Hmmm... Only time will tell?

So I have had a Libra friend (even though I considered him more of an associate) for almost 2 years now and he is a really REALLY cool guy. Sometimes weird (aha) but nontheless, awesome. Well, two weeks ago, the friendship turned from JUST FRIENDS to more. I went to go hang out with him at his place, and it was just the regular, him telling hilarious stories, and all of that jazz. So it starts getting late and he begins reciting poetry, because I'm a total love for the arts. By the time I know it, we are kissing, very, very passionately.. like nothing I had ever felt before. And we just cuddled and kissed all night (and I ended up sleeping over)...it was magical, yet something JUST FRIENDS don't do..( well, I dont do that with my male friends..lol) And this week he has contacted me just to check on me. Even yesterday he called after a VERY LONG DAY just to let out his stressful day, something he NEVER did before... What does this mean? I (being a Scorpio) dont want to read TOO MUCH, but I mean, overanalyzing and being oblivious are two different things... Hmmmm, what does it mean?

sounds like another case for QS (Queen Scorpio).

lol!! Cant wait

LMAO@ Atom!!!

Scorp woman/Libra male has a very strong uncontrolable sexual and emotional bond... I find if there it doesn't move froem FWB or casual to something more serious in the beginning stages it probably never will in most cases. However, I married a libra FWB who I was casual with for about a year. LOL!!! Anyway, things can sometime be rocky on other levels, but sex is always remarkable. Libras, not normally the emotional kind, do seem to get that way with scorps...

Take what he says to be true. Accept him for who he is. Give him his space and don't take advantage of his easy going agreeable attitude. The rest will be on a case by case basis. Yeah most of my envolvements/relationships have been with the Libra male.

((I find if there it doesn't move froem FWB or casual to something more serious in the beginning stages it probably never will in most cases.))

I actually agree because this is my first time dealing with a Libra and the first time (when I was TOO YOUNG to handle anything) went to FWB from the get go, but I ended that so I wasn't able to see where it would have gone anyway. Wow, although thats what it is, it's hard for me to call him a FWB especially since I was in a FWB limbo with a Leo for almost 2 years (it was HORRIBLEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!) Another thing is, I have been celibate for around 9 months now, but he is just SO tempting and I trust him enough to not treat me as just a FWBs. Should I wait to see where its going before I try anything or should I give him a taste? haha

One thing I also worry about is his last relationship. He was with a young woman for 4 years, only to find out that she cheated, and that scarred him, so I also wonder if that will affect anything that could happen between us...

like nothing I had ever felt before

Of course not...he is a libra and the best in the zodiac (in the bed) that I'm told hehehe YA BETTA RUN or fall in love one =D

lol, we didnt have sex though. he just held me, caressed my arm and back.. things like that. Scorpios are the rulers of sex so, I don't think I can agree that much with ya librabra =)

One thing I also worry about is his last relationship. He was with a young woman for 4 years, only to find out that she cheated, and that scarred him, so I also wonder if that will affect anything that could happen between us...

Hmm. it depends find out what sign she was. Libra is pretty good about moving on especially if that someone b/f was not the true thing. I know I have dated Aries, Libra, Sag, and Cancer and Aquarius..

Libra..was my first love and broke my heart bad..=**( Was very attravted to him in every way BUT we never hit the sack


Cancer: Was highly attracted to in all ways but he was unfaithful.. So so in the sack
Aries: Umm borderline psychotic...but FINE and was A PLUS in the sack
Aquarius: Super good looking..had way too many friends...was not reallty "there" for me..
Not good in bed =)

**See I'm giving you thelow down on all the signs..hehee JUST KIDDING**

Ok finally Sag: WHOAAA extreme attraction to... like none of the above. Great friend..funny..good in bed but could be better ( longer)

SO if he is a true libra hes going to prob. be an all nighter so get ready =D

Scorpios are the rulers of sex so, I don't think I can agree that much with ya

Maybe..I have no idea never been with one BUT I can say libras like it all night =D
So ya may want to work on your stamina HAHAHA

...just kidding

lol!!!!! I have been with a Virgo, two Scorpios, two Leos, one Gemini, and a Taurus.. lol, and I have not EVER wanted to be with a Cancer (I havent found one that seems to have balls.. they seem too sensitive for me) or Sag (almost dated one, but found out he had a 4 year old daughter and I'm TOO YOUNG to be a step mom (only 20)) and Aries? haha, you were bold. Actually, my best guy friend is an Aries, and we argue too much (usually I win because I don't take mess from him esp.) so librabra, you are a BOLD WOMAN! lol, I see you have a lot of experience between the sheets with these signs.

