Hey! Where Is Everyone?? Update from Aquabrat

Where is everyone? How are all you doing? I have not been on lately. So I need to catch up with everyone.. libra, alcheme, nicodemus, houstonpeach74, littlesparrow, queenscorpio...


Well things are going different now. My libra called Friday night with a new agenda. He is back to the way he was several months ago when we were trying to do our thing. Im not sure what light went off in his mind, maybe it was me telling him I will be an official bachelorette (ie, single, divorce finalized) in the next two weeks. Called me and told me we could start spending more time together again, bc he does not mess around with married women. Said he is looking to purchase a house soon and now I will have a place to stay, when I come to visit him. He is talking about cooking for me and all the stuff we use to talk about before. He is still saying that he does not want a girlfriend, so I am not sure what his agenda is, but I am looking forward to having fun with him. Its been a long haul, and its not over yet.

Im taking everything with a grain of salt, and just learning to live in the moment with him.

What is new with you all??

Living in the moment is good.

My bf met my parents this weekend. I'm meeting his next weekend.

We've had some miscommunication lately but like you I'm learnng to live in the moment and TRY to take everything at face value.

You're handling it just right. I've been very busy working and planning a recital, whch is taking place Wednesday night, and visiting Libra Girl some, just some. Just friends. 'Tired of wearing my emotions on my sleeve. Just pleasant lunches / dinner with her. It's time for her to respond now, so I'm just waiting. Weather's been incredible, so appreciating the fresh air and sunshine.

Seems EVERYTHING is long haul for Libra!

Aqua,

I am working hard as usual. Involved with a wonderful Libra man. Planning to move south by the end of the year (yes we are planning to move in together). He has met my daughter and my mother. My baby adores him. She actually took over some of my time with him, asking him to color with her, watch a movie with etc. While I did other things around the house. That was a relief as she has never been around any other man nor has she seen me with any other man than her father.


The times apart are brutal, but when we see eachother it is blissful and never enough time. I am so lucky to have found him, he is my peace.

Okay, enough about me. Happy your libra is coming around, I know how you feel. I am also waiting to be officially divorced. It is a bummer... Uggghhh.

good to see you're back and in control of your situation Bratsy!!!

At my end its all good...been going out more with friends and even dating other guys but Saturday night Libra calls, we talk for an hour and arrange to catch up on Sunday night, against my better judgement coz it just brings back those emotions!! Caught up on Sunday night and being a long weekend and 3 bottles of red later?? yeah...no more needs to be said LOL...even though we both know its wrong to prolong this, we did anyway...yikes here I go again!!!

He won't let me go, he won't commit to me either but he has assured me he is not looking for others either and that the online thing is merely a boredom issue....go figure!! Im done worrying about it and gather that in time we will either make it as a couple or we will split entirely...no use looking at the past or the future as the present is all that matters 🙂

Things are ok though...I have no expectations, nor will I spend 24/7 hoping to catch up with him...I figure he knows where I am, Im no longer chasing 🙂 Keeping myself really busy and have spent less time on here - did anybody notice by the way?? LOL

Life is good otherwise...no complaints.

Hey Brats! Great to see you back!

Glad to see that things are going a bit more positive since you last posted. I am glad that you and him are going to have some fun together. If a relationship isn't fun, then where's the point, right? Sorry to hear he is still a bit undecided, but you seem to be progressing in the right direction, so that is awesome.

Nic and I are doing great (will be doing a lot better once I get to Phoenix, but we are hanging in there). Scorpios are SOOOOO not cut out for long distance relationships (especially when yummy Libras are involved)... LOL! The amusing irony would be that even when some of us do find the right Libra, we still don't get to see them but every few weeks... We have both been somewhat busy with other stuff lately, so we haven't been on the forum much lately.

So, that is about it on my end. Hope things pick up with your Libra man!!

OMG I can not believe all the couples on DXP.. WOW! Thanks you all for responding and letting me know how you all are doing. Sounds like everyone is doing good. Im glad. My libra is house hunting right now and I am planning to help him decorate when he moves in hopefully in the next month or two.

Planning something special for his bday, not sure what yet. All you libra lovers, what are you doing for your libra's bday? He took like 8 of my friends out for dinner and drinks, I gotta do something spectacular for him..

Ideas.. and something besides hot, butt naked sex.. im still working on that and he is fighting me all the way.. so what else can I do?

"ohmygosh, alcheme! you and nic? i had no idea!



congrats to you both! that is wonderful to hear. i like to read of success stories. all the best to you..."

Thanks! 🙂

We are coming up on five amazing, wonderful, fantastic, and masochistically long-distance months... LOL! Much like QS and LP, we are both greatly looking forward to having the opportunity to realize the relationship on a greater level (and much more consistently physical level, LOL).

Glad to hear your studies are going well!! You need to come by and visit on the Libra forum more often! 🙂