilled his heart out. I really never expected all of that verbal communication and emotion to come from a Libra... but he sure let me know exactly how it was these last 6 or so weeks. hearing him talk about how he felt, it was just the way i was feeling.
i just listened though, i didn't tell him too much because i am still sizing the situation up. (the crab is still in her shell, examining the surroundings until she feels it's safe to come out! lol)
ok ok... all bs aside... most of us have gone back at least once. was it regretful? successful? i haven't decided yet; i need to figure this crap out first.... good advice?
Sweethearts? Spica? Sagittarius89? krysrenee7?
Posted by sucha_d0ll
for those that chat w/ me - I'm a Cancer, I broke up with him about 2 months ago. When it ended we were both so damn stubborn, we stopped talking.
he texted me friday, tried to play it off like he was just 'checking in on me' and spilled his heart out. I really never expected all of that verbal communication and emotion to come from a Libra... but he sure let me know exactly how it was these last 6 or so weeks. hearing him talk about how he felt, it was just the way i was feeling.
i just listened though, i didn't tell him too much because i am still sizing the situation up. (the crab is still in her shell, examining the surroundings until she feels it's safe to come out! lol)
ok ok... all bs aside... most of us have gone back at least once. was it regretful? successful? i haven't decided yet; i need to figure this crap out first.... good advice?
Sweethearts? Spica? Sagittarius89? krysrenee7?
If a Libra come back then we have made our mind up THAT WE WANT YOU & PROBALY LOVE YOU!! My advice is to take things really slow and dont bring up the past too much.
If you need to release some feelings on things that he has done or said, do it slow and smooth! That way he actually understand and feel you IN ADDITION, HEAR YOU!!
I've went back once and I dont not regret it. Despite what you might hear, libras always come back-- it's not true! 2 reasons libra's come back around.. 1 to make amends and clear our conscious becuz we may feel we didnt treat you right OR 2 WE FUCKING LOVE YOU. Where do you fall? LOL..
Good luck!
^^^ Yes. I really think he loves you. I believe and can sense you would fall under that. 1. you were in a serious relationship together. 2. he actually dated you. And it sounded like it was intense so yes. I'd say love. You'll see tho
My situation was the other way around in which I am the librian and he was the Cancer.
I did similar and sent a text one night randomly after about 3 months, not expecting too much but when he replied almost instantly I knew he missed me and there was still plenty there.
As everyone says, take things slowly and make sure that things are right with you both & it's really what you want, as you weren't 100% sure last time. DONT let him get too comfortable, you both need to keep things alive. In my experience the honeymoon period is at least 2 years for a good long relationship. But I always beleive people deserve a second chance but not a third!!! He should understand that completely!
Good luck mate, keep yourself guarded but not too much so that he can feel some love. It'll be awesome to hear another happy outcome
I did similar and sent a text one night randomly after about 3 months, not expecting too much but when he replied almost instantly I knew he missed me and there was still plenty there.
As everyone says, take things slowly and make sure that things are right with you both & it's really what you want, as you weren't 100% sure last time. DONT let him get too comfortable, you both need to keep things alive. In my experience the honeymoon period is at least 2 years for a good long relationship. But I always beleive people deserve a second chance but not a third!!! He should understand that completely!
Good luck mate, keep yourself guarded but not too much so that he can feel some love. It'll be awesome to hear another happy outcome
I don't personally have experience with cancer - libra relationships. But a friend's parents are this combi (they seem like a very good couple)- still together after over 25 years of marriage?. I would deduce that the libra man loves the home and the security you provide, or exude.
My opinion would be that it can work out. Oh, I know another libra-cancer couple. They're still dating and it looks good.
For me, there are 2 types of cancer ladies (not sure about the men): the genuine and the fake. I know both types, and the latter is startling to me, tbh. I much prefer the real, emotional, caring cancer lady. The latter has been scalded and baked by the superficial society and has turned un-cancerlike. You actually seem like the former.
Cancer and Libra are both cardinals: thats where you may understand each other. As mentioned before, I believe the libra who is attracted to the cancer really desires a partnership and home life, and he likes you because you are real and caring. It really helps if he has a cancer moon, planets in his 4th house, or a watery chart in general.
good luck!
I personally wouldnt date a cancer man, but the ladies are a different breed, actually. Just like how libra males and females differ.
My opinion would be that it can work out. Oh, I know another libra-cancer couple. They're still dating and it looks good.
For me, there are 2 types of cancer ladies (not sure about the men): the genuine and the fake. I know both types, and the latter is startling to me, tbh. I much prefer the real, emotional, caring cancer lady. The latter has been scalded and baked by the superficial society and has turned un-cancerlike. You actually seem like the former.
Cancer and Libra are both cardinals: thats where you may understand each other. As mentioned before, I believe the libra who is attracted to the cancer really desires a partnership and home life, and he likes you because you are real and caring. It really helps if he has a cancer moon, planets in his 4th house, or a watery chart in general.
good luck!
I personally wouldnt date a cancer man, but the ladies are a different breed, actually. Just like how libra males and females differ.
Oh...it was always a bumpy ride with the 2 of us, lots of disagreements and the protective shell thing drove me nuts!! Couldn't understand why he couldn't open up and share some things.. But also alot of passion
One thing though...I'd get to the bottom of the "EX" thing before making up your mind on anything! Letting go of someone that has meant alot to us is not an easy thing to do unless they have made it VERY CLEAR that they aren't interested and would NEVER be again!!
One thing though...I'd get to the bottom of the "EX" thing before making up your mind on anything! Letting go of someone that has meant alot to us is not an easy thing to do unless they have made it VERY CLEAR that they aren't interested and would NEVER be again!!
I think Libra and Cancer go well. Only if Cancer take time to understand Libra emotions. My ex had a cancer moon and he really took the time to understand me like no other man!
Posted by moon_eyes
Dont knwo you but
when libras do that they really do have feelings for you. And when they dont talk it doesnt mean they dont have feelings but they dont open up. When they do like this one does its a sign that there are things under the surface boiling. Take it slow observe then react.
SMART WOMAN!! TRUTH!!
Posted by sweethearts
In my experience the honeymoon period is at least 2 years for a good long relationship. But I always beleive people deserve a second chance but not a third!!! He should understand that completely!
Good luck mate, keep yourself guarded but not too much so that he can feel some love. It'll be awesome to hear another happy outcome
Great to hear.
I hope that our honeymoon period lasts even half as long! LOL Things have been going nice and slow. I have to say though - I've been reading on this cancer/lib combo for a few months. So far a few things prove to be a bit true. Us cancers sometimes need that affection and re-assurance that comes along with relationships.It's a bit difficult with these thinkers. We can be super stubborn whenever there is a disagreement. Being that we are also both Cardinal - there's a struggle for power sometimes.
I'm not a typical cancer, in the whole 'clingy' sense. So I think that helps a lot. I don't chase him at all; and I guess it helped. Because what happened was what I was hoping for.
Posted by moon_eyes
Im a cancer
Mooneyes! I never made the connection. I've read your threads a few times, and your woes with your Libra. Now I can see why you and I seem alike.
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