couldbe to simply leave them alone,or does hurting them make it easier for them to stay away?
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Nov 11, 2012Comments: 1 · Posts: 1534 · Topics: 3
If a libra really cares about you, they will be hurt if u walk away and try to hold on to you
But if they don't, they can move on real quick
oh ok, so maybe he will be back... but iv recently gotten engaged, i hope that doesn't effect our friendship or how he feels about me :/
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Nov 11, 2012Comments: 1 · Posts: 1534 · Topics: 3
As long as your happy
Screw everybody else
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Mar 24, 2006Comments: 163 · Posts: 6615 · Topics: 326
Not necessarily, when someone leaves me alone, I will mirror their approach, no matter how I am feeling.
So really depends if the Libra wants you. If they don't, nothing will get them back.
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Mar 24, 2006Comments: 163 · Posts: 6615 · Topics: 326
And if you are now engaged...why would you want the Libra back. Think you might be rebounding and being unfair to the person you are engaged to!
Your choice is right ! Follow your marriage plan further and forget about Libra ! Brave girl !
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Feb 26, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 8735 · Topics: 522
Well there's a difference b/w wanting someone back with the purpose of rekindling things VS. wanting to give them closure so as to make sure there is no bad blood/grudges b/w you two
The title of your post is "How to get a Libra back," which is confusing b/c in the same paragraph you talk about being engaged to another man. I can understand not wanting old flings to hate you or feel negative about you even if you're with someone new, but what I'm not comprehending is why you're so concerned with getting him back if you've already moved on?
If you meant that you want to know how to get good closure with your ex, then I'd suggest apologizing for whatever role you played in the breakup, explain to him that you want no hard feelings b/w you two & be honest with him about the fact that you moved on so that he won't mistakenly take you giving him closure to mean that you're trying to win him back or wheel him back in.
Not everybody wants to be friends with someone they can no longer have. Not everybody wants to remain friends with someone who hurt them or who has moved on quickly or at all to someone else. Not everybody wants to sit back & watch you go be happy with someone else. You have to respect that, especially if they still have feelings for you. It's never fun to sit & watch the person you like/love go love someone else
So I agree that Libras will mirror whatever you are giving them. If he's not coming back, it's either b/c he doesn't want you back (for whatever reason) OR b/c he doesn't think that remaining friends is something that you'd want.
One thing is for sure...You have no business even psychologically wondering how to get a man back if you're already in another relationship, let alone an engagement!
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Feb 26, 2008Comments: 0 · Posts: 8735 · Topics: 522
Only a fool reads all of what he doesn't want to read
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Mar 30, 2012Comments: 1243 · Posts: 16617 · Topics: 170
You should have seen the string of bullshit she had in her other thread. Makes this one even more of a moot point, tbh.
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Aug 22, 2013Comments: 2 · Posts: 2497 · Topics: 2
ambitioussag21,
who initiated the break up? you or him?
just curious about your question HOW TO GET A LIBRA MAN BACK?
If it was him. Then leave him alone.
If it was you then do something....
If I were you... I prefer to leave him alone.
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...the hell is wrong with the quoting feature?? :/