INSIGHT

I never met a Libra before and I was informed from someone on the Scorpio board that I should talk to Queenscorpio, although all are welcome t
Well I went out Saturday nite walked in a club at 1am and saw him about my height 5'5 or taller dark, handsome with a sexy wide smile and freakin dimples, I just started dancing with him then he smiled and I just had to take a picture of him. During the course of the nite all we did was dance Bop, slow danced and fast dancing, he brought me some drinks but I was already buzzing from the previous party I was at. So I asked him his name and he told me he told me he was dangerous and I said not as dangerous as me....I have not had sex in 4 months you don't want to see how dangerious I am. Yea I had a one night stand. I was in heat and he was my victim of sexually pleasure....we went to the drug store to get condoms, he paid for the hotel.
The rest is History.

What scares me is him telling me he Love Me so so so soon. Why, I asked him and he said because I do So I said do you normally fall in love so quickly or are you just trying to play with he. He said he was unhappy and that one night with me changed him and he is happy know, so I said it was the sex, get to know me frist. He was like anything you want let me know. and I said you don't mean that do you. He falls for people quickly. So I said here's the thing, lets just be friends get to know each other and see what happens. He told me that he has been used by women and I said I see why you are to gullible like you are being know and he was like yea, so then I said you should'nt.

Well the brother called me like 3 times yesterday. One to tell me he love me. He was thinking about me. Had a dream about me, and Just plain miss me. So I was like dude are you serious and he said yea. I am going out to dinner with him tonight only because when we went to the hotel and because I did not know him, I had my gf hold on to his license and I forgot to give it back to him when she picked me up the next morning. LOL

I think I will have to lay down some concrete rules that he needs to live by when dealing with me because I don't want to hear the ILU's right know I want to get to know him because I believe that he really a nice sweet caring person. He kept saying that I was so cute and beautiful, that was to much for me to hear because he becamse suspect....hell this man is 5 years older than me, and I wonder what the hell did he learn about women over the years.

QS if off to Florida, that lucky girl.

But just by reading your post, I say there is something suspicious about his actions. Watch your heart, girl.

HP my heart is not affected at all, I am just looking for insight of this sign. My son is a Libra but he is only 20.....I like to know the good, bad and ugly with them. I just want a jumpstart. LOL So what every knowledge you can give would be help the rest I can handle....As of know he has gotten on my last nerves...HE constantly repeats the same crap, a bit fickle, as for the ILU's I don't pay any attention to them, he can't suck me in with that.

Hey, SL! That was me that plugged QS! Welcome to the Scorp board. It has been unusually dead lately, as it would seem that love is in the air for Spring. As HP said, QS is off to FL for the weekend to see her hot Libra stud and have a wild weekend of...well, we won't go there. LOL! Hope you are having fun, QS!!!! 🙂

But, she might have a chance to hope on, or one of our Libras might be able to give you a little insight. This is a bit far out of my Libra level, which is why I suggested you come here.

But, from what I know... Libras generally don't like to be controlled or like "drama". Your comment about laying down the law might apply here. But, from a Scorp perspective, you are who you are. If that is the response that you feel is appropriate, and he finds it inappropriate, then you would no doubt have problems in the long run anyway.

That being said, there are levels... Laying down who you are, what you want, and what you expect without trespassing on their boundaries. It all depends on how much you want to see if this might be capable of being something that could work out. If you have no interest what-so-ever, then it isn't worth the effort, but if you are atleast curious, then it might be...

Hopefully someone with a bit more knowledge than me will chime in soon...

Have a good one!

Whoops... I am a little slow. At work here...

Hmmmm... The good, the bad, and the ugly... I think I can come up with that one, but give me a little time to respond (damn work, LOL!).

I know alcheme, I am at work also. But it is Friday the 13th so I am just chillin really and looking busy. Thanks for the update on QS, I am quite sure she will give me some good Insight.

LOL

Yea I wanna know the good, bad, and ugly of these Libra's,

Okie dokie. The good, the bad, and the ugly (and let's not forget the oh so yummy)...

