Incredibly frustrating indecisiveness??

Seriously? Do you guys ever get to some point where you have to make a really important decision and you're just...stuck?? I'm just sitting here weighing both sides, looking at both sides and being just so irritatingly INDECISIVE! Usually I'm not like this, and make decisions quite easily (although I tend to mull things over and sometimes regret the choices I make...whatever. Irrelevant) but I've been stuck here for WEEKS on end not being able to pick one choice or the other. Is this an inherent Libran trait?? Gahhh

Yes this is a libra trademark.

P.S. option #2 is definitely the way to go!

Posted by Dominooo

Posted by LibraSid
Yes this is a libra trademark.

P.S. option #2 is definitely the way to go!

It seems like Gems have the same problem. lol

Old gem bud and I would drive around in circles contemplating on what to do. We could never figure out anything to do.

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I'm sure it happens to everyone. Watch the boards here sometime, we go through spells. For a little while it's all about libras not being able to make a decision, then it will switch to us rushing into relationships just to suddenly turn cold, then we'll get a couple about what great and friendly people we are, then about how confusing we are... rinse, repeat.

People come on here regularly and ask if we are retarded because we just sit there thinking instead of doing anything haha.

The only time I notice this trait for me is when I'm shopping for clothes ! I HATE THAT ! -but I end up with a reat wardrobe !

This problem is why I've been dating 3 Scorpios at once. All of whom want exclusivity.

I do it but only on major issues now...because I have felt I have stuffed up a lot of the times and regretted some of my decisions.

HaHaha Domino !!

Posted by Dominooo

Posted by buckdich
This problem is why I've been dating 3 Scorpios at once. All of whom want exclusivity.

you're crazy.

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I've certainly learned the error of my ways. I am trying to remove them all, I cannot stand this headache!

Posted by Dominooo
My libra friend just came back into life. Like...just. The guy isn't indecisive 90% of the time.

We aren't really indecisive. At least I don't think I am. Well, maybe... I don't know. Sometimes I guess.


Seriously though, we normally are fine. However, we will randomly run into spots where we just cannot decide. These times will be so frustrating to those involved (ourselves included usually) that they are what is remembered and talked about. Some of these things are things that others may not hesitate about and it just adds to their frustration. I still just don't know what I want to do about it yet. Because the decision doesn't have to be made right now and it isn't life threatening, I wait and gather more information.

There are also times where I simply don't care. Someone can ask me a very simple question and give some easy options and I really truly just don't care... so I say so. People take this to mean we don't know or cannot decide. I have made a conscious effort recently to not say I don't care. When these situations arise, pick B. At least then I "made a choice".

FYI guys... if you relate to that last bit, take the advice. This may sound stupid as hell to you; but, answering that you'd prefer the second option, when someone asks, projects much more confidence than stating your indifference.

Posted by buckdich

Posted by Dominooo

Posted by buckdich
This problem is why I've been dating 3 Scorpios at once. All of whom want exclusivity.

you're crazy.

I've certainly learned the error of my ways. I am trying to remove them all, I cannot stand this headache!

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DAMN IT!

The pic did not work, it was a good one too. I though that got fixed... 😢

Posted by fierymuse
Seriously? Do you guys ever get to some point where you have to make a really important decision and you're just...stuck?? I'm just sitting here weighing both sides, looking at both sides and being just so irritatingly INDECISIVE! Usually I'm not like this, and make decisions quite easily (although I tend to mull things over and sometimes regret the choices I make...whatever. Irrelevant) but I've been stuck here for WEEKS on end not being able to pick one choice or the other. Is this an inherent Libran trait?? Gahhh

Not a Libra but I have more than enough placements & I have a hard time making up my mind. It's like if I choose one thing, I'll regret my decision & change my mind. Only to change it again! So yes. It's annoying.

Posted by LibraSid
DAMN IT!

The pic did not work, it was a good one too. I though that got fixed... 😢

Perhaps Yoda's exes handled breakups better than my Scorps did... But I think I've gotten the situation under control, and I've decided that one of em's a keeper.

But I'm forcing us to have a break, so that we can both decide to be together with a clear mind.