How to get this libra guy back??

So to cut short,Ron and I were really attracted to each other for more than 7 months.We were pretty great friends and we really liked each other.People on campus felt that he liked me more than a friend and I felt the same.So he suddenly started avoiding me and I feel that's because he kinda felt as if I was about to confess my feelings and demand an official relationship.He got all distant and 2 weeks later he told me that he needed space and wanted to make more friends and wanted to focus only on academics etc.He still wanted to spend time with me but I ignored him even more so he left feeling humiliated.Then we met few days later and wished a happy summer and left.

Current happening:- Our college reopened a week ago and we share just one common class which is math.
He looked happy and nervous on seeing me the 1st day after summer.He sat with me and told me he'd call me if he came to my dorm cafe someday.So he sat with me for the first two days but he sat somewhere else the third time. I was returning back to my dorm previous weekend evening with two of my best friends and he knew that they tease me with him.He was standing outside his dorm and he saw me coming and I feel that he saw my friends teasing me with him.My friends left and he said hi,whatsup and I told him about my weekend and asked him about his and I left.The next day I came to know that he changed his math class.I was extremely surprised as to why did he do that. I am afraid if he's doing this to run away from me.Earlier he used to try his best to be in my class but now,even though we somehow got at least one same lecture,he changed it.

Then today my friend and I were waiting for the bus outside his class.He was there with a bunch of guys(one of them is my bestie).We got on the bus and he was facing the other side as if he doesn't want to see me.We didn't speak or say a hey at all.Then my friends got down and I was alone.He still didn't look at me or maybe he did but I don't know because I didn't see him much either.Then his stop came and he stood to get down.He then waved and told me bye.I just smiled and said bye and he got down.We both would always get down together and then he would walk with me till the end.However,today I purposely stayed on the bus and he got down and he turned back and then looked at the bus and then left. That was it.
I want what we used to have.That closeness,attraction and that relation which was slowly progressing.Any help here?Thanks

Damn! All libra guys are same. I cant believe everyone has same problem with libra guys. Why the hell they are so undecisive? Dude.. Just be strong.

I hate people saying we are undecisive ! its not true !

we make the best choices 🙂 we think about all the points of view , angle , all the ways posible and than we are good ! give us our time ! 😄 lol

I feel like '' normal '' people don't really make a decision , they just pick one of the choices like it was a game ! lol

I know where is the indecisive talk coming from and this guy is no different.However, his case is a bit different.He has never been in a relationship before.Also,we both are highly academically competitive but he's a bigger 'perfect gpa' nerd than me. He feels that I distract his focus.Plus,recently we guys had a physics advanced placement exam.He didn't pass but I did.So this has pricked him even harder.
Nevertheless,I just want us to get back to how we used to be.I don't know if I should just behave the same way he's been behaving with me or should I just walk up to him and tell him that what's been happening is weird and I want things to go back to normal!?!?!?

Posted by muwik
I hate people saying we are undecisive ! its not true !

we make the best choices 🙂 we think about all the points of view , angle , all the ways posible and than we are good ! give us our time ! 😄 lol

I feel like '' normal '' people don't really make a decision , they just pick one of the choices like it was a game ! lol

I reluctantly agree with that

Posted by muwik
I hate people saying we are undecisive ! its not true !

we make the best choices 🙂 we think about all the points of view , angle , all the ways posible and than we are good ! give us our time ! 😄 lol

I feel like '' normal '' people don't really make a decision , they just pick one of the choices like it was a game ! lol

Shut up ! You are all the same and make someone feel crazy ! because of your bad actions !

To give you your time —? 1 year and then you back to us —? Oh, come on... for God ! You think this is a normal good way for you —? As you see gia, here all stories with Libras are heartbroken ! They rally acting so bad and without any conscience ... They disappear, appear when they want, ignore and so on !.... They don't care how they make a person to feel ! They think they are right ! and even they are wrong, they are always the victime !

Gia, if you tell him what he done is weird, or what is happening is weird, this is already a negative way for him ! Libras no like to hear they are doing something weird .. If you go to him and try to get him back, this has 2 ways : 1 . he may likes that and feel better yyou done that first or 2. he will accept your purpose , but be readyy for what will be ! he will do more bad further because he already knows that you can forgive everything to him and he get freedoon to play his game further ! And in one day, he may tell you : it was you, not me ! It means " you was the one who wanted me back , now you can suffer" , the meaning is like this. So they don't care if you suffering later or not, it was you who wanted this, who wanted him, right ? ..... this is Libra thinking .. So take care or better find a guy who will not ignore you, who will like you have things together and let the Libra to get down from the bus at his stop..... 🙂 Later he will regret .

