How to attract a Libra guy ? Please help !?
This topic was created in the Libra forum by radar10 on Wednesday, August 4, 2010 and has 22 replies.
I 21 years old, cancer female and I just recently started talking to this Libra guy who is also 21. I seen him around at parties and social gatherings I've had with friends before and we have talked here and there, I always thought he was cute and a couple of times of us talking at parties he said I was cute as well and called me sexy. He gave me his number about a week ago at this party and we been texting ever since. He is soo cute and for some reason I just can't stop thinking about him. I just have this gut feeling like he would be the perfect guy that I would love to date. Its odd for me because I typically never like guys this much. I guess you can say I've had a crush on him for awhile seeing him out and now that I got his number it makes me even more happy that were talking. Thing is he seems kinda shy, shes kinda nerdy looking, but in a cute way, and when hes out at parties I never really see him talking to many girls, just chilling with his friends. Im wondering how Libra men act, what attracts them to a woman, what do they like in a woman ? I really want to go about this in a smooth way without coming on too strong. I dont want to tell him I like him just yet untill I know he for sure feels the same way about me. He said I was pretty n stuff but just cause he said that doesnt mean he likes me like that ya know ? How should I go about this whole thing ? What are these Libra guys like ? The do's and dont's with them ? Please help !
Be clever and learn how to spar with wit. I think most men long for a woman with a dangerous mind. 
Posted by radar10
...He gave me his number about a week ago at this party and we been texting ever since.
I think you have ATTRACTED him already! All you need to do is BE YOURSELF, and the rest will follow.
Im wondering how Libra men act, what attracts them to a woman, what do they like in a woman ? I really want to go about this in a smooth way without coming on too strong. I dont want to tell him I like him just yet untill I know he for sure feels the same way about me.
Why not speak to your unique Libra and ask him the above q's (in a round about way) This will build up your friendship with him and give you the answers you seek and more....
How should I go about this whole thing ? Be friends, and try to chill!!!
What are these Libra guys like ? Read some of the entries in the Libra forum and see the pattern that forms with these guys, indecisive, loving, social....
The do's and dont's with them ? Be yourself, he will like the real you than a pretender!
Please help !
Give him a cookie lol jk , libra's love attention give him that.
My ex-girlfriend's a Cancer & we still get along great, even after we've moved on after 5.5 years. LadyLibra12's spot-on w/ the Libra observations*, but there are other things I'd like to mention (could also reflect my Pisces moon though, but I'm pretty Libra w/ my Sun & Ascendant in Libra & being a Water Dog in Chinese astrology which is REALLY Libra):
-Don't ever make him the object of your fetish. It's pretty degrading when someone drools over you but won't remember the things that you've said....which leads to
-Try to remember his words. Even though he might give you a plethora of random information, try to remember what interests him. I've noticed w/ Cancers (one of my BFs, ex-GFs, & many other Cancer friends) is that they tend to not remember things unless it's told to them from someone charismatic, who they deem as "cool", or someone they deem as more intelligent than you. He's really going to be annoyed when he tells you something you may find trivial, & then you mention it back to him when someone else tells you about it as if it's something new.
-Please try not to be irrational. If there's anything about Libras, it's that we like logic. He's not going to take you seriously if what you do, how you feel, & what you say has no real reason behind it.
-What is really going to conflict is Libra's "There's a problem? Let's analyze it, find out if it affects the least amount of people, & try different solutions, temporary alleviation, or neutralize it on a common ground" damage control mentality vs Cancer's "There's a problem? That's how it is & will always be and there's no point in trying to mend what can't be fixed." self-defeating mentality.
* - I don't mind swearing so much in like music or movies since it is a raw expression of pure emotion at times, but as long as it's not in public. I might sound like a snob right now but it is really uncouth to be swearing on a regular basis. I guess we are rather conservative in practice (I don't like swearing or spitting in public, or smoking cigarettes in front of children), but not in thought (we are kind of socialistic w/ our "everyperson" mentality).
-Don't ever make him the object of your fetish. It's pretty degrading when someone drools over you but won't remember the things that you've said....which leads to
-Try to remember his words. Even though he might give you a plethora of random information, try to remember what interests him. I've noticed w/ Cancers (one of my BFs, ex-GFs, & many other Cancer friends) is that they tend to not remember things unless it's told to them from someone charismatic, who they deem as "cool", or someone they deem as more intelligent than you. He's really going to be annoyed when he tells you something you may find trivial, & then you mention it back to him when someone else tells you about it as if it's something new.
-Please try not to be irrational. If there's anything about Libras, it's that we like logic. He's not going to take you seriously if what you do, how you feel, & what you say has no real reason behind it.
