How do you stay friends with a Libra male?

Hi All!

First time posting here. I'm looking for a way to break off a casual dating relationship I have with a libra guy, but still remain friends (if that's even possible). I'm a pisces girl, so I don't like hurting feelings and it's hard for me to just be straight forward with this situation. He's fun loving, free spirited and SOCIAL wich I love about him. He's also the BEST lover I have ever had 🙂, but he is def the poster child for Libra. can never makeup his mind, always says he'll call, never does. Makes plans, then breaks them. Disappears for a few days, comes back for a few days, then disappears again .. YOU GET IT! He's a 28 year old guy who's only responsibility is to himself, I'm a 32 year old gal with two children to raise. He introduces me to his friends as his "friend" and although he has never came out and called what we have casual, I am assuming it is, because we only see each other on Fridays and he seems perfectly happy with that. I have stressed to him that I'd like to see him more, but it goes in one ear and out the other. We have only known each other for about 2 months btw. Everything I have read about Libra says to just be upfront, honest and face to face, but since he's more of the "textual" type, and not the face to face type, I'm wondering whether I should just send him an email— or text—? He seems to prefer texting and it's not like we're in a serious relationship, but I'd love to keep the friendship, because he does have a big heart. We are just two very different types when it comes to dating, sex ect ... I've read that Libras are "revengeful" , lol, is this true— 'cause I def don't want to deal with that side of him!

DONT remain friends, it doesnt work very often....you're right, it is casual, there's nothing there other than the fun you have when you do hook up. Sounds EXACTLY like my ex Libra.

The disappearing act? it wont stop. Texting? dont bother - when he comes back, tell him to his face...simple, break it off.

Save yourself the heartache of PRETENDING you can be friends and not hoping you can have more because you've already said you want more. Dont delude yourself as many have in the past. He is having fun, he comes back when he feels like it and you've allowed it (dont get me wrong, I did this myself for quite a long time thinking it would grow and grow...it NEVER DID because he got what he wanted, then skipped off into the sunset and forgot I existed til he got horny again)...dont do that to yourself.

I dont think Libras are revengeful...he'll understand where you're coming from and will most likely walk away...let him...he isnt worth it because all he wants is the sex...get it? WTF would he be revengeful if he can clearly see you dont want to be used? Librans arent like that at all.

It sounds like you want more from him. If you didn't you would be bothered if you didn't see eachother that often. You usually don't see friends everyday. "If" you really wanted him as a friend than the way it is sounds fine.

exactly. I asked those very same questions early on in my relationship with Libra but its just not possible to be "just friends" when you want more....it hurts that person too much.

I did want to see him more, to get to know him better, but since I still don't know him any better then I did two months ago, and seeings how we will be running into each other quite a bit for awhile (we have a mutual friend who performs at local bars) I didnt want things to be awkward between us. Like I said, in a social setting, he's an awsome guy to hang with. I have NO libra friends or family, and NO libra in my own chart! so I'm pretty much oblivious when it comes to Libras, lol ... I wasn't sure how to handle the situation. thanks for your thoughts 🙂

Casual? Why feel obligated to verbally cut him off a CASUAL FRIENDSHIP? You really dont owe him an explanation, just move on!

yeah and there's no need to feel awkward if you bump into eachother, doesnt mean you have to hang around him when you're there....thing is you'll always been drawn back into his charms and that doesnt free you up to meet somebody who DOES want to give you the relationship.

Sweetsherrie Im a Leo

lol, yeah, I've read ALL about that Libra charm .... but hopefully my Virgo Moon will kick in and I'll come to my senses 😉

Never feel like you owe anybody anything LOL 🙂 Sag talk haha

The casual thing, sounds like you already are just friends. Next time he starts getting kinky don't let it lead to sex. Don't seduce him and just treat him like a friend not a lover and that's what he'll be. Sometimes its better to steer it the way you want it to go rather than to say it. Especially if you're not comfortable with being direct. You can still get the message across by being subtle. This way, if he has any questions then he'll be the one who asks. If it bothers him enough so that he does ask then you can tell him how you feel and see what happens from there.

u cant 🙂)

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u cant 🙂)

lmao @ lbr.

called him, no answer, so I left a message to call me back, text him the next day ... same thing ... so uh, maybe I wont have too.

thanks guys 🙂

haha, my DXP horoscope for the day... maybe I spoke to soon.

Pisces (February 19-March 20)-
Although you didn't expect it, that small problem you've been hoping is gone just might show up again. The secret to overcoming it lies within your heart. In addition, it wouldn't hurt to talk it over with an old friend.