I was just wondering?

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The new Scorp I am seeing states he is very in love with me. Here's the thing we have not been together in an intimate way yet and I am not planning to go there for a while yet!

I was intrigued by the post about what two signs are the most compatible sexually? I have read that Scorps are supposed to be the most passionate and intense sexual partners of all the signs. While I was reading the post about the hottest sign I did not come across any information about a Libra (female) and a Scorp (male). So can anyone provide any input regarding what this union may be like? I am curious about any one else's experience's with this sign as to what kind of romantic partner they are in the bedroom?

What should a person expect from them, and what kind of things would it take to keep them happy and interested? I am completely at a loss on this one guy's due to lack of experience with this sign. Any information anyone could share would be so great, I mean I don't even know how to tell if or when they may want to initiate something like becoming intimate. I need to know what to look for so I can respond the right way regarding communicating about my wishes at that time. I know they are very sensitive and I don't wish to cause any hurt feelings if I am not ready. ((((Help!))))
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* I have read that Scorps are supposed to be the most passionate and intense sexual partners of all the signs.

This has not been my experience. For me, without a doubt, it is Leo.

They seem to be all about taboos yet are really timid. (and by taboo ... not fun stuff. stuff you rather not know.) They like to be in control but seem pretty selfish. Also they seem to get really REALLY obsessive, controlling, and domineering. It can go on for YEARS. As in "7 yearscorp" ... who is closer to 9 than 7 at this point. I don't know one that hasn't cheated on their partner.

Oddly, I have had a lot of male friends who are Scorps. Usually it turns into huge power struggles or a sexual obsession on their end. I have not had the best of luck with the males of this sign. I keep trying though.

This has been MY experience. You experience might vary.
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(( I have read that Scorps are supposed to be the most passionate and intense sexual partners of all the signs. ))

Thats true only for few zodiacs. Doesn't work with gemini. As long as the gemini in question is insecure in a subconscious manner or interested in mysterious people, she will get easily attracted to scorp. Bcoz scorps fill their need for security. They will take you to meet their parents home and you will get treated like a family member. But soon it will become a prison and gemini will start struggling.
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This is kind of late in response to my post but I just wanted to say this. I have experienced the I love you's, and the we are soul mate's from my scorp right from the start just like kennyg did and it kind of made me step back as well. He seems to have backed off a little after my sister told him that he needed to take it slower as not to scare me off.

I guess I just have never been able to completely accept that a persons feelings could be genuine, when professing such deep love and devotion so quickly. It just seems like it's way to much way to fast and that there must be some underlying motivation for saying something like that to someone.

I mean how could a person love us like that when they don't even truly know us yet! It's like putting the cart before the horse kind of thing. Anytime I have seen this kind of thing happen to someone I know the guy winds up being a real controlling nut case that my friend has a difficult time getting away from even when no true mutual relationship develops between them.

I am not saying that this is true in my case but it did kind of put me off a bit. I felt kind of uncomfortable hearing I love you so many times throughout the day because I had no reply I could give him. I simply was not in love with this person at this early stage in our acquaintance. Intense they are indeed! Thanks to everyone that responded to my question, it was very helpful.
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The sexual intensity/chemistry I think is a bit more extreme in the Libra male/Scorp female combo than it is the other way around. In my experience Libra women are not overly attracted to scorp men. LIbra women have the same need for indepenance, freedom, and trust that Libra men do but it comes more from an emotional need than it does from an intillectual need like in the case of Libra male. Scorps are emotionally driven people, and so if their need for power and control over their partner exists on the emotional plane it is an instant incompatibility, where as with the Libra male it is more of an area of concern than it is an issue of emotional compatibility.

Before my current girlfriend my two most emotionally intense relationships were with scorpio women. The chemistry comes from the Libra mans ability to let the scorpio guard down. There is something about the way we gently take control in all areas that gives the scorpio woman a sense of security needed to tap into the femanine intensity that they keep hidden, when unlocked frees the Libra masculine intensity that they keep hidden. The clearest it comes across is in the bedroom. That is why the sexual compatibility is praised amongst the scorp women and libra men that have been in a relationship with each other. In my experience, this combinations compatibility is centered around the intensity of the mutual sexual desire and as the relationship goes on it is harder to maintain. As for Libra women with a Scorp man, I have a feeling that is similar, but not the same. I honestly don't know.

My girlfriend now, the one I believe and feel on every level is my soulmate and whom I have an unbelievably intense love for is a Libra with a heavy scorpio influence. She inspires that intense desire and fulfillment to a degree I have never experienced before OR knew was possible. The longer we are together, the clearer our compatibility becomes unlike with scorp sun signs. Like KG recommended, we knew each other for almost a year before we became sexually involved so this allowed me to understand her as a person before the sex became a factor. I think this is a huge proponent not only as to why we work together so well, but also in my ability to feel emotionally secure and not have any of the emotional claustriphopia that I have had in EVERY other relationship scorp or otherwise.