I'm confused just like everyone else.
This topic was created in the Libra forum by HereIAM on Sunday, October 22, 2017 and has 9 replies.
Hi y'all! I'm new here so please be nice. Lol. I have read some stories about Libra men and how they can be so confusing...welp here I am confused too and in hopes someone can help. Long story short, we were friends, we crossed the line of just a platonic friendship and then things got confusing. I asked him what was looking for and he responded saying "I'm just not down with being confused or mixed feelings or any of that. I'm just trying to enjoy life." I told him I agreed and explained that I hate confusion as well and asked if my actions or lack there of are what's confusing him but he didn't answer the question. He's been in contact with me but just not like he was before. He seems to be pretty distant. I told him that he's been being difficult lately and he said life is a challenge and nothing comes easy. I replied "It's not but you're not suposed intentionally make it difficult. I'm sure it's worth it tho.... don't make me regret it." He replied back saying okay. His birthday was the other day and I gave him a gift. The gift was of something that I remembered about him from when we first met. Later that day I texted him telling him I didnt want anything, just wanted to check on him to see how his birthday was going and that I enjoyed spending time with him and he said NOTHING. I don't know if I should just give him space or if I did something wrong. It's been 2 days since we've spoken and I don't want to contact him first. what are yalls thoughts?
My friend is going through something similar and cannot seem to find it in herself to let him go. He is hot, he is cold, some days nice and others just plain out rude. I say give him some space. Maybe he is unsure of what he wants. I would wait for him to contact me if I were you.
here's a thought (and i realise it is too late for you) but stop sleeping with men if you have expectations that you have yet to discuss!
either you have casual sex and accept that it is casual (ie, no strings) or you set out clearly what you expect from the encounter beforehand and then give it some time to properly see how likely those expectations are to be met.
come on, it's not that difficult to understand is it?
(and even then, accept that nothing in life is guaranteed.)
either you have casual sex and accept that it is casual (ie, no strings) or you set out clearly what you expect from the encounter beforehand and then give it some time to properly see how likely those expectations are to be met.
come on, it's not that difficult to understand is it?
(and even then, accept that nothing in life is guaranteed.)
He said he’s just trying to enjoy life. Without any confusion on ur end.... meaning he isn’t looking for a relationship. If he was, he would have said it. By enjoying life, he means having sex with no strings attached
@pinkbird03 @leobaby89 thank you! that makes sense about wanting sex with no strings! I assumed (key word assumed) he wanted more in the beginning. We had a disagreement and that is when things started to change. They then got better for a while and of course changed again. Welp I'll back off and give him space. Thanks again ladies.
@tiziani @rindaroo we have been friends for years. We recently started speaking again. Things were just fine until we had a disagreement. I got upset about something he said. We didn't speak for about a week and he contacted me. Things went back to how they were (contact ddaily. We were together one night and we ended up having sex. I didnt expect that to happen the way they did and I pulled away. After noticing him becoming distant I asked what he wanted, he asked me how I felt ( after about 30 min I didnt respond because I got busy at work) and he said he doesn't like being confused and having mixed feelings. I texted him back apologizing about the delay in my response. I told him I don't like being confused either and asked if it was me that confused him. He never answered the question. I told him i didnt expext things to be how they were and that i did have feelings for him but was okay witg just being friends. He responded again saying he just doesnt like being confused. After that conversation we continued to be in contact daily but he was distant. I would ask questions and he wouldn't answer if they were personal. That is why I told him he was being difficult and he responded life isn't always easy. I told him I know but he doesn't have to make things difficult but I was sure he was worth it and to not make me regret it. He said ok. We agreed to meet for lunch if he didn't have to do something with his job. we didnt meet because I had a headache. He came over later that night and we shared some laughs, I gave him his gift, we cuddled and went to sleep. the next day I texted him saying I enjoyed spending time with him and hope he was enjoying his bday and I haven't spoken to him in two days.
Neither of you are certain of what you feel for the other. I think you will both end up hurting each other.
Sorry if I am wrong.
what's his moon mars and venus? also libra men are not the one to rush into relationships.. and they love their freedom. right now currently with a libra man and when we are apart i dont hear from him at all... but as soon as we are about to see each other the contact resumes so we make sure we have our days. apart from that i leave him alone. go with the flow with them...
it doesnt matter if you have sex on the first date or not with these men (my ex of 7 years was a libra hook up first night married me and gave me three kids).. and current libra did the same and we are still dating though it is not official i spend the night and we see each other as if we are a couple. let them think its their idea they are doing everything and they will be fine. we can go 5 days and not speak and ive learned they need this.
it doesnt matter if you have sex on the first date or not with these men (my ex of 7 years was a libra hook up first night married me and gave me three kids).. and current libra did the same and we are still dating though it is not official i spend the night and we see each other as if we are a couple. let them think its their idea they are doing everything and they will be fine. we can go 5 days and not speak and ive learned they need this.
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