I miss my friend..

Really miss my Libra friend...I miss talking to him and just knowing that he is well and everything is okay in his life...If he got hurt or something I wouldn't even find out because we have no friends that connect us...

I lost my best frined over sex, seems really stupid now..

We dated but it didn't turn out well..And then we were friends after but that didn't work either..And yes I have his phone number and email address but we agreed not to talk to each other..Take a break..

then you must leave him be....sometimes is best this way.

I know chatz..Just really miss him today..

I have continued on with my life..Started dating in April, was still friends with Libra at this point but i met him for dinner in June and he asked me if I had been intimate with the guy I was dating, I said yes..We went out for dinner he was quite rude all night,spent the whole dinner staring at a girl over my shoulder..I told him he was rude, I drove an hour and a half to have dinner with him and I could barely have a conversation witrh him...We got in a small arguement, I left, he called me the following week and said we needed to take a 6 month break..

Now that I look back, I wish I knew then what I know now..I never would have been intimate with him if I had known he was so emotionlly damaged by ex-wife...I was a rebounder and for some reason we can't get past that part and just be friends again..
Perhaps in time...Another lesson learned in life..

write a letter to him, but don't send it.


or just call him

GOOD lesson. You're a beautiful sensitive girl. You'll find someone NOT to be hurt with.

HH, you have to let it go. If I remember correctly the two of you were never in a serious relationship. Just bonded well during a casual one and you wanted more and he decided against that right? Then it isn't worth the memories and thoughts of longing for him. I went through a similar situation however we were able to emain friends. Not as close now as before but definitely friends, we still catch up and hang out sometimes. Good luck!

hurt-heart,I really do understand what you are going through.

Queenscorpio is right you need to let libra go. I know it is not easy but you need to do it for your own sanity.

It gets easier when you also remember the bad things and dont focus so much on the few good times...think about it..

Its like when people die, do people normally say bad things about them? nup, they normally bring up the good and say only positive things...we do the same when r/ships break down and/or the other person doesnt want/won't give what we want them to.

Dont only think of the good times, Im sure there are loads of bad ones in amongst it all - THAT helps with the grieving process.......