(Maybe..I have no idea never been with one BUT I can say libras like it all night =D
So ya may want to work on your stamina HAHAHA)

I agree, in a way though! Because when I slept over, I would try to sleep but couldnt because he would then kiss me or touch me lol! So I would end up saying "Goodnight" over and over, because a 'goodnight kiss' never was a goodnight, but more of a welcome for more kisses haha. Awww (flashback)....

ATL scorp, just don't jump to any conclusions... Wait it out. This could be tricky, act aloof and just ride it out and see what happens. Don't give him any yet unless it can't be controlled. It can be so hard to control yourself around these guys. Damn! However, it can be done. I know. Hard though. LOL!!! Damn, very hard... LOL!! Sheesh!!!

**Actually, my best guy friend is an Aries, and we argue too much**
Yes, I have a love/hate realtionship with this sign. Every Aries I know is extremely attracted to me, but they are FIRE!! I get burned and end up arguing with every one of them..lol They are rams and are head strong people. But I truly admire them for their independence and willing to beat a dead horse even more. HAHA

Ok waiting for Aries to pop out fo the bushses and attack...😆

Lol!!! I shall maintain my composure!! @ QS

lol, what helps me not think about it is the pain and mistrust from the Leo guy.. Libra knows that I am celibate though, and can sense that I'm not ready for sex, and (to my surprise, just being a man) respects it and hasn't tried to poke me..yet...haha! We are very "touchy feely", so hopefully I can sustain from going further than where we have gone...

[I wish I could see him this weekend... =/ ]

Lol!! Libra...

He (Aries) actually keeps hitting on me in ways that make me feel uncomfortable. Do Aries know when to stop? I have told him over and OVER that I see him as JUST A FRIEND, actually I see and call him my brother. Yet, he continously says and does things that crosses the line. He must want me to really tell me off, and he knows I will...

**I agree, in a way though! Because when I slept over, I would try to sleep but couldnt because he would then kiss me or touch me lol✨*

Yea, when I was with my Libra and this was my first love..so I was kinda in the dark so to speak.. he would do the same thing. Its like I was scared to take that step with him b/c I knew there would be no turing back. So it was kinda strange..
I think you should know they are masters at love making so you may want to seriously think about that before you decide to go that route.

And I still havent been with a libra!!! HAHA

***I think you should know they are masters at love making so you may want to seriously think about that before you decide to go that route.***

Wow... so that sounds really, really scary.. But isn't it also the same way for a male dealing with a Scorpio woman? EVERYYYYYYY man I have been sexual with still contacts me *well, besides the Leo that I told the hell off* and tells me how much they miss me (yada yada) so I believe I have been blessed with the magic spell as well =) haha

Wow... so that sounds really, really scary.. But isn't it also the same way for a male dealing with a Scorpio woman? EVERYYYYYYY man I have been sexual with still contacts me *well, besides the Leo that I told the hell off* and tells me how much they miss me (yada yada) so I believe I have been blessed with the magic spell as well =) haha


Yes..so it sounds like a combustible combo =D *grins wickedly haha

hahaha =) yes yes yes

The only thing I'm not used to is thinking about him like I am now. I'm so used to not really thinking about him at all, but now that that happened, it makes me think of him more, and it feels kinda good. Then again, I'm still going through my lil trust issues because of past hurt, so I'm trying not to get involved in anyting too serious of too fast... As I say, "Only time will tell"

Another thing I noticed about Libra men is that many of them seem very career driven!! He is involved in A LOT of things, which kinda slows down the one on one contact, especially since we go to two different schools 30 mins away... Hmmm, hopefully I can see him this weekend, but if not, I will just think about him.. (haha)

***But isn't it also the same way for a male dealing with a Scorpio woman? EVERYYYYYYY man I have been sexual with still contacts me *well, besides the Leo that I told the hell off* and tells me how much they miss me (yada yada) so I believe I have been blessed with the magic spell as well =) haha****

The Answer is yes!!! The same exact thing has happened to me. One libra was very discriptive of what he missed about me, body parts included. Sick men, what we do to them. Whew!!! Without even trying 😉

Yes some Libra men can be extremely career driven. However you will run into the occasional unbalanced lazy ones. LOL!!!