This would apply to the Libra men I have known. I don't KNOW many Libra women and the ones I do tend to rub me the wrong way. Much like Scorps... I get along smashingly with Scorp women, but I get along with the men something about them tends to rub me the wrong way. There is just something about their embodiment of the traits of the sign that seems far less subtle and natural (in my experience). I tend to prefer people that have assimilated the quirks of their signs to add to the uniqueness of their personalities, not those that have been assimilated BY their signs merely turning themselves into a personification of the stereotype of their sign and thereby having no true personality themselves (whether they consciously do it or not).

Sex Appeal:
- Confident - I always find a confident man sexy.

- Playful / Flirty - Can be good or bad, depends on the Libra. With a bad Libra, they would not doubt continue looking around and flirting around (with others) even while in a relationship with you. For a Scorp with a good Libra, this can be very fun. They enjoy our tendency to flirt with the people we are with, and love to play back. This can exponential increase the fun of the game... 🙂

- Sex - Fun, sensual, passionate, OMG the things they can do with every inch of their body!!! Yummy!!! They definitely turn sex into an art form that can be experienced in every way possible and enjoyed by everyone.... Okay, right... Ummm, next...

- Stylish - Typically stylish, though not all are the expensive, "have to have top of the line stuff" kind. But, they always have a unique and sexy sense of style .

- Affectionate - Always a good thing!

- Sexy - Not an overt "manly" sexiness, but more of a subtle, seething, sensual sexiness. You are not going to get the gruff, tough, grunting kind of man here. More than likely one fitting well within the definition of metrosexual, but one wearing it perfectly as a natural part of their persona and not merely a facade to add to their appeal.

- Charming - Seemingly natural at times (or for some people) and ostentatiously at others (but not really, see Interpersonal / Communication Skills below).

Intelligence:
- Great Communicators - See Intrerpersonal / Communication Skills below.

- Highly Objective - This can be a plus and a minus. Scorps relate to things, or atleast I do, personally / internally (emotionally / subjectively). Libras relate to things impersonally / externally (objectively). To give a better understanding... I understand others by having a greater understanding of myself. Libras understand themselves by having a greater understanding of others.

When I am discussing things with people I am attempting to comprehend their motiviations, their reasons, their ideas, and their perspectives by to some degree embracing them, assimilating them, personalizing them, subjectifying them. I may not be able to "truly" understand them the way the original people do, but I am capable of comprehending a great deal this way. I have no ablility to comprehend something that I cannot relate to in some fashion. In this light, I am not capable of comprehending nothingness, infinity, or a number of other similar concepts. A Libras objective thought is quite capable of that, something that I find (amusingly enough), in and of itself, incomprehensible.

But, this merely signifies that Scorps and Libras have widely different persepctives when it comes to thinking. This can be good, as it can open new perspectives and new points of view to each other should they have the desire to share them with each other. It can make philosophical, political, etc. debates very interesting as well. BUT, it can also be bad. For where people approach thinking from vastly different perspectives, there is a great tendency to misunderstand each other and be incapable of seeing the other's point of view. Without two people willing to (1) try to see each others side and (2) accept that at times they will be incapable of it (and that is okay, too), distinct problems can arise.

- Abstract Intelligence - Great at philosophy, big picture, out there concepts, conceptualization. A little lacking on practical intelligence in comparison (i.e. - more abstract than practical).

- Creative - Extremely creative and artistic in most things that they do.

Intrerpersonal / Communication Skills:
- Poetic - They have a way with words that can make normal speech seem like poetry.

- Stories - They have the ability to truly bring stories to life in your mind as if you were really there.

- Very Social - Have lots of friends (girls and guys). Generally stay friends with their exes (which can be bad for people prone to extreme jealousy). Like to go out and do things with their friends, but don't mind staying in, too. I think they generally like a balance. A little out and a little in, not too much of either.

Miscellaneous Good, Bad, and Ugly:
- Indecisive / Non-commital - At time they can have a hard time making up their minds, or more correctly can take a while to make up their minds (I would guess in the hopes of thoroughly thinking through everything and ensuring they make the right decision).

