I miss him but....Leo girl confused

This topic was created in the Libra forum by Leogirl27 on Monday, August 5, 2013 and has 15 replies.
Really would like some feedback but really emotional and would rather not have blunt and mean answers. It's difficult situation for me. Out of my comfort zone with him. We've been dating 6 months and I know I am demanding but also very emotional with someone I am in love with. He's in the process of getting a divorce and have two small children one lives with him. The soon to be ex wife/their mom is currently locked up for awhile. He's living with his mom because of the divorce and he shares a car with her. Now you may think he has a lot of baggage and he does. I have no children and own my own home. I was open minded and decided to give him a chance believing he's a diamond in the ruff. I feel like he is. I can't complain about how he treats me because its good and I really love how affectionate he is BUT everything was great in the beginning. But after some research on my end I found out he was still married (he told me he was divorce when I met him). We talked he was apologetic and we got past that. I told him not to lie too me anymore. Time went past he said he filed and after some research found out he didn't file. Now at this point trust is shaken because I feel that I've been move that understanding and I feel he lied to keep me but now I feel like he still wants her now I'm insecure we had a major argument which led to weekly arguments about anything. He shut down and tried to look like the victim when I pressed him on the issue. He finally filed for divorce and tried to reassure me he wanted nothing more with her but now I have doubts. We tried to move passed that. I started noticing his phone going off a lot and he's texting a lot. When he goes to the bathroom at my house he has his phone with him and there are times when it will ring and he won't answer. Now I'm suspicious. I brought it up and it turned into an argument. I was just trying to have a discussion but for him he felt Ike its always something that I am bringing up weekly. I asked him was that in fact his car and he lied its his moms. I feel like damn you will lie about anything. Now I'm very insecure. What crazy is when he's in front of me I'm fine and content and we have a great time together but as soon as he touches his phone or he is leaving I feel sad and wondering is he dealing with someone else. We had a discussion last week about how long before you can move on and he told he don't believe in being sad too long and everyone deserves a chance if someone meets someone. You can d
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lol. You've posted about this guy before. Are you really surprised that he strung you along after cheating on his wife with you?
Leo chicks... you lot are batshit crazy hobags at times, I swear.
For anyone else, before you waste your time-
http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/trying-to-move-past-this-libra-guy-3467183.asp
http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/libra/What-now-3508287.asp
http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/libra/What-to-do-with-this-selfish-libra-man-3488487.asp
You don't want "blunt and mean" but you deserve nothing but that for what you've done. Sorry. Sucks to be you. Like I said in your other posts, you reap what you sow. It's amazing that you think you'd get any understanding or pity when you dug yourself into this hole. Did you seriously not understand "if he cheats with you, he will cheat on you?"
It sucks that your emotions are being fucked with, but Jesus. How many times did people here spell it out to you? You cannot be helped.
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This is not the same guy.
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Oh, so you make it a habit to date guys who are in relationships/barely out of relationships?
You need to work on your self esteem issues, chica. No woman should be settling for shit like this, let alone chasing taken men.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Oh, so you make it a habit to date guys who are in relationships/barely out of relationships?
You need to work on your self esteem issues, chica. No woman should be settling for shit like this, let alone chasing taken men.


+1!!
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You're an asshole
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Says the female that openly helped a man cheat on his girlfriend, chases after taken men, and can't even wait til they're entirely out of a relationship before hooking them in.
You're an embarrassment to our gender.
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That said, again, work on your self esteem.
Again, you deserve better.
Go find some single dude. I swear, you Leo women thrive off of drama and then wonder why you're miserable. It just ain't healthy.
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I said it, and I'll say it again, I freaking love Rocky
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I love rocky too! lol
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Says the female that openly helped a man cheat on his girlfriend, chases after taken men, and can't even wait til they're entirely out of a relationship before hooking them in.
You're an embarrassment to our gender.



Blunt and very honest!!!
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Posted by size zero superhero
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Leo chicks... you lot are batshit crazy hobags at times, I swear.


IMO Leo women aren't oblivious, however I've noticed a consistent problem in their relationships. Many "date down".
They often fall for men who've never had 'real girlfriends' before, are less ambitious than themselves, have few-to-no friends of their own or the guy simply doesn't have much going for him in a general sense.
The Lioness is fully aware of their guy's shortcomings from the getgo, and goes for him anyway as most don't mind being the greater half--or actually prefer it that way. Perhaps this set-up makes some feel secure; they're less likely to be left, cheated on or wronged by a boyfriend who's "not good enough" for them in the first place. Or maybe it feeds the ego, because dating down implies they'll always shine brighter than their s/o.
Inevitably, settling for less leads to dissatisfaction at some point, and they find themselves unfulfilled in the relationship.
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Yeah, I think it can be that notorious ego. Feeling that they are "better" than the partner maybe?
The many that I've come across all have the same tendency though- unhealthy relationships, they keep going back for more because they just seem to love the drama or something about the dysfunctionality of it. Or they settle for someone who's perfectly normal and they turn around and self sabotage because there HAS to be something wrong because that drama factor isn't there. It's kinda sad because they seem to have much more going for them in the long run, so why the hell settle for this shit?
EGO is such a terrible thing when it comes to matters like this. It's sad.
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I am Leo too , I just can tell you, check the things out ! You will find all of the answers you need . Be sure that his number is his personal number and you are there, or he use a working number from his job. Leos have great intuition ! Use it ! Chekc the things about him , find a way to check many things and you will be surprised . good luck.
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Just wonder, when is his birtday ? what day ?
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Posted by pinklibra
I love rocky too! lol


I love rocky three!!
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