If UR a Libra lady let me no if this has happened

I am a proud Libra and am learning more and more about astrology. But the weird thing is that it would seem that all my love relationships keep popping back into my life. They are all guys that I have had a strong friendship or love thing with. Don't get me wrong it is great to get all the attention but I wonder if it is me or just the pull of the sign. Why did I have such an impact on so many people? And I had not seen any of them for 10-14years. Let me know....

Hi blkraven2u,


*smile* I totally understand and it is our sign. Sometimes a curse but it is a Libra thing. We do have a strong impact on many people, most of the time not realizing it. As far as the ex lover thing goes, I am still close to many of my past relationships. A couple of the men are still in love and the rest are still good friends. I think it is our nature to be compassionate even when we end a realtionship, so it usually ends on good terms. On the other side of that, the same compassion can send men a mixed message leaving them with a hope that maybe someday, and some carry that torch for years. I hope that helps.


Sunshine...

Sunshine,

Thanks alot cuz I had a few friends that thought of me as stuck on myself because of this pull I have with people guys inpaticular. I don't think of myself like that I just belive that everyone is in your life for a reason. I know that I am not stuck up. I just was not sure if it was the nature of our being....and now I do ; ) Thanks much.
Blkraven

Hi Blkraven,

I'm glad it helped *S* Have you happened to ever date a Taurus? I could use some feedback on that. Thanks and anyone can respond to the Taurus question..


Sunshine...

Sunshine,
OMG yes I had a long relationship with a Bull. He is still in my life another one that found me. But we were a good pair I believe with communication it would have been better. He liked to control the relationship. He was a good lover, but loved to be the boss. Infact that is his favorite colonge too Hugo Boss. HMMMM make you think. But anyway that match can work only if Libra does not get too independent. Let Tauras lead. It is a bit of a rollercoaster ride though. I think that as a Libra we love that strong type.
Blkraven

Hi blkraven,

Good to hear you had the same experience. What I have found with mine is I just let him THINK he is in control..LOL. No, seriously, I am alright with a man being in control as long as he can take control. The men I usually have in my life want control and seem to be real men but underneath they just want a mother figure. So, I usually take over. In this relationship I'm really enjoying not having to worry about anything. He takes care of things and thinks of me when making decisions. What I have found though is that Taurus's move very slow. It has been a really good learning experience for me, you know how impatient us Libras can be..*W*. And you are very correct in the communication part, he opens up when I initiate conversation and he even If I don't get answers he hears what I am saying and makes every effort to make me happy. I think this is probably the most healthy relationship I've ever had. I just wonder if it is not an age thing though, I'm 42ys and seem to mellow with every passing year. Thanks for your imput. BTW..hows things been with you?

Sunshine...

Hi blkraven2u, and sunshine101562,

Twinflame2 here, I am not new to this site but have been away for some time now. sunshine I too have had a similar occurance with exlovers comming back in my life to try to reconnect. I feel certain that blkraven is correct in her assessment that it is just a libra thing. And her reason as to why was pretty spot on.

And I also have had a long taurus relationship situation. For me it was not very calm though as the taurus I was involved with was still in love with a past girlfriend as well as me. It was a push me pull me type situation I was in because of that fact. If I became to independant due to not getting a solid committment from him he would pull me back in firmly, and then once there he would push me away again emotionally. I lived with him for two years not knowing just why things were the way they were.

My experience was not typical of the way Taurus men are in a relationship though but I just wanted to share this because there is another side to the sign that may surface in this kind of situation.

Maybe this information will help another person in a love relationship with a Taurus if it is not going very well. Typically the sign is pretty solid in their decision making process, but the one I was involved with was not able to make up his mind where he wanted to be. He was not still seeing this other person while with me, he just was not finished with that relationship in his heart, hope this helps.

TW2

I've had the same experience. Sometimes it takes a while for them to come around again, but they always do. It's usually after they've had another relationship or two.

Wow, I have the same issue - last monday I had to EX boyfriends call me .....one called during the day and the other in the evening - ON THE SAME EXACT DAY ............no matter how I try to move on they all seem to find me or want to keep in contact with me .........I am always wondering if I am contributing to them coming back but Im not ..WOW ........I am so gld i am not the only one
LIBRA all day everyday...................

Wow, I have the same issue - last monday I had two of my EX boyfriends call me .....one called during the day and the other in the evening - ON THE SAME EXACT DAY BOTH OF THEM I DO NOT CALL EITHER ONE............no matter how I try to move on they all seem to find me or want to keep in contact with me .........I am always wondering if I am contributing to them coming back or their weird behaviors, but I'm not ..WOW is all I can say ........I am so glad I am not the only one that feels this way ...........

LIBRA all day everyday...................a libra female that is ...........

Hello fellow Librans, and yeah I know what you mean. I am not what anyone in their right mind would call "hot" yet, this stuff happens all the time. It makes life complicated, doesn't it?
And to Sunshine, I'm currently smitten with a Taurus and they are tough cookies, aren't they? My dad and my brother were/are bulls, so I have a bit of an idea what I am in for there. They don't speak much, so don't expect any flowery verse out of them. If they say they care for you, they say it once, mean it, and don't see the need to say it again, even if they do the famous disappearing act. Unless things change, then they will let you know, bluntly. So enjoy the ride till then. I totally dig their "no bullshit" approach to everything including relationships. If a Taurus gives you their word, you can take it to the bank. If they disappoint you, they don't mean to, and usually have a good reason, so don't sweat the small sh*t with them. They always come through on the stuff that truly matters. Sweet and affectionate beyond belief in that department, a bit careless and lazy on the little things though.