- Easily distracted - Pretty much speaks for itself. But in bad Libras, or from less easily distracted perspectives, could be described as a number of other things, including wishy-washy, flaky, lacking follow-though, lacking passion (though not correct, they merely easily change, think Sag), lazy, etc.

- Aloof - A bad Libra can put a prospective suitor / suitress through the ringer... When around, they act normal (as if their is something special there), and the minute they leave begins the "me time" which can generally leave said prospect questioning wtf is going on with their relationship. This can be for days, weeks, or for REALLY bad ones months. Then, when ready, rinse and repeat... LOL!

- Non-confrontational - This can be good or bad. For a Scorp, it can be bad... Some Libras have realized that some people need to vent, that some people need to confront issues, and that for some people passion in an argument signifies how much they care (or more importantly, lack there of signifies how much they do not). Not all Scorps are confrontational drama queens... And, not all Libras run away at the first sign of tension. That being said, even the severely non-confrontational Libras will stand up and fight for what they believe in as much as a Scorp will. But, for a Libra this is generally ideas / principles (and defending the people they care about). Libras are generally extremely abstract, and therefore the things that they really believe in are as equally abstract and intangible.

Ummmm, that is the best I can do off the top of my head. There is much more (even on the topics I have covered) which I will have more time to get to later, but I should probably get back to work now (ugh!).

I really didn't cover the positive and negatives of the Scorp / Libra combo much, but I will get to that later, unless a Libra wants to join in and help 🙂...

Okie dokie, I am back (for a bit, still have some work to do).

Good:
Funny, witty, smart, sexy, playful, charming, intelligent, open-minded, fair, sexy, sensual, great in bed, principled, spontaneous, artistic, creative, romantic, affectionate, caring (about partners, family, and friends, as well as all people in general), appreciate art and beauty in all its forms, fun loving, outgoing, sociable, friendly, easy going, laid back, strategically minded, competitive, fun to play with (whether flirting, teasing, poking, or proding), compromising, forgiving, perceptive

Bad / Ugly:
Flirty, philanderous, indecisive, easily distracted, lacking direction, lacking follow-thru, emotionally unavailable, extreme, shallow, frivilous, self-absorbed, selfish, non-commital, indulgent, additive personalities, detached, argumentative, stubborn, awnry, unfriendly, stuck in their ways, closed-minded, critical of others

Ummm... Okay, I ran out of steam on the bad / ugly side, and they were mostly things I have read at various times in astro profiles, except for the last few (I was channeling the Libras females I know)... Oh! I know a GOOD Libra profile. BRB!

Librans hate to be rude, yet they'll straighten the crooked picture on your wall and snap off your blaring TV sfft. Librans love people, but they hate large crowds. Like gen&le doves of peace, they go around mediating and patching tip quarrels between others; still they enjoy a good argument themselves. They're goodnatured and pleasant, but th^y can also be sulky, and they balk at taking orders. Libra(is are extremely intelligent. At the same time, they're incredi_bly naive and gullible. They'll talk your ear off, yet they're wonderfully good listeners. Librans are restless people. But they seldom rush or hurry. Are you completely confused? You're not alone. There's a frustrating inconsistency to tl?is Sun sign that puzzles the Ubrans themselves as much S&it does others.

Lots of people will tell you that Libra is all love ai?d beauty and sweetness and light. That's fine, as far as it goes, but it stops a little short of accuracy. It also stops short of Eugene O'Neill. Just because the sign is symbolized by the golden scales of justice, don't ever think that LibraAS are always perfectly balanced. It seems to be a logical deduction. After all, the purpose of scales is to balano?. However, did you ever watch the balancing process on a pair of old-fashioned pharmaceutical scales? The ultimate goal is to get both sides even, but what happens? First o(ie side is low, then the other. Up and down, and they dip until there's perfect balance. Drop into a friendly neighborhood. pharmacy and watch them in action. (Just tell the druggist you're trying to find out what makes Aunt Martha tick.)

