I AM CRYING AND I AM VERY HURT... I HATE LIBRAS !

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Aylin33
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Some weeks ago I posted here I am happy.. Now I am very sad , crying since 5 hours and I need your support ... It is a pity that I didn't listen to my own instinct ( the 6th one) who told me "stop" before to come here (here=his city) to see him now.... Is before Easter ( Orthodox) and I was never so sad as now... I am trying to find flight ticket to go back to Beijing ( I am in China) and never to come again in his city ...
What if he is handsome , sweet looking, but his character is so bad ?... This will never change .... He hurted me so much, but I told him, he will regret in one day because he will lose a true love . I just lose someone who don't loves me, but he lose someone who loves him...
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Maybe I'm a typical heartless aqua, but where the hell is women's self-respect nowadays? If a dude plays with my head, irrespective of what I'm doing, I get a migraine. Migraines hurt like hell!! Therefore, I get rid of the source of my migraine instantaneously!! If anyone's libra male is being a douche, just get rid of him. No guy is worth your dignity and sanity. Sanity in this chick's case.

Each day you spend with a loser, you miss out on a winner 😉 Not to mention the number of brain cells you kill
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Posted by TaurusNikki
Dam shame I'm afraid

This whole dam time with "I'm so happy B.S. " and think she knew it all, now she's hurt, when the truth is she had no idea what she was doing



Right? I called that shit out in a few other threads because suddenly she thinks she's an expert after one make up situation with this guy. What's worse is that she gave her "advice" which broke all the rules when it came to women and self respect. "OH NO, YOU SHOULD CHASE AND FAWN AFTER THEM. BE SMOTHERING. IT WORKS!!"

Stfu you cocky dumb bitch. Gawd.

It sucks that she's hurting, but she brought it upon herself. I really don't pity her.

Posted by tiziani
It didn't have much to do with being clingy. She stated from her very first few threads that she wanted to manipulate the guy and basically not be herself.


That's a sure fire way to an accident with anybody. Not just a Libra. We've said many times: Be yourself.


Anyway, irregardless of post history I obviously don't want to see people hurt. Relationships can suck sometimes. Feel better Aylin.
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Psst. "Irregardless" isn't a word. :p
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Aylin33
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Thanks to the single person here who posted for support me ! For those who only know to judge or comment without any sense, I really wish you live my pain soon and more than my pain, then you will see how is it .
I am Leo, do not forget this, a Leo woman know always how to pass over a shit. He is just a shit now in my eyes, and he don;t deserve me at all . I am not sorry after him, I am not crying anymore and I have a new plan to move in a exotic and warm place soon , world is not finish at a guy. Not any woman will do for him what I did. Do not forget that I was forvived him so many times , he was a lier, I forgived him, I have him a new chance, he hurted me before too, I gave him again a new chance and you know why ? Yes, I love him, but even I love someone, I can leave him ! Now I did this already, I leaved him and let him to see what he lost. I supported him so so so much to recover from his pain from a past relationship , I supported him to recover his pain after his father disappeared ( nobody know where..) I supported him so much and did a lot of things for him. What woman in China will do this for him ? I tell you for sure, no one ! I am not Chinese, so I wanted show to him that western women are different and offer true love !
I don't know what you say about manipulated him. Manipulated with what ? Because I saw my love for him and did some things from love also and for him ? I think you confuse me . To manipulate someone it means to want something to obtain from him , but I wanted only offer to him happiness , not to obtain some things from him. I never forced him in anything, never make him feel he lose his freedoom also, because Libra like freedoom and I was the one who offered to him this because I think nothing is going on by force as other women do asking a man all the time where he isl what he do, etc,.
Anyway, I am strong, I am already in Beijing and I am ok. I will not contact him anymore. If he will contact me, I will not respond to him instantly. I will be "busy" too and I will not have much time for him too, but in the ssame time, I will not give up because I love him. I just want to show him he lose me acting like this.
I wish happiness to the good peoples here who support me ! For those who comment in a bad way, I ask you again, please read my previews posts where I also wrote for you all who post in a bad way !
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That's strange because that's what everybody has been saying all along, let a guy contact you 1st because you dont wanna come off as suffocating. But if you do the 'no contact' as a way of teaching him a lesson, bla bla bla it can only backfire..what if he doesnt call you ever again? You're the one who taught him this behavior by initiating all contact with him, so what will make him now to change such a comfortable setting? But again who knows, this might be the chance for him to show you how it should be done by letting a man lead these kind of things. They say men are from mars & mars is all about leading, chasing, etc..so let him be a man and enjoy the chase. Nobody says dont ever contact your man if you feel like it, but just make sure you give him enough room & dont bombard him with smses/calls when you feel him pulling back for air..dont be a nauseating nuisance. And do all that you said you'll do, but only because you're genuinely busy & not as means of punishment..thats just childish & might lead to disapointments on your part incase he no longer cares. Good luck, Aylin & I hope you learned something in this.
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@Aylin33

