I miss having a girlfriend

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Libra4rmTX on Thursday, February 24, 2022 and has 38 replies.
I put this here because......Im a mf libra lol Libra Rising, Sun, Mars and SN. Being single is fun. I met so many amazing women. Great personalities and everything. But Im starting to get to a point now where I want the same person. Not just dating and switching. Im honestly not into that. Wasnt what I thought it would be. However Im not desperate at all nor forcing anything. I just rather meet that one woman. Any libra feel like that after a while? Or am I just a simp ass man lol
Being human is not simp man
Wanting to really experience another person is not simping

Its normal especially for a Libra 😀
Posted by GammaArietis

I really don’t want to be judgmental and maybe it’s a joke, but the fact that you think having a woman in your life is simping tells me you might have some more inner work to do before you subject a woman to that.




You know what? Im not even gonna argue that because that was a str8 up fact. Feel like I went out like a sucker in my last one and still tryna come to terms with that. So thats a great point. Even tho its been almost 4 years(got a child together tho)
Posted by DMV

Wanting to really experience another person is not simping


Real! Guess I still got issues to work on
Posted by Truemara

Being human is not simp man
Real talk! Still accepting that
Posted by MyStarsShine

Its normal especially for a Libra 😀


Well This the one time I fit the astrology stereotype lol
Posted by Libra4rmTX
Posted by MyStarsShine

Its normal especially for a Libra 😀


Well This the one time I fit the astrology stereotype lol
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I get ya. Women gonna judge cause they don't think like us. At least you're honest about it
Posted by Bumboklaat

I get ya. Women gonna judge cause they don't think like us. At least you're honest about it
Well I wont be that dark about it lol I would just love to only be with one woman tho
Posted by 2Moon
Posted by GammaArietis

I really don’t want to be judgmental and maybe it’s a joke, but the fact that you think having a woman in your life is simping tells me you might have some more inner work to do before you subject a woman to that.


This tbh.
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Im working on it!
But on the bright side you don't have to share your fries.
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Sounds like another 2moon. I don’t share your sentiment. I prefer being single, but I will say that talking about it isn’t going to make your desire for a relationship come to fruition. Might want to get off dxpnet, it’s filled with women you should avoid dating.
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Posted by Libra4rmTX

I put this here because......Im a mf libra lol Libra Rising, Sun, Mars and SN. Being single is fun. I met so many amazing women. Great personalities and everything. But Im starting to get to a point now where I want the same person. Not just dating and switching. Im honestly not into that. Wasnt what I thought it would be. However Im not desperate at all nor forcing anything. I just rather meet that one woman. Any libra feel like that after a while? Or am I just a simp ass man lol


I'm basically approaching this stage. Ready to focus on one person with a strong intuitive connection. I've had it briefly in the past and it's worth being selective to make room for lightning to strike again. And it will.

Likewise, no rush. My mind has to be in the right place to receive it. The fact is it tends to happen unexpectedly, when dwelling on other things, which makes it a pleasant surprise.

So it'll happen when it happens. Just don't forget to enjoy the ride. ⚡
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That last part was gold!
Posted by black773

Sounds like another 2moon. I don’t share your sentiment. I prefer being single, but I will say that talking about it isn’t going to make your desire for a relationship come to fruition. Might want to get off dxpnet, it’s filled with women you should avoid dating.


Lol I dont get on too often. I actually like it here. I dont "talk about it" its just a random thought I felt would be a good discussion for this site
Posted by LadyNeptune

But on the bright side you don't have to share your fries.
Ive noticed how much more I have now lol
Posted by DigitalGhost

Marvel needs to make a SimperMan. Ryan Gosling should play him.
After Deadpool and safe house, I think someone ekse would so a better simp role
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The perks of being single!
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Posted by DigitalGhost

Marvel needs to make a SimperMan. Ryan Gosling should play him.


After Deadpool and safe house, I think someone ekse would so a better simp role


Lol that's Ryan Reynolds. He was my first thought. He's came a long way. I'm talking Ryan Gosling. Too many Ryan's boring on SimperMan status.
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Got that wrong af didnt I? 😭😂 And simperman lol I like that lol
Posted by Midnite_Riser

I am a Libra man myself and I feel your pain. The wanting to partner up with a woman. Well so do I! Almost my entire chart is based on PARTNERSHIP, sex, romance,etc. Sun, Mercury, Venus and Mars in the 7th house. Pisces ascendant, Lilith in Taurus. But the 1 thing I hate is my Venus in Virgo just can't let go.



Jesus lol that is a stacked house. I had no idea venus in virgo had difficulty letting go
I really miss splitting expenses. Life is like twice as expensive for people who just want to be left the fuck alone. rent/mortgage vacations ect.
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Posted by Midnite_Riser

I am a Libra man myself and I feel your pain. The wanting to partner up with a woman. Well so do I! Almost my entire chart is based on PARTNERSHIP, sex, romance,etc. Sun, Mercury, Venus and Mars in the 7th house. Pisces ascendant, Lilith in Taurus. But the 1 thing I hate is my Venus in Virgo just can't let go.


Jesus lol that is a stacked house. I had no idea venus in virgo had difficulty letting go


Letting go of the imperfection. It is HAAARD...... not only that but I am too fricking picky!
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Stay discerning. Nothing wrong with being picky!!
Posted by DigitalGhost

Marvel needs to make a SimperMan. Ryan Gosling should play him.