Never again will you have a mental picture of a Libran as a calm, perfectly balanced, sweet, gracious and charming individual You'll have a mental picture of a person who has that kind of disposition half the time. The other half of the time, Libra can be annoying, quarrelsome, stubborn, restless, depressed and confused. Libra is first up, then down. He swings one way, then another. Suddenly, like the scaels-perfect balance! It's heavenly. But there is always that period of weighing and dipping before the moment of heavenly balance is achieved.

The physical appearance of these people may require almost as much concentration as the personality. There's no such thing as a typical Libra feature, unless ifs the Venus dimple. Libran features are almost always even and well-balanced. They're pleasing, but not very noticeable, so it's easier to start with the dimples. There will usually be a couple in the cheeks or one in the chin. If they're not in the face, you might check to see if the knees are dimpled. Many Libran knees are. But be careful. Very few girls will believe you when you tell them you were staring at their knees "because I want to see if you were born in October." Be discreet, but check. With the men, of course, the trousers rule out that clue, unless you're on the beach or playing tennis. Don't get discouraged if you find dimples, then discover the person was not born in October. Those fetching dimples have a right to be there, because he or she will have a Libra ascendant, so your guess is still correct.

After you've ruled the Venus dimples in or out, notice the entire effect of the face. It will always wear a markedly pleasant expression. Even when the Libran is angry, some_how he or she will manage to look mild, or at the very least, neutral. Venus voices are typically sweet and clear as a bell, and these people seldom raise them to a shrill or bellowing pitch. A Libran is the only person on earth who can say, "I hate you and I'm going to punch you in the nose," and sound as if he's reciting Browning's "How Do I Love Thee?" The mouth is usually bow-shaped, and the lips would have been described in Gibson girl days as "lips like cherry wine." In fact, the typical Libra face reminds you of nothing so much as a box of bonbons. Or a sugar cookie. Some of them look like human lollipops, or a caramel sundae topped with rich, whipped cream. They like to eat those things, too, and if any Librans are reading this, they're probably weak with hunger by now.

The women are almost invariably pretty, and the men are usually handsome. Still, not all of the beautiful people in the world are Librans; Venus beauty is in a class by itself, and it's not always easy to separate it from the good looks of other Sun signs. My own secret way to recognize them is to begin by thinking about the sweet expressions of Dwight Elsenhower and Brigitte Bardot, and then go on from there. The trouble is that sometimes the women will look like Ike and the men like Bardot. You have to make allowances.

I'm not implying that the Libra woman is masculine.

Most of them are about as female as the average man can stand (unless there's an aggressive ascendant). And I cer_tainly do not imply that Libra men are feminine. They're usually quite virile male animals. But there's no denying that they have a purity of feature that keeps you from ? getting them mixed up with prize fighters or wrestlers. Even the rare Libran who might be called ugly, and it will be most unusual to find one, has such a charming expres_sion you're persuaded to comment that there's real beauty of character in his (or her) face.

You'll never meet a Libran who doesn't have a smile like a soft, white cloud. That Venus smile could melt a chocolate bar at twenty paces. When it hits you full force, it has enough candle power to transfigure even plain or downright homely features-literally, not figuratively.

Most Librans are full of curves, rather than angles. Their hair is often curly. They're not necessarily fat (though a Taurus ascendant can produce some pretty plump pigeons). Still, they can fool you, go on a diet and cut quite a trim figure. But even so, the curves will be there in spots, rather like a slim hourglass shape. Using Bardot once more as an example, one certainly could not call her fat-but could one call her skinny? There's one more trick in mastering the Venus appearance and physical characteristics. You'll notice a bright, lilting laugh that rings with merriment. Once you've heard it, you won't soon forget it.

Now you might think that to be born attractive and dimpled, to seek fairness and loveliness, to be pleasing and easily pleased, is a blessing. You might imagine that gentle_ness and intelligence, grace and understanding are the gifts of a fairy godmother. You might be right. When the Libra scales are balanced, ifs utterly delightful, like meeting an angel from paradise. The problem is that fairy godmother. She keeps rapping one side of the .scales with her wand and then the other, making Libra dip back and forth. She can't seem to make up her fickle mind whether she made a mistake or not, and she passed her indecision on to Librans. First they'll talk up a storm and monopolize the conversation. Then they'll listen intently, with flattering interest. When others are fighting, theyll play the role of peacemaker, and smooth everyone's ruffled feathers. Then they'll turn right around, deliberately take the other side in discussion, and start an argument for the pure relish of it.

