How To Seduce A Libra
This topic was created in the Libra forum by CancerianGoddess on Thursday, January 28, 2010 and has 8 replies.
Seducing Libra can take a lot more work than most of the other zodiac signs. Whether you find the required style enjoyable or not will probably be the biggest factor in your success.
Libra appreciates the classy look, so make an extra effort to look nice for them. If they aren??t impressed with your appearance it will be much harder to get their attention. If you're picking a location for a date, choose a nice restaurant, and not a bar, movie, sports event etc.
Similarly, social graces and etiquette are more important here than with almost any other sign. Start off formal and polite, and don??t say anything offensive or confrontational early on in the conversation even if you're joking (yes, Aries, Leo, Sagittarius ??? I??m looking at you guys!). You may well have the charisma to pull it off normally, but your Libra still wont think it's cool.
Flirting
Talk about something light and friendly initially. Libra loves a good debate, so find a subject they want to express their opinion on, and listen to it. Ideally you want to disagree with them, but in a very non-confrontational and pleasant manner. Make it clear you consider their side, and value the points they made. Most of all, remember the goal here is to start a debate, and not a fist fight! Be as eloquent and politically correct as possible. Obviously avoid any subjects which you know you'll get worked up about.
While seducing Libra keep in mind they're typically very intelectual and analytical, so be wary of picking a subject which is too complex, unless you know a lot about it. This is a refined and classy sign, so sexual innuendo, rude jokes and vulgarity will turn them off, especially if they don??t know you very well, and even then those are best avoided.
Getting them into bed
First off, it's worth noting that Libra??s really do appreciate a bed. Cars, stairwells, walls, public parks etc are a bad choice here. They also appreciate a slow and refined overall approach. Candles, music, good food or conversation ??? you??ll need to set the mood. Yup, sad to say, a 6-pack and a movie probably isn??t going to cut it here. Ditto, talking dirty or flashing too much skin will be a turn off. Refined, sophisticated and classy is your ticket.
Libra appreciates the classy look, so make an extra effort to look nice for them. If they aren??t impressed with your appearance it will be much harder to get their attention. If you're picking a location for a date, choose a nice restaurant, and not a bar, movie, sports event etc.
Similarly, social graces and etiquette are more important here than with almost any other sign. Start off formal and polite, and don??t say anything offensive or confrontational early on in the conversation even if you're joking (yes, Aries, Leo, Sagittarius ??? I??m looking at you guys!). You may well have the charisma to pull it off normally, but your Libra still wont think it's cool.
Flirting
Talk about something light and friendly initially. Libra loves a good debate, so find a subject they want to express their opinion on, and listen to it. Ideally you want to disagree with them, but in a very non-confrontational and pleasant manner. Make it clear you consider their side, and value the points they made. Most of all, remember the goal here is to start a debate, and not a fist fight! Be as eloquent and politically correct as possible. Obviously avoid any subjects which you know you'll get worked up about.
While seducing Libra keep in mind they're typically very intelectual and analytical, so be wary of picking a subject which is too complex, unless you know a lot about it. This is a refined and classy sign, so sexual innuendo, rude jokes and vulgarity will turn them off, especially if they don??t know you very well, and even then those are best avoided.
Getting them into bed
First off, it's worth noting that Libra??s really do appreciate a bed. Cars, stairwells, walls, public parks etc are a bad choice here. They also appreciate a slow and refined overall approach. Candles, music, good food or conversation ??? you??ll need to set the mood. Yup, sad to say, a 6-pack and a movie probably isn??t going to cut it here. Ditto, talking dirty or flashing too much skin will be a turn off. Refined, sophisticated and classy is your ticket.
Yeah I am going to have to disagree with most of that.
The only parts I agree with are looking NICE, not sloppy or unkempt (but classy and sophisticated is not a requirement) and having good manners, not being offensive or vulgar or obnoxious (esp when getting to know each other), and the playful debate part is good (at least until somebody gets worked up!) The rest? Not in MY realm of Libra experiences.
Maybe this should go by people with a Libra Venus (love and relationships) or maybe Libra Moon (emotions)? *ponder*
Maybe this should go by people with a Libra Venus (love and relationships) or maybe Libra Moon (emotions)? *ponder*
be beautiful ( style doesn't matter. i'm talking actual looks) and pretend that you think i'm the best thing ever. or mean it. but you don't have to. just put on a good act. we're disgustingly easy. flattery will get you everywhere.
I disagree.. It's basically what it would be a libra minus the FUN! lol
First off, it's worth noting that Libra??s really do appreciate a bed. Cars, stairwells, walls, public parks etc are a bad choice here. They also appreciate a slow and refined overall approach. Candles, music, good food or conversation ??? you??ll need to set the mood. Yup, sad to say, a 6-pack and a movie probably isn??t going to cut it here. Ditto, talking dirty or flashing too much skin will be a turn off. Refined, sophisticated and classy is your ticket.
I like it all.. Especially public... Maybe I'm just a show off.. lol...
I like it all.. Especially public... Maybe I'm just a show off.. lol...
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First off, it's worth noting that Libra??s really do appreciate a bed. Cars, stairwells, walls, public parks etc are a bad choice here. They also appreciate a slow and refined overall approach. Candles, music, good food or conversation ??? you??ll need to set the mood. Yup, sad to say, a 6-pack and a movie probably isn??t going to cut it here. Ditto, talking dirty or flashing too much skin will be a turn off. Refined, sophisticated and classy is your ticket.
I like it all.. Especially public... Maybe I'm just a show off.. lol...
i like public too.
but i also am both clumsy and lazy, so i'm pretty into sex in a bed. but a bed in a store showroom would be a happy medium.
You two aren't alone, my Libra Fiance and I would prefer to do it spontaneously wherever we are than in our own bed most of the time. This has included several different versions of "in public" and nature in general. The mental side of us isn't in the preparation like comfort and candles and all that....it is in the act itself.
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