Lol, Libra Libra Libra...

And now Mr. Pisces is calling so he will be this weekend (Ahhh, how I love playing the field) and so if Mr. Libra wants to hang out this weekend its a no no no =) I don't have time to dwell on just one person ya know...

=O

That's the spirit....the more the merrier LOL

oh no lol, typing and talking are different.. trust! lol, i can talk a lottttt

lol@ librabra, why the shocked face?

Mr. Pisces V/S Mr. Libra

This ought to be interesting...

Libra and Pisces do not get along from what I'm told =)

Hmmm..well, they won't be knowing about each other so its fine lol... My thing is they are probably doing the same thing so there is no point of me trying to date just one if they are playing the field too ya know? i'm too young to stick with one peroon if its not reciprocal 🙂

So I woke up this morning and realized that I really like the Libra dude, but it sucks how he is so involved in everything (why couldn't he be a slacker!? lol jk) The distance between schools takes a tole on the pace of where things are going although it is only about 30 mins. I know that patience is a virtue, but sometimes I just want to feel his touch or kiss him, you know? Oh well... =/

And tonight, I'm supposed to see Mr. Pisces but we shall see.. I'm about to go to the mall with Mr. Aries so he can buy me some things for my date tonight 😉 haha!!

Me:Scorpio Sun
Aries Moon
Libra Mercury
Scorpio Venus
Libra Mars
Aries Jupiter
Sag Saturn
Sag Uranus
Capricorn Neptune
Scorpio Pluto
Leo Lilith
Aries N. Node

Him:
Libra Sun
Capricorn Moon
Scorpio Mercury
Scorpio Venus
Aquarius Mars
Pisces Jupiter
Sag Saturn
Sag Uranus
Capricorn Neptune
Scorpio Pluto
Leo Lilith
Aries N. Node

Actually, some sites say my moon is in Pisces and others say its in Aries...

So I woke up this morning and realized that I really like the Libra dude,


Of course! Libra and his charms there is no way out now 😆

You really only have 2 choices..

A. Fall in love (maybe get married) OR B. Run like hell =) HAHA IM SERIOUS!!

Libra people are all about getting married and family so...its something to think about *WINK*

I don't mean to always seem to "toot our horns" but arent Scorpios just as mind blowing? =) lol, like I don't lke the thought of me thinking of him and him just being like "hmph" when it comes to thinking about me.. =/

ATL_Scorp, he is probably thinking of you as well. Don't think about marriage anytime soon. Librans will only get married when they KNOW the person is the ne and it will take awhile then too. Was married to one.

Just keep your options open, but believe me the Libra will definitely stand out amongst the others, especially for a scorp.

I hope so =) I called him just now even though I should be doing my paper due Tuesday.. but he didnt pick up. No big deal though, so I turned off my phone to concentrate because books first. And NOOO marriage is way TOO far down the road. I'm only a sophomore in college, I know nothing about marriage, and I would rather take Poetry 205 over Marriage 101 lol...

I have been playing the field with a Pisces, Libra, and Leo (yes, another one), so I have company... but you're right. The Libra stands out more than them all.. But that also could be because he was the last one I spent time with. The Leo went to school 3 hours away, and the Pisces I have only hung out with at a party (it wasn't a date, just a bunch of friends chilling)...

Another reason why I feel Libra is hesitant in a lot is because of his past. He was in a 4 year relationship only to be cheated on.. =/ So that can take a tole on his trust..

Yeah, librans need a lot of reassurance once they have been hurt.

But how can I give them that without being on their balls (excuse my language). Because not only is he a Libra, but he is a MAN.. which is a double hard headed thing lol

Leo (yes, another one)

😆

Libra, but he is a MAN.

