im done after this

For five years, ive been in and out of turbulent relationships and like an ass i compulsively ebtered one this year, only for it to be just as rocky, so im turning the emotional switch off for a while after this, too much outer shit going on and relationships just feel like too much extra weight.

I'll sort shit out and maybe look to this department again

any other libras been thru this, a little advice or input is nice

maybe its the retrogade saturn

Pride of 0ctober, It's really sad to hear you say that. Bt sometimes it is best to take a time out from relationships and do you.

Hugs 🙂

Ya, turbulent. I am hoping tSaturn in Libra will stabilize things.

Posted by Miss Scorp

Posted by Pride of 0ctober
For five years, ive been in and out of turbulent relationships and like an ass i compulsively ebtered one this year, only for it to be just as rocky, so im turning the emotional switch off for a while after this, too much outer shit going on and relationships just feel like too much extra weight.

I'll sort shit out and maybe look to this department again

any other libras been thru this, a little advice or input is nice

maybe its the retrogade saturn

Oh no this forum needs you. Whats up?? Problem with ur significant other. A problem share is a problem half.
Inbox me or reply on here if you want to talk. Cheer up.🙂

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no not from here,but just from relationships so to speak, and from certain people, just gettign to a point where im realising all the extra shit and what is needed and whats not, i dont think its a good tiem to be in a relationship, i guess i just need some solitude, a tone of it cuz i got too much shit stirred lol kinda got a leave me alone attitude till i figure iish out

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Ya, turbulent. I am hoping tSaturn in Libra will stabilize things.

mine is in the 12th house, the transit is for libra, so my stabilizing is getting rid of certain things

thank u miss scorp i will p.m. u

hm. should I dare say you're not the only one? the Libra guy I had an affair with decided to tell his wife about it. so there'S Saturn for them both now .. Gawd knows what was going through his head since I know he cheats on her anyways, only that he switched ppl.

so hang on tight, at least you don't carry the guilt (I have Saturn as singleton in the 12th house grr). Its only an opportunity to clean up. You ppl are never short of admirers ..

Sorry to hear that but for us libra its hard to not care lol i can't stand being single.. after in and out of a relationship so many times i still don't give up and continue seeking hahaha even tho it stress me out knowing it don't work but that don't stop me , i end up meeting my arie gf which i read up alot on here that libra and arie are bad as a couple lol i been with her for 1 in a half years and things are still hott haha by end of this year i'm getting her a ring.

thats life and how we deal with it is what matters, you need to look a little more into you and find out why you are getting into turbulent relationships... it must be the type of person you are attracting or attracted to.

I've been doing alot of soul searching and have realised I have to open my mind a little as to who and how i date. Love never runs smoothly especially over years, it's work, but can be worth it, if you find that special someone that you can see a future with. Sometimes you have to look way beyond the instant attraction and not just be taken in by the moment!

Posted by Pride of 0ctober
For five years, ive been in and out of turbulent relationships and like an ass i compulsively ebtered one this year, only for it to be just as rocky, so im turning the emotional switch off for a while after this, too much outer shit going on and relationships just feel like too much extra weight.

I'll sort shit out and maybe look to this department again

any other libras been thru this, a little advice or input is nice

maybe its the retrogade saturn

You don't need to turn your emotions off you just need to clarify what you want and make a plan to stick to it. I have been in the same position you are now.

I think it's normal for Libra guys to get into a string of turbulant relationships. It comes with the being attracted to "interresting" people, having a savior complex and being pray to flattery and chemistry or any combination thereof.

What changed in me was realizing that I don't "need" anyone but I "want" someone and for a relationship to be worthwhile to me it needs to improve the quality of my life above all else. I will naturally work to improve the quality of the other persons life so that isn't an issue.

It was when I could care less about relationship status itself that love instead of infatuation found me.

If I were in your shoes I would live life, be yourself, do what feels right for you and keep on doing it until the right person comes along. Once they do you will know the difference, things will just click and you won't find yourself weighing aspects of the relationship back and forth.

Posted by nicodemus

Posted by Pride of 0ctober
For five years, ive been in and out of turbulent relationships and like an ass i compulsively ebtered one this year, only for it to be just as rocky, so im turning the emotional switch off for a while after this, too much outer shit going on and relationships just feel like too much extra weight.

I'll sort shit out and maybe look to this department again

any other libras been thru this, a little advice or input is nice

maybe its the retrogade saturn

You don't need to turn your emotions off you just need to clarify what you want and make a plan to stick to it. I have been in the same position you are now.

I think it's normal for Libra guys to get into a string of turbulant relationships. It comes with the being attracted to "interresting" people, having a savior complex and being pray to flattery and chemistry or any combination thereof.

What changed in me was realizing that I don't "need" anyone but I "want" someone and for a relationship to be worthwhile to me it needs to improve the quality of my life above all else. I will naturally work to improve the quality of the other persons life so that isn't an issue.

It was when I could care less about relationship status itself that love instead of infatuation found me.

If I were in your shoes I would live life, be yourself, do what feels right for you and keep on doing it until the right person comes along. Once they do you will know the difference, things will just click and you won't find yourself weighing aspects of the relationship back and forth.

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damn, i cant even add anything except a thank you for the advice thats the best i've heard yet thank you nic, cuz thats an issus that unconsciously i've been trying to solve, great post though

Nicodemus gave some really great advice! I would add that it's okay to dump a girl if you see signs of emotional immaturity, the kind of immaturity that's going to stress you the hell out and turn you upside down, instead of going down that road again just disappear and move on, maybe learn how to set boundaries on how much shit your going to take, you should know your limits by now since you have been in and out of turbulent relationships, begin to give less of yourself to women that are emotionally unstable not because you don't care about her but because you have to learn how to take care of yourself first, a woman that has issues is emotionally exhausting, it's better to walk away and let her deal with her life....If you continue to date unstable women you can get really jaded and bored with emotionally stable women, taking a break to relearn what it's like to be with women that are grounded is a good idea....Maybe just limit yourself to dating occasionally and nothing else until you feel your ready to give it a try again.