-What is really going to conflict is Libra's "There's a problem? Let's analyze it, find out if it affects the least amount of people, & try different solutions, temporary alleviation, or neutralize it on a common ground" damage control mentality vs Cancer's "There's a problem? That's how it is & will always be and there's no point in trying to mend what can't be fixed." self-defeating mentality.
* - I don't mind swearing so much in like music or movies since it is a raw expression of pure emotion at times, but as long as it's not in public. I might sound like a snob right now but it is really uncouth to be swearing on a regular basis. I guess we are rather conservative in practice (I don't like swearing or spitting in public, or smoking cigarettes in front of children), but not in thought (we are kind of socialistic w/ our "everyperson" mentality).
Posted by TasteOfChaos
Yea... I fucken swear all the time... fuck it
I also agree with "try to remember his words" I LOVE IT when people really KNOW me... its so flattering to know that someone has taken the time to get to know my lil quirks and how I tick...
I like this, because I make an effort to get to know my friends lil quirls and how THEY tick and then I will work around those lil quirks because they are my friend and I like them...
Its really insulting to be friends with someone and then find out they didnt anything about you at all..
I must admit tho, I am a VERY confusing person... so when people do take the time to REALLY get to know me... its like WOW!! Its the best compliment EVER!
It really is. I think the reason why I never got over this one girl (GEMINI!) is because not only did she analyze the hell out of me, she said everything to me that I never knew anyone else ever noticed and in a sense, everything "I never knew that I've always wanted to hear"? And in pure Gemini fashion, she up & disappeared.
I'm like that as well. One of the things that really annoys me is having to reintroduce myself to someone...EVERY time I see them. It's like Homer Simpson to Mr. Burns.
Posted by TasteOfChaos
I dont have that issue... its usually me not remembering them... fuck thats embarrassing... I feel REALLY bad about it too... I just pretend I remember them and do the whole... "Oooooh yeah... right! Hi!"
:::crickets:::
I think people only remember me cuz Im the loud obnoxious drunk chick hahahaand I dont remember them cuz... well.. Im drunk
But yes! Thats probably the best advice to snare a Libra... Observation! Notice EVERYTHING about him! Watch what makes him laugh, angry, happy, sad... take notice of it all... and never do the things that upset him no matter how unreasonable and silly it may be to YOU... because he is doing the EXACT same thing with you
LOL, if I don't remember someone's name, I'll say something like "I know you from somewhere...." or "we've met before...." & then mention my name which almost automatically gets them to say their name. Works every time....just like the "I'll bet you $ 20 you're gonna turn me down" question
.I want to hang out with him but I don't want to be the one making all the first moves. He doesn't have a phone right now , he's getting one soon but in the meantime I can only get in contact with him on facebook. I told him my friend was having a get together this Friday. He said 'okay that probly sounds good": he didn't really give me a yes or no answer. So idk if should take that n wait n see or if I should try to continue messaging him to be sure he's coming out... ?
Why would you want to attract a libra???
That should be the question.
Look if your goodlooking,with a great body and smile they will approach and persue you.
However it wont take long before the balance shift and you are hooked and he his distant.
Do you seriously want to go down that route.
Go find youself a nice pisces,cancer,scorpio or aries guy.
That should be the question.
Look if your goodlooking,with a great body and smile they will approach and persue you.
However it wont take long before the balance shift and you are hooked and he his distant.
Do you seriously want to go down that route.
Go find youself a nice pisces,cancer,scorpio or aries guy.
Posted by TasteOfChaos
^^^ don't listen to her... She is a crazy obsessed Libra stalker....
You don't wanna become ^^THAT^^
She lost her Libra and now just can't seem to let it go...
Have you seen how many threads she posts about Libras?
CRAZY TOWN!!
Fuck off you smelly tramp. I told you am not interested. Why do you keep stalking me!!
I dont like ugly smelly people.
I gave her advice but you want to start beef...go fuck youself
Thats another thing with libras if you diss them they want to hold a grudge.
you fucking CHAV!!
LOOK bitch,the libra persued me!! As i said they go after you and then when you start liking them they go funny.
I swear to god you dont fucking know me or my situation,so you better shut the fuck up!!
I swear to god you dont fucking know me or my situation,so you better shut the fuck up!!
What i meant by go funny-going cold/distance etc etc
Look have put the libra behind me 90% ,so i dont want to be digging up old memoirs because 10% of me still likes him and think he is a top guy.
However there is a pattern with libra men. I cant give advice on how to attract them?,because i never had to-libra men persue me!! Guess its the scorpio magnetism.