They seek harmony. Yet, lots of Librans indulge in excessive eating, drinking or love-making, completely up_setting the cookie cart, not to mention throwing harmony out of kilter. In fact, you'll come across a few Librans who will remind you of Dr. Dolittle's "push me-pull you" animal.

The Sun sign itself is known as Lazy Libra, and that's another inconsistency. For days, weeks or months on end, Librans can be too busy to play. They'll burn gallons of midnight oil, then rise and shine in time to hear the rooster crow. It wears you out just to watch them. Suddenly, they'll plop down into a chair, say, "I'm bushed," and give the best imitation of laziness you've ever seen (especially after all that frenzied activity). Once they've plopped, you won't catch them moving a muscle if they can help it. It will be an effort for them to pick up a spoon or raise a glass (though they will manage). If there's anyone around who's willing, they'll expect to be waited on, hand and foot. When the scales have dipped down toward lethargy, you couldn't move Libra with a steam shovel. Hell talk, read, yawn, snooze, watch TV or stare out the window, and seem barely able to make it into the bedroom (though he'll manage). All the nagging and shouting in the world won't impress him. It's as if he were in another world. After a period, when he's recouped his forces, hell feel a spurt of energy, get up, and start chugging down the track again. His nose will go back to the grindstone, and his hands and feet will fly. Once more, he'll work like a mule in harness, keeping a miraculous balance and a steady, even pace, as he harmoniously plans his chores with efficient ease. Although Libra is not a dual sign, most of their friends think they know two different people. Try to tell someone who has frequently seen a Libran in the midst of an up_swing that Libra is lazy, and hell stare at you blankly. Conversely, if you try to tell someone who has been ex_posed to the Libra lassitude that this creature is a bundle of powerful drive, he'll retort with, "That lazy bum? You must be kidding."

Librans know instinctively that to restore harmony to the body, they must alternate their active spells with com_plete rest. Their personal arrangement of genes and cells and electrical impulses demand it, and most of them are pretty adept at managaing this delicate physical balance. However, harmony of the mind and emotions isn't always as instinctive with them. They can weep with overflowing sentiment, turn sharply sarcastic, then be as bright and cheerful as the first robin in spring. It's not at all the duality of Gemini. The Libran is constantly dipping deeply into one emotion and then the other by turns, which isn't the same thing as the complete change of character of the Gemini twins. There's a deep richness to Libra's emotions, no matter which emotion is high or low at a given moment, and a philosophic approach to both sorrows and joys that seldom fails to smooth things out eventually.

An instinct for sanity keeps most Librans mentally healthy and physically fit. Usually, they avoid serious breakdowns of body and mind. The biggest threat to their health is over indulgence of some kind. Eating sweets can bring on obesity, stomach disorders and mottled skin. Ex_cessive use of alcohol can cause severe kidney and bladder ?disturbances, which in turn result in violent headaches of migraine intensity. Giving in to depression can cause itchy sensations in the skin and even boils. The breast area is a sensitive part of the body, and sometimes there are foot problems and intestinal disorders though these aren't as common. Ulcers beset many a Libran, not from worry as much as from abuse of the digestive system and the topsy-turvy emotional make-up. Generally, Librans are healthier than most people, unless they push themselves too bard, and forget to take those necessary rest periods. The effect of peace and harmony on Venus health is miraculous. When they're ill, they need enormous amounts of prolonged rest, with no discordant emotional situations to plague them, pleasant books, soft music and soothing words. Such an atmosphere rarely fails to put the typical Libran back on his feet quickly.

