how to get over not a crush but a soul mate?
This topic was created in the Libra forum by helpmepls on Wednesday, May 18, 2016 and has 7 replies.
so ive been into this aqua guy for just over a year and a half but he was always travelling so it was mainly online but i fell for him hard because we just had so much in common and understood each other on a very very deep level and ive never met anyone like him, however usually with guys i get bored within 2 weeks and i get over them really easily cuz i can let go, but he does his typical aqua disappearing act for days/weeks/months but nows the longest time hes done it (5 months) and the last conversation he had he told me he loved me but hes done that before so i dont understand, ive come to my senses and obviously he doesnt feel the same if hes gone that long aka i also need to move on but ive never been this confused and hurt by a guy? i dont know how to move on or let go and its freaking me out, im just mad because i know ill never be as spiritually connected to someone like i am to him and ive met guys and stuff but its not the same and i dont know what to do
I went through this recently. Currently I'm using my time to look for a new job and to work out excessively. I was wondering if someone is a soulmate then that person should know as well. If they're not feeling the sane connection as you are then they're probably not your soulmate. I went through the same thing. I finally get a guy I'm head over heels over and he's not treating me how I want to be treated.
Anyway I digress. Try focusing on other things in your life and take solace in the fact that you are able to feel that type of connection and you may feel it with someone else in the future.
Anyway I digress. Try focusing on other things in your life and take solace in the fact that you are able to feel that type of connection and you may feel it with someone else in the future.
Posted by narayana
I started believing this soulmate stuff when I discovered that I have a NN/Asc aspect with a Virgo guy I've known from HS. When I saw him for the 1st time (in 2011), I was immediately hooked. I liked everything about him, at least the way he appeared to be. Yada yada. I'm still unsure how he feels about me. The only thing I know is when I see him, everything feels so weird, like if we were in another dimension and I know it sounds crazy but that's how it is. And I have a feeling that he'll be on my mind for a long time. I just can't do a thing about it. And a weird fact is that I don't even want to. So I don't really mind that. Idk what to tell you really, just appreciate that you have a connection like this even if it won't work out, it's still magical ... ?
wow i feel the same way! like i have this feeling where i know its gonna be on my mind for a long time and a part of me feels like it isnt over that theres something else later on in the future but it still just confuses me, you're very pretty by the way!
A soulmate doesn't always have to be romantic btw but if things aren't the way you want it to be, then things weren't meant to be and they're not your soulmate. Everything happens for a reason. As I love to say, if they're not a blessin', they're a lesson.
If he is your soulmate, then he is a runner. A runner is a twin flame that runs away, because they are not ready to see the ugly parts of themselves that need fixing. Your job is to concentrate on yourself. Don't push, it is not the right time. Best thing is to let him live and learn the lessons he needs to learn before he can be ready for you.
Posted by blacklagoon
If he is your soulmate, then he is a runner. A runner is a twin flame that runs away, because they are not ready to see the ugly parts of themselves that need fixing. Your job is to concentrate on yourself. Don't push, it is not the right time. Best thing is to let him live and learn the lessons he needs to learn before he can be ready for you.
wow thanks i just googled that and it makes sense and seems like him, hopefully im not overthinking or crazy about this whole situation
Posted by brandyp
Aquas are dreamy, so I can understand why you fell in love. They are also the most likely sign to be able to live apart from their lovers. Just because its been a while doesn't mean its over. Are you guys still in contact with each other while hes away. Call, text, facetime??
we were but we would text and stuff then he would ditch from anywhere from a couple days to months, now its been 6 months and the last time we talked it was his birthday and i said happy bday and he said he loved me and i replied then we asked how each other were and he opened my message and never replied
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