However if you check,all the thread i post on,i always say they will go after you,afterall most are very charming.
But the balance will always shift,they like,they persue,you like,they like,you like more,they get distant.
Some female knows how to deal with it and give them their space,however water signs tend to cling more.
Thats when the problem starts. Water signs are prone to use emotional blackmail,libra will first fall for it but then they wise up.
It becomes a ferris wheel ride and something will have to give. In my situation have decided to bow out-yes i did play him back but now it all seem childish.
Life is for living,if it makes you unhappy set it free!!
Look have put the libra behind me 90% ,so i dont want to be digging up old memoirs because 10% of me still likes him and think he is a top guy.
However there is a pattern with libra men. I cant give advice on how to attract them?,because i never had to-libra men persue me!! Guess its the scorpio magnetism.
However if you check,all the thread i post on,i always say they will go after you,afterall most are very charming.
But the balance will always shift,they like,they persue,you like,they like,you like more,they get distant.
Some female knows how to deal with it and give them their space,however water signs tend to cling more.
Thats when the problem starts. Water signs are prone to use emotional blackmail,libra will first fall for it but then they wise up.
It becomes a ferris wheel ride and something will have to give. In my situation have decided to bow out-yes i did play him back but now it all seem childish.
Life is for living,if it makes you unhappy set it free!!
Yeah I guess, he just seems like the type to not really speak up, idk wat to do cause I do like him, hes jusy so hard to read....
She loves me yeah yeah yeah!!
Sorry to rain on ur parade but an not interested in you.
Go find youself a better job,then maybe your life will be a todd more fulfilling!! Clown
Sorry to rain on ur parade but an not interested in you.
Go find youself a better job,then maybe your life will be a todd more fulfilling!! Clown
Mmmmm you really dont know scorpio women...."shag" a lot have tried but only few have succeed. Hence why i had the final fall out with the libra. He wanted it,i knew he did but i wouldnt give him!!
He once said i kept dangling a carrot infront of him and when he reaches for it. I pull away.
He once said i kept dangling a carrot infront of him and when he reaches for it. I pull away.
Sorps are good @ secercy,so if she left the condoms in her hand bag...she wanted them to be found.
That scorp was over the relationship-trust me!!
That scorp was over the relationship-trust me!!
I was able to snatch my libra by ignoring him.
Posted by capris
I was able to snatch my libra by ignoring him.
That'll work, especially if he felt there was unfinished business.
Posted by PandorasBox
Man, emotional blackmails been a hot topic lately...
Well..
How to get one: Look good.
How to lose one: Be realistic.
Negative
Posted by FemmeScorpion
What i meant by go funny-going cold/distance etc etc
Look have put the libra behind me 90% ,so i dont want to be digging up old memoirs because 10% of me still likes him and think he is a top guy.
However there is a pattern with libra men. I cant give advice on how to attract them?,because i never had to-libra men persue me!! Guess its the scorpio magnetism.
However if you check,all the thread i post on,i always say they will go after you,afterall most are very charming.
But the balance will always shift,they like,they persue,you like,they like,you like more,they get distant.
Some female knows how to deal with it and give them their space,however water signs tend to cling more.
Thats when the problem starts. Water signs are prone to use emotional blackmail,libra will first fall for it but then they wise up.
It becomes a ferris wheel ride and something will have to give. In my situation have decided to bow out-yes i did play him back but now it all seem childish.
Life is for living,if it makes you unhappy set it free!!
Perhaps both consciously and unconsciously you pursue Libran men as well.
Posted by little_sparrow
Be clever and learn how to spar with wit. I think most men long for a woman with a dangerous mind.
This is my personal weakness. I can't stand a girl with no brains. I'd sooner hang out with an "unattractive" woman with brains than a hot ditzy mess. All of the other stuff that gets thrown around about Libras...meh. Keep my mind churning. Keep me thinking about what I'm going to say the next time I see you...and well, I am thinking about you when you're not around.
But also, give it a break every now and then and take your panties off. Juss sayin
radar10, I saw your pics, you got him . My ex-girl for 5.5 years is a Cancer, she persistently chased me for 3 months straight (I like to play hard to get) until she finally asked me out. She pretty much rushed me into a decision since I told her I'll let her know in a week. I have no regrets though, as we are still friends to this day & actually better now than we were before.
. My ex-girl for 5.5 years is a Cancer, she persistently chased me for 3 months straight (I like to play hard to get) until she finally asked me out. She pretty much rushed me into a decision since I told her I'll let her know in a week. I have no regrets though, as we are still friends to this day & actually better now than we were before.Leave Your Feedback
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