The Libra character is made up of just about equal parts of kindness, gentleness, fairness, plain cussed argumenta-tiveness, stubborn refusal to capitulate, philosophical logic and indecision. It's best to examine these ingredients in detail. The argumentativeness, for instance. A Libran will argue with you about what time it is if he thinks your watch is two seconds off. Don't try to get away with a generalization like: "Teenagers are ruining the country." You'll get a logical, careful dissertation about the Peace Corps and how many wonderful youngsters there are in the world, even if his own children are defiant drop-outs. Make a remark like, "The law is so corrupt today that all judges and lawyers are dishonest," and he'll go on for hours about the divine protection of justice in this country, the virtues of the jury system and the problems of law-makers, going back to Roman law and continuing through the Code Napoleon. Never say casually, "It's foolish to live in the city when you can live in the country. There's no compari_son." That last phrase especially is a huge mistake. Just mention the word comparison, and the average Libran is off and running. He can compare all night long, with refreshments at intervals. He'll extol the beauties and advantages of the cities compared to rural areas: describe j the bright lights, honking taxi horns, theaters, museums and | parks in glowing terms-even if he himself lives in suburbia | and you couldn't blast him out with dynamite. It wouldn't | make a bit of difference if you took the opposite view in | any of these cases. The Libran would then expound on the (rising teenage crime rate, the corruption of the courts and [the joys of country living. He doesn't really care which side I he takes in a good argument, as long as it's the other side. Sometimes, if he gets bored, he can switch sides in the middle. Tell him you like a movie and he'll tell you what's wrong with it. Criticize it and hell praise it. Rave about a new book and he'll list its shortcomings. If you found it dull, he'll point out its virtues. Throughout all this constant, logical deduction, the Libran will try to remain fair. Libra dreads the appearance of prejudice, unjust accusation and blind faith equally. What he seeks is the real truth, the exact balance that gives the correct answer, after weighing all possibilities.

It's an admirable trait, of course, but all that weighing can drive a positive person simply wild. It can drive the Libran himself into a state of constant indecision. Even the most controlled Venus men and women dislike making instant decisions without taking all the possibilities into consideration. Fairness can be a fetish. The Libran general, with his qualities of balanced, harmonious judgment, makes an excellent strategist, and thoughtful planning can win a battle before it's fought. His ability to see all sides, to smooth nerves and calm angry tempers can make him the finest kind of mediator, bringing people who hate and mistrust each other together, and getting them to work in harmonious cooperation. However, war makes all Librans secretly heartsick. They hate bloodshed. An October-born officer in the armed services will let someone else make instant decisions under fire, while he brilliantly charts the strategic maneuvers that will save thousands of lives in the long run, and still win for his side.

This antipathy to making a decision can turn into quite a stalemate with the ones who have adverse afflictions between their planets at birth. There are some who can't decide which shoe to put on first in the morning, let alone which side of the bed to get out of. Even the average Libran you meet at the office or at a party will always reflect to some degree this tendency to weigh things back and forth until you get the jitters, and the time for decision is long past. They'll say, "If I do this, such and such will happen. On the other hand" (which is one of their all-time very favorite phrases) "if I do that, then such and such could occur." Those scales can dip crazily up and down like a see-saw. Nothing is more painful to watch than a doubtful Libran trying to make up his mind why, where_fore, and whether to. He doesn't like to be hurried or pushed while he's deciding, either. An impatient person can turn the airy Libran into a sudden spell of earth stub_bornness that would make Taurus, the bull, look like a gullible pushover. Impatience is one quality most Librans can't stand. Flighty, rash, impulsive people who don't stop to consider the consequences give them the jitters.

It's amusing that Librans will always immediately deny their Indecisiveness. The first thing they'll say when you're describing their Sun sign will be, "I'm not indecisive at all. That's not accurate. It certainly doesn't describe me." Hide your smile. Translated, his denial means that, al_though he takes a devilishly long time to make up his mind (which he very conveniently forgets), once he's reached a conclusion, he's quite gung-ho about it. If he's been allowed sufficient time, his eventual, final decision will be carried out with such forceful conviction that it mis_leads him into thinking he's firm and decisive. Don't let it mislead you. Anyway, when he tells you he has no trouble making up his mind, he's just starting a typical Libran argument, and you can tell him so. It will do him good to realize that, even in the midst of his objections to his astrological traits, he's proving the truth of his Sun sign. When he denies your analysis of him, just say smugly, "I expected you to take that attitude. Librans always argue every point." It will drive him crackers, but it may help him realize the truth, and the truth is what he seeks. He's bound to see the logic in that. Telling him he's being unfair and refusing to consider both sides will take him down a notch or two, also.

