I have a Libra Problem...

I have a huggeee problem right now. Something that every libra has. I'm indecisive and I'm overthinking stuff(btw I am a libra). My parents and friends say that things that I think about (imo its not really think but "weigh my options") such as the future and little choices that I make that change my whole experience in life can put me in a different path, is pointless and a waste of time.

For some weird reason I started thinking about psychological stuff. Little details in life that make me who I am. I started to talk to my friends about how experiences affect life and if there are ways to choose the better path and just look at things. My parents say that I shouldn't spend my time too much thinking about this stuff and focus on what really matter to me right now which is "studying".

Here's an example of a "pointless" topic I would think about. Are crazy people really crazy?
If you look at that question with common sense you would just simply say yes because Crazy people ARE Crazy (afterall they are labeled crazy). I would totally agree on that and say it's one of those "no shit sherlock" type of q&a. But I've been thinking about these things in a complex way to find.. well you can say the "truth". Thomas Edison the man who invented the light bulb was viewed and labeled by the common people as "Crazy" when he had the idea of making a light bulb. After he created the light bulb, the common people don't view him as a crazy person but a genius. If somehow I said that I would make a device that would teleport someone, would I be crazy? I guess people would view me as a crazy person temporarly or permanently (if I don't succeed). Not that I'm thinking about making a teleport because in my opinion thats a bit to hard at this level as a human. I'm just trying to prove the point on if crazy people are actually crazy because when you view it in both "Shoes" you get two different results that are both right and someone like me for some weird effing reason can't decide on the right side.

Right now this is how I think about for everything. There's always gotta be the better side. I don't know if it's a problem or if i'm becoming "crazy" but I really want to either pursue this "craziness" or drop it because I'm actually afraid of going down this path lol..

The reason why I think this is becoming a problem is.. for some reason I'm getting to focused here. The simple way to stop is just to stop but apparently its too complex to stop. Oh yeah btw a used to be someone special of mine just ended a long 2 year relationship w/ me today. There was pain for like 30 seconds and I just didn't care today about it for some reason. I was to focused on this topic in my life so I don't really think i'm going through denial or it's a way of blocking out my depression because other times when I get out of a serious relationship I get depressed and all that jazz but atm I don't get a fuck because of this "indecisive problem"

Lets just say I don't feel normal right now thanks to my indecisiveness... Can anyone cure this?

Your heart was just shattered and you can't figure out why your mind won't let go of "pointless" things?
Your mind is distracting you, and doing a damn good job by the looks of it.
Congratulations, I think?
Most Libras that I know will crawl into a bottle for that sort of numbing relief, which probably isn't good.
When MY heart gets broken, there is NOTHING that can distract me from the incredible pain.
I cannot see, or even breathe, through the flames.
I have to feel every bit of it, every second, until the flames finally die down to mere agonizing torture so I can breathe again.
Until I can clutch the shattered pieces to my chest and look for someone with a glue gun!

Unless you completely stop functioning, this "overthinking" is not a problem.
Now, if you sit catatonic, stop bathing, dressing, eating...
THAT'S a problem.

I don't think it was the fact I became heart broken. I started feeling like this a few days before she left me. The reason why I don't feel good right now is the fact that I am not depressed about the fact that she left me. Isn't it normal for a human to feel bad if they just got out of a relationship? I think I'm too distracted to be depressed

C'mon, Libra... are you trying to sell me the line that a few DAYS before she left you, you had NO IDEA your relationship was falling apart, even if it was way deep down? None? Really? I'm not buying it, sweetheart.

Your mind was protecting and distracting you then, and is still doing a bang-up job of it. And it's not a BAD thing to not fully feel the heartbreak, you know. Even if it's not "normal" 🙂

LOL... No seriously I swear to you... Well long story short It fell apart sort of cause I decided to "ignore" her for the past week due to my lack of focus on her (not just her though)... I just told her I didn't care.. My fault on that part but atm I honestly don't give a flying fuck if she's still w/ me or not.. Crazy stuff is going through my head STILL....

Almost the same is by me too...
I think about the time, universe and live after death and so on 😄
And doing that I can feel that I am getting more and more inflexible to small things... even bigger things ;]
Today I had an exam; If I can't pass it I will lose 1 year o_0
before I worried a little but now... I am too calm...
There was an earthquake soon - didn't react at all 😄
its good and bad at the same time... yea + and - thing...


about the ex - I never forget girls I loved and I continue to respect some of them even now... never hate them
I just know that they deserve to be loved. But I don't suffer at the same time 😄 don't blame noone.
waiting for my awakening 🙂 (probably when I fall in love again🙂
wish you too

what u need is to meditate, get some fresh air and exercise, and eat well right now. this worked wonders for my libra ex when he got like that. we all need balance in our lives but libras seem to be especially affected. if even one little thing was out of whack my ex would become anxious and almost obsessive.

whenever i'm indecisive i think to myself, daym i need to stop this and make a choice anyway and i did.. sometime you jus have to do it for yourself and not thinking about how other will look at you afterward.

us libra we care about how other look at us too much, it a bad traits but i guess it can't be help.