Posted by Alisiyaabcd
they are always the victime !

that's funny, because you seem to be painting yourself just the same way 🙂

If you have to figure out how to get him back, then he really wasn't with you/yours to begin with.

I've never understood why women fret about this whole "OMG HOW DO I GET HIM BACK" bullshit. If he was so easily lost, then he's not worth trying to get back.

If you have to fight this hard to get someone to stay attracted to you or stay with you, then it's not meant to be, sorry.

Actually more than getting him back mania,it's more about how should I behave with him ??
For now,we are just trying to be cordial. However,it appears to be kind of fake.Sheer pretense.
For eg.I was eating alone in the dining court today but I was talking to a friend on the phone.Ron came and he saw me.I was sitting right in front of the pizza counter and he wanted to get a pizza so he had to pass by me.He saw me and said hi and I did the same while talking to my friend over the phone.
He sat with a group of 8 guys in a way where we could see each other and I tried my best to not look at him. Then he came to get his pizza and he left trying his best to not see me once again.Then I finished my meal and I had to pass by him so I walked in a way that I saw everywhere except where he was sitting.
I don't know but I kinda feel it's silly. Earlier we wouldn't mind seeing each other when we passed by but now it's as if there is this moto of "I'm gonna appear like I'm not interested in you." lying in between. How would things work if it's going to stay this way?

It doesn't matter. My response still applies and stays the same.

hmm..I guess I know why you'd say that and I reluctantly agree.
I just realized yesterday that one of the main reasons why he's been this way is because his guy friends have teased the two of us together a lot. Earlier he wouldn't mind when few people would.Infact I even asked him if he was ok holding my hand regardless of any friends seeing us and he said "I don't care and I don't mind." But I guess he lied to himself when he said that. His friends saw us together most of the time and they started teasing him too much. One day my best guy friend was randomly speaking to one of Ron's guy friends. Ron's topic randomly came up and Ron's guy friend said,"Are you talking about Ron? Ohh yeah..Gia is his very special friend." My bestie just asked him "Hey how's Ron doing?" and this was the response.I don't even to that guy much and he has not even seen us together yet he said that. Which means all his friends teased him too much.Hence,right now,he's basically just trying to prove everyone that he has other friends and there's nothing between us.

The entire thing sounds immature from all parties.

If a guy is into you, he doesn't care wtf his friends think.

which was the case until it got too extreme with the teasing.I mean,if it gets too much then even I kinda get annoyed too.So I know where he's coming from.Plus,it's never happened with him before.
I'm no way taking his side.I'm just trying to see things from both sides.

Posted by muwik
I hate people saying we are undecisive ! its not true !

we make the best choices 🙂 we think about all the points of view , angle , all the ways posible and than we are good ! give us our time ! 😄 lol

I feel like '' normal '' people don't really make a decision , they just pick one of the choices like it was a game ! lol

IT's like the cutest thing ever watching a Libra guy deciding what to do!
And then they look at you like..."please... tell me what to do.... let it be the best decision ever"
And I'M like HONEY EVERYTHINGS GONNA BE ALRIGHT :-)

Coming from a female libra, this sounds like a situation I've been through many, many times. He probably thought of you as a good friend who he really enjoying spending time with and he may have even liked you a tiny bit. But, he soon realized that we didn't really, really like you and sensed that you had feelings for him. Us libras find this really awkward, not in a bad way, just we don't really know how to handle it. So if I were you, stop liking him. Don't pay any attention to him and maybe in a few months if he does like you in anyway he will try to re establish contact because we always to that.

Posted by michelletheninja
Coming from a female libra, this sounds like a situation I've been through many, many times. He probably thought of you as a good friend who he really enjoying spending time with and he may have even liked you a tiny bit. But, he soon realized that we didn't really, really like you and sensed that you had feelings for him. Us libras find this really awkward, not in a bad way, just we don't really know how to handle it. So if I were you, stop liking him. Don't pay any attention to him and maybe in a few months if he does like you in anyway he will try to re establish contact because we always to that.

Makes a lot of sense.This was helpful.Thank you. Yeah,currently I'm just trying my best to keep him off my mind. And I have been either just saying "hey/Hi" whenever I bump into him or I just plain ignore him and walk off like he doesn't exist when he's around his guy friends.If he's pissed because his friends tease us too much then fine,I would behave like I don't know him anymore.It's really tough and hurtful but I wouldn't bend down much to someone with such behavior.Including summer,it's been around 5 months since we've been this way. Isn't 5 months too long of a period to make someone get back to his senses if he wanted a friendly reconciliation? Or is more space required?