Very few Librans are markedly eccentric or show-offs. Most of them are as wholesome and as well-balanced as a neat field of wheat, swaying back and forth gracefully in the wind. They're normally scrupulously honest in business deals, and there's very little carelessness about them. Libra would rather take his time and get it right than make a false start and have to repeat the process. They hate exag_geration, and they're repelled by embarrassing displays of anger and passion, though they themselves can be guilty of both extremes if they're pressed beyond their endurance. Most Librans have a fantastic ability to concentrate and to ponder deep subjects. They are born with an affection for books, and such a respect for the printed word that many of them scorn paperbacks. They feel it's not a book unless it's a hardcover, and smells and feels like a book. You're almost sure to find an extensive library in every Libran home.

They love the harmony of sounds, colors, poetry and the proper use of words, both written and spoken. Rarely do they escape the influence of the arts. A Libran is a gentle, tender lover of all that's good and clean and lovely underneath whatever image he may project when that fairy godmother raps one side of his scales. He's an artistic soul at heart, who enjoys spreading the soft blue and pastel shades of Venus at parties and cultural occasions. Soft light, mellow music, interesting conversation, good food and fine wines turn him on. His mind has both the brilliance of the diamond and the smoothness of the opal. He moves in the changing element of air and reflects the usefulness .of copper, his harmonizing metal. There's a touch of the cool, Libran mint in his alert reasoning and his sharp sense of honor, and six dimensions of peace shine down on him from Venus.

To truly understand Libra, you must understand the riddle of the scales; one side heaped high with October's vivid, golden leaves, suggesting brisk, autumn weather- the other side holding sky blue bunches of shy violets, drenched in the fresh scent of April rain. When the scales dip, bright optimism turns into silent panic, weighed down with lonely depression. When they balance, they produce a perfect harmony between his rich, crackling intellect and his affectionate, sympathetic heart. The seasons hold Libra's secret. Winter is too cold for him. Summer is too hot. He must blend them both into a perfect fall and spring.

All done... I think that the profile was scanned in with OCR, which would explain the weird characters. Maybe not, I dunno...

I have heard the best description for Libras is in Sextrology. I find it very good. That being said, I REALLY don't feel like typing in 12 pages of text, hope you don't mind. LOL!

I think this one is good because it seems fair. Some focus far too much on the cliche / stereotype and leave out a lot of good and bad stuff...

Lil' busy right now

I'm not sure exactly what your asking because I don't think you really know what you want out of it yet.

Heres the deal....we here on the boards between the scorp females and the Libra males that have done this dance by default regard this pairing as a "fatal attraction".

This is what your likely to experience.

The sexual attraction and satisfaction will be incredible. Your differences only bring out desire. His free-spiritedness, contemplativeness and changing interrests are going to make you see him as a lightweight, or weak. Part of your desire to be with him might turn into a support/encouragement role as you will see him with a lot of potential but want to guide him into being more practical and down to earth. The funny thing is he will see you in a similar light. He will kind of take on a montor/leader role in the relationship, wanting to show you how to lighten up and "let go" so to speak. The problem here is that the weaknesses you see in each other are actually each others strengths.

The lows can be really harsh, Libra guys avoid tension and confrontation in relationships but if you engage us in an arguement we can't walk away from, think about, then revisit objectively your going to be in for a real beating. Were the sign that goes for the throat when our back is in a corner. He is going to have to learn that confrontation and arguement is ok, that you actually see emotional engagement as proof of caring and intensity of feeling, you need to learn that your way isn't the only way and if you trust and have confidence in his ability to handle whatever comes his way, he will prove to you that he can.