He already has

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Edit: I’m realizing this is Reynolds but same ish
Posted by DMV

Wanting to really experience another person is not simping

This.

When did every normal human experience get reduced to being "less than" or seen as a negative attribute?
Posted by Libra4rmTX
Posted by GammaArietis

I really don’t want to be judgmental and maybe it’s a joke, but the fact that you think having a woman in your life is simping tells me you might have some more inner work to do before you subject a woman to that.


You know what? Im not even gonna argue that because that was a str8 up fact. Feel like I went out like a sucker in my last one and still tryna come to terms with that. So thats a great point. Even tho its been almost 4 years(got a child together tho)
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What did you learn from that experience? (Rhetorical question). All of our intimate experiences are meant to tell us more about who we are and what we need to develop so that when you move forward you make better choices, not based on fear or past wounds, but a wiser mind.
Posted by Krabss

libras either wanting a simple life and a gf or to destroy the world. man, weirdest sign.
Lol I haven't scorched the earth in ages
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Posted by Libra4rmTX
Posted by GammaArietis

I really don’t want to be judgmental and maybe it’s a joke, but the fact that you think having a woman in your life is simping tells me you might have some more inner work to do before you subject a woman to that.


You know what? Im not even gonna argue that because that was a str8 up fact. Feel like I went out like a sucker in my last one and still tryna come to terms with that. So thats a great point. Even tho its been almost 4 years(got a child together tho)

What did you learn from that experience? (Rhetorical question). All of our intimate experiences are meant to tell us more about who we are and what we need to develop so that when you move forward you make better choices, not based on fear or past wounds, but a wiser mind.
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Well said! And I learned alot!!
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Posted by Krabss

libras either wanting a simple life and a gf or to destroy the world. man, weirdest sign.


Lol I haven't scorched the earth in ages


take your time. jk. i srsly don't get the libra sign. tho never had enough experience with you guys.
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I think we're all diffetent but I agree we do go thru extremes. My brother is extemely discplined, controlled and well balanced.

Me on the other hand, Im a bit chaotic and unpredictable. Compared to him at least. So it really just depends on when cuz yea lol we got thru some extremes fr
Honestly? I love being single.

I know there is something wrong with me but this happens to me every time I'm in a relationship. After a year or so, the "familiarity breeds contempt" thing happens to me. Every little thing about my SO would annoy the hell out of me hence I'm starting to believe that relationships aren't for me which sucks because I can't do casual sex. I get attached once I sleep with someone.

I don't really understand myself. Bye.
Lol. Found this on the forums and I can definitely relate. 🤣

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Posted by Krabss

libras either wanting a simple life and a gf or to destroy the world. man, weirdest sign.
😂
Posted by ImperfectStorm
Posted by Libra4rmTX

I just rather meet that one woman. Any libra feel like that after a while? Or am I just a simp ass man lol


No you’re just officially a grown up lol they say that men officially reach emotional maturity later in life than women.. I think a big part of being emotionally mature is seeing the benefit of having a rock solid partner to share life with. Nothing simp about that
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I need to edit that and take simp out lol
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Posted by Krabss

libras either wanting a simple life and a gf or to destroy the world. man, weirdest sign.


Lol I haven't scorched the earth in ages


take your time. jk. i srsly don't get the libra sign. tho never had enough experience with you guys.


I think we're all diffetent but I agree we do go thru extremes. My brother is extemely discplined, controlled and well balanced.

Me on the other hand, Im a bit chaotic and unpredictable. Compared to him at least. So it really just depends on when cuz yea lol we got thru some extremes fr


i have a libra coworker. nicest person in the world. his wife adores me. giving him shit cause we don't spend enough time together.

on the other hand my ex has a libra son who was arrested with and the intention (better to know nothing for my sake) and told the police: omg, we were just making a youtube video, had no idea guns were real lmao!!! 3ys in jail.
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So then you know exactly where Im coming from lol
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Posted by Midnite_Riser

I am a Libra man myself and I feel your pain. The wanting to partner up with a woman. Well so do I! Almost my entire chart is based on PARTNERSHIP, sex, romance,etc. Sun, Mercury, Venus and Mars in the 7th house. Pisces ascendant, Lilith in Taurus. But the 1 thing I hate is my Venus in Virgo just can't let go.


Jesus lol that is a stacked house. I had no idea venus in virgo had difficulty letting go


Letting go of the imperfection. It is HAAARD...... not only that but I am too fricking picky!
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I'm all libra 7th house but aries rising and sag mars....you need cuddles? 😂
Posted by Mutya

Lol. Found this on the forums and I can definitely relate. 🤣

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This is exactly what happens. No matter what we do we just can't avoid it. I think it's easier for Libra men in a way because no one is looking down on a man because he doesn't want a relationship. With women they think it's because you're a ho.
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Posted by Midnite_Riser

I am a Libra man myself and I feel your pain. The wanting to partner up with a woman. Well so do I! Almost my entire chart is based on PARTNERSHIP, sex, romance,etc. Sun, Mercury, Venus and Mars in the 7th house. Pisces ascendant, Lilith in Taurus. But the 1 thing I hate is my Venus in Virgo just can't let go.


Jesus lol that is a stacked house. I had no idea venus in virgo had difficulty letting go


Letting go of the imperfection. It is HAAARD...... not only that but I am too fricking picky!

I'm all libra 7th house but aries rising and sag mars....you need cuddles? 😂


sure why not? smile

There's only 1 issue.... I like women Big Grin
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me too...its why they call me Mr.Fix it 😂