How do you stop lovin' a Libra?

if it is possible to stop loving someone you loved before in the first place(?)

Libra stands for love, so how do you stop loving Love?
If anyone figures this out please post something.

Well, it's possible over time to stop loving someone if you've healed, forgiven & found better. BUT, if there is no healing, forgiveness or replacement after the relationship, I wouldn't call it not loving that person anymore; it'd be more like trying to block that person out BECAUSE you still love them.

If anything, it's harder to stop loving a person whose hurt you b/c of the fact that you held that person in higher esteem & expectation, thus it being just that much harder to forgive & forget. There is no formula to stop loving someone. If you're trying to stop loving someone, it won't work b/c if anything, the only reason you're trying so hard is because you DO still love them (even though you wish you didn't). If anything, it takes time, healing & most of the time a replacement (and sometimes finding someone better doesn't even work).

Awareness of why the relationship ended & believing that it wasn't meant to be PLUS, not fighting that same fact is normally when it becomes easy to look up one day & realize that you are no longer in love with that person. Because Libras put so much of themselves into their relationships, they will always have some degree of love for their ex's even if the relationship ended horribly. Usually with Libras, they have to find someone better & let a lot of time laspe before they can actually say (AND MEAN) that they are no longer in love or love that person. But the whole stopping loving someone overnight? Not even realistic

Yes agreed with K, impossible to just stop loving someone. You have to go through the motions of letting that relationship go which is best if they are no longer around you. Geez unfortunetly it can take an awful long time but the thoughts do start diminishing from 3 months onwards.

Why do you want to stop loving being in love, it's one of the most wonderful feelings in the world! Ok so it hasn't worked with one person but you know if you fall off the horse aren't you going to get back on?? Don't give up...the pain will ease in time🙂 6 months for me...

Exactly. There is no set time or standard for when it's normal to get over someone. Everyone is different. And everyone's relationship is different. Normally when someone is desperate to get over someone when the relationship ended very badly or when one partner deeply betrayed the other; thus the other person just wishing the whole relationship never happend. And b/c this is usually the case, I think the BEST answer & option for you would be to think about healing, forgiving and finding someone better, instead of being unrealistic and trying to undo something that happened & that had such a big effect on you.

Exactly. If you try too hard to get over someone, you're just subconsciously pushing that person even further into your heart. And even though you may be successful at suppressing & avoiding those feelings for that person, doesn't mean that they aren't still there. And if your goal is to make sure that that person has NO place in your heart at all, then trying to force them out of your heart won't work & if anything will only further make it harder.

It's like when people die. Just b/c they die & b/c you'll never see them again or have any more experiences with them doesn't mean that you stop loving them. Just like you never really get over the death of a loved one (you just learn how to deal with it, versus forget it), it's the same for a Libra who's trying to let go of the past.

Letting go of the past means healing, acknowledgement of what YOU did wrong just as much as what he did to hurt you & so much more. Until you go through those basic steps, this guy will be etched even further in your heart, making it that much harder to get him out once you finally do find someone else.

Star not so easy when your heart is involved and the mind will take over to remember things which is harder to control than you think, but time heals all wounds.

Strength and power is great when you're young and striving to find your way in life but watch it doesn't lead you to a lonely existance...

Posted by spica
if it is possible to stop loving someone you loved before in the first place(?)

Libra stands for love, so how do you stop loving Love?
If anyone figures this out please post something.

Libra stands for paltitudes of 'balance' but also for 'love'?? hmm ok, I would get on the phone and try to yell and pick up an arguement. And I woudl take my shirt in her presence or something lol

Posted by starsapphire91
easy. cut the person off completely. don't talk about them, or think about them. it's all about mental and emotional control. people that say you can't just stop loving or feeling for someone can't control their emotions. supress if you need to, in my experience the more you supress, the more you stop caring. learn to control your emotions, and then you can turn then on and off when you please. if a person screwed me over, or cheated on me if i were in a relationship, then naturally i would stop loving them. i'm not a relatioship-oriented person, so maybe i'm not the best person to ask, i would rather go it alone anyway. love doesn't really interest me... strength and power does!

I would be interested in relationship orientation but not so much in 'love' > there will be components of this but not the entirety. Its not a matter of "stop loving" cos even if the person isn't around in your life you still have your imaginations and some of them are pleasant or nice others are bitter so bitter sweet possibly. I've been rejected twice or 3thrice by Libras even without any relationship but I constantly develop eiter sentiments of bitterness and otherwise loviness but almost always long for some intimate mutuality which has seemed to be impossible > my condition feels exacerbated possibly due to the close Libra Gemini trine.

First off, you need to work out if you ever really loved the person. Sometimes it's just lust or an unhealthy obsession. Did you fall for the smile and the charm that made you weak at the knees? If so, then it's not love.

Love is mutual, not one sided. Love is when you'd do anything for them and the would do anything for you. It's when you know that you're going to spend the rest of your life with that person and grow old with them, not because you want to, but because you both want to.