Are u out your rabbit azz mind, you smother the guy to death, u have no backbone and now ur mad cause the big bad libra got bored with u?

Let's be honest he wasn't your man at all, u thought he was just cause he gave u attention, I bet u let him get away with so much B.S. and all u did was shower the disrespect with hugs and kisses
Get real honey....and now that the libra caught on to your childish games now u think ur gonna get him back by trying to manipulate him, u are out of your league on this one if u think ur gonna get 1 up on him

Libras are very, and I mean very good at manipulation, does logic ring a bell....hellllloooooo....and u don't even grasp the skills to take him on, ur way of thinking is all screwed up, and how do u think u got that way, that libra f**** ur world up now ur in circles, dam he's good, all the signs he gave ur azz was there to go away, but ur silly azz still stayed around for a man that didn't claim u, trust that much, if a libra wants u, they are gonna move heaven and earth to get ya, and won't leave unless the exit plan is fool proof, and even that takes awhile, so ummm no, u were never in a relationship

That libra logically removed u from his circle, you were not urself, had no real convo to get the mind working, u became boring to him, you were not real about who u were, try'd to manipulate him, I'm telling u now, if he ever calls u, ur gonna be a booty call and nothing more, when he's bored he will call u, then leave, libras refuse and I mean refuse to waste their time on someone that doesn't balance them in a way they see fit
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This is what she posted in the other thread that he so called did to her...

"I understand you very well what you feel !.. I hate Libras in this moment and maybe for all my life from now on ! After I forgived to him a stupid thing he did before, after I wanted him be happy and saw my love to him, he knew from me that I will go to his city now. I planed something out, my plan was ok, I wanted in fact to come here for him, but I told him I come for a project. Maybe it was my mistake, it was not as a lie to him, but I did not wanted to appear as a stupid in front of him and telling him " oh, I come special for you", no, I will never do this and in special for a Libra who think he is genial in all.. arogant also.. Well, I am here now, crying and very unhappy.. Yesterday he come to see me at my hotel ( I will not describle here what happened because you know..) and what should I do ? to say " I don;t want make love with you " ? I cannot, as you well know, if love someone, you want him and miss him so much... So this was the mistake maybe I did, I should not make love with him and let him feel he lose me. This is the best way to make him wants you I think. But, yes, I am weak at this point because I am a stupid Leo .. who give everything in love , offer her sould and heart in a relationship and don;t expect much in exchange.. And after he got what he wanted probably, today he told me he is busy.. Nice.. I was doing so much for him and for what ? For who ?... He didn't buy me a bottle of water only !
He is very handsome and sweet ( this attracted me to him from start) but his character is so bad now I see.
Well, dear girl who posted this , I just tell you the same as I think for myself now, just move on. If you feel cannot live in the same place where met him, change the city /place for a while. I will change it forever, I already decided and I had this plan made before to come here for him, in case he would make me suffer again, I will apply plan B.
I wish you be strong and life life , life is so short.. For what we crying ? For what we lose time ? "


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OY! Truth— I can barely read your threads much less understand them. He is done, you MUST use emotional intelligence with a Libra or your toast. There is no rebounding from acting like a lunatic or wishing others to feel your pain. Karma does not forget and multiplies automatically when it comes ricocheting back your way. Please stop humiliating yourself, you are destroying your self esteem, the little you have, every time you attempt to make contact with this guy.

Put on your big girl panties and walk away like a real woman! Also, stop attacking people on this site and focus on treating others how you would like for them to treat you. DANG!