Scorpio...whats the deal then..its like you are skeptical about this libra. I could be wrong though.. But even though you will not be thinking about marriage...if he likes you I promise he will be =)

Also, if he was burned...then he was prob. deeply hurt. Libras don't do good when burned and it changes sometimes their outlook on love. But it should only make to where they are better at looking at what they want. Also, Libras can be emotional at times. I know like with myself, I'm cranky or ill and do not even know why and sometimes I will take it out on who ever is around. So you may sense this as well.

Be his friend, an ear. Be nice, drama free. No pressure, take your time.

People that have been hurt are skeptical about everything...

[[Also, Libras can be emotional at times. I know like with myself, I'm cranky or ill and do not even know why and sometimes I will take it out on who ever is around.]]

I'm very similar to this, and actually had a moment like this yesterday where I was just frustrated for no reason lol..

And QS, Will do... I will take my time, and give him space, as I have been... And just think about him secretly *wink* lol

I called him last Sunday though (Feb. 10) but he didnt answer and hasnt called back... Weird behavior?

I've never initially called my ex .I was even too busy to call him back .Now when I think back that's what kept a Libra. Don't ever behave as a clingy person 🙂

So I shouldnt call him back? Its not clingy, just been a week...Well, I can wait another week or so..lol, so its good. Its less because I want to talk to him, and more because I want him to know I'm still interested...

I didn't call him for about 1 month due to the pressure of my work and he sent email to ask to speak on Skype with me (we live in different countries at that time) , even then I still have to rearrange/delay the date as I've too many responsibilities... Still he was the one who initiates things...The only reason we broke up because he wanted me to become a Christian!

Hold on.. I'm confused.. Who is the Libra in the situation?

AS, I do kinda find that kinda of weird. I dated a Libra for about a year or less, but he always called me back. Even after we broke up (and told him not to ever talk to me again) he still calls (up to this day)! lol He recently came up to me at the gym and said, "hey, I called you on your bday, u didn't pick up..." I said, "sorry, I missed it, I was busy." I think he knew I was being a B!tCh (cuz he fed me BS and broke my heart really good) and then he slowly walked away.

Well, the point is...usually they call and very aggressive! When I just started dating him, we hung out right away everyday after our first date and I was introduced to his whole family! He told me he loved me after a week (lol) I shouldn't have believed that though, but it sounded sincere at that time and we made "love" as he called it within the week. Everything went very fast and that's probably why it didn't work out, but this was all his works. I just fell in love with him and I coudldn't let go for a very long time (for 2 yrs!) I did get clingy and demanding after he told me he needed space..so that's another reason why we probably didn't work out (I'm a capricorn btw)

oh and just to let u guys know, I met another libra!!! And gosh, I am scared to fall for this guy cuz we got along so well on our first date this friday. Well like AS, I am also playing the field with a leo (if u guys know anything about them let me know). So I should be giving him alot of space since I'm distracted by him as well. Then, I can pick the guy who works harder for me 🙂

PS: Libra and I had more connection than Leo who is better looking. They both said they like me...who to choose? (I'm leaning towards the LIBRA..ahh!)

I called him last Sunday though (Feb. 10) but he didnt answer and hasnt called back... Weird behavior?

Not really...I have message upon message on my answering machine and to be honest..sometimes I don't even check it b/c of the extra calls like telemarketers.. It could be a situation like that. Call him back and act like ya didn't call the first time if he picks up an dsee what happens =)

There?s a difference between being clingy and showing interest..that?s important. If a person cant accept that the other might look forward to spending time in their company then they shouldnt start what they cant handle. I?m libra, and i dont have any problems with intensity, and in my opinion nobody should be wary of expressing themselves to another, especially if the relationship is showing signs of developing romantically.

Dont pussyfoot around him, and dont count days as appropriate lengths of time without contact..that is simply ridiculous. All this talk of laying off and being all superior "oh, im so busy with my own life, i have such a busy schedule" etc..well, good for you. But relationships need consistant effort, and if you cant invest, then give nothing.

AS, you should have left a message. That seems to be affective. They might not call right back but they will eventually, but it seems when you leave a voice mail message they relisten to it, think about it and call you back.