Scorp girls tend to be very affectionate and "clingy", while Libra guys tend to be more reserved and affection is more of an accent than a constant, in fact, constant affection stifles them, they start to feel that they are reciprocating it on principle not what they actually feel. He will do a great deal to please you by way of changing his personal habbits, outlook and desire to align more harmoniously with yours. THIS IS NOT A WEAKNESS, it is a strength, but the problem is scorps are actually (even though the will adamantly deny it) the one that wants to assume the submissive support role in a relationship. So shift these two mindsets so the Libra is the go getter and the Scorp is the behind the scenes so to speak one that takes care of business. This works really well, the Libra likes to come up with the ideas and be the face of

....and leader of them and the scorp takes pride in being the foundation that makes it possible without a strong need for outward recognition.

Your going to approach your view on life from two verry different angles. he is going to be painlessly optimistic and worry free in your eyes, but take comfort in knowing he sees the bad and ugly just as clearly as you do, and his mind is pounding it into submission. Just go with it, it is a choice by us to keep things surfacy and optimistic, not that we simply can't do the opposite.


If you can ease up, and let go and just go with it, he can buckle down and get his shit together.

If you do, it will be the most rewarding relationship you have ever had, if it doesnt work out, you will learn more about it and yourself than you could with anyone else. The hidden danger here is that if you do fall in love with him and things don't work out, you will always love him and vice versa. Even if not in a romantic way, in a calm appreciative way, as someone you secretly admire in all of their faults and weaknesses.

The only thing that seems non-traditional in scorp female/libra male relationships pertaining to yours is the Scorp girl is usually the one to fall fast and become overwhelmed and aggressive in the chase when it comes to Libra males while they take it slow, cool and calm being careful not to feel too much to quick...it's kind of backwards in your case. You sound a little more matured than he does...and it might drive you a little crazy, but were quick learners and very perceptive....if you need that to change it will.

If he said he was dangerous, you better be extra extra careful... and ask chatz what happened to her when she failed to listen to her libra 1.

Yup...he said "you'd better run now"....said the spider to the fly!!!

Now look at me 😢

All that was very interesting and I appreciate it. But as of Friday I do believe that this fling is over.

Because of his fickle attitude. to make a long story short you can go on the scrop board to read in detail.

He said he would then when the time came he did'nt I told him I was dissappointed we had nothting to say. Have not talked to him since, nor have I called.

Wow. That was short.

Short, sharp and shiny!!!! Best way to be I think LOL

"Short, sharp and shiny!!!!"

Wow, that sounds a little more painful than satisfying. You are into some KINKY stuff there Chatzie... 😉

I guess I'll be the bad guy here. She met this guy at a club, and she admittedly had a one night stand with him the same night in a hotel room. Why a hotel room? Is he married? Is she married?

If the answer as to why they got a hotel room was because she didn't know him, then why the hell did she have sex with him?

It wasn't destined to be. Chalk it up to horniness and move on.

LOL

Houston,

Good, call, I wasn't going to respond because of that but I said meh, what the heck. But the fact is, the whole time she had high expectations of him while at the same time saying she didn't really like him. No wonder he had nothing to say I am 100% sure he was thinking "the sex is good but damn, she is a pain in the ass" when she came at him with the "dissapointment" not saying anything was pretty much the right thing to do, he didn't owe her an explanation any more than he deserved all of the loaded expectation.

She stated there were things she didn't like about him and basically wanted him to be part of himself for her bennifit, shelf the other part and she would be willing? No thanks.

Ahhhh I am back!!! Exhausted... Happy as hell... Sad to be coming home alone... 😢 Wow!!! Is all I can say about the weekend!!! Stay tuned for a post of the Florida rondevous with the WONDERFUL Libra coming to a thread near you!!! 🙂

K... Scorpionlady, if you have read the complete break down that nic and alcheme provided then you should have all the answers you need. And who should know about this combo better than the two of them... Hehehehe!!!

I have to agree with HP as well. This sounded like a case of horniness and a one night stand, that shouldn't have had any expectations on either part. However, Libras know when they meet someone, if they really want to be with them or not, seriously or not. However, when a libra is damaged. There could be a million reasons why he does and says the things he does. Fickleness is a given with the damaged Libran. The are interesting people... If you have an undamaged one (i.e. Nic and LibraPersonified) then they know what they want and go for it without the BS. That can be so hot!!! So, you will have to know a little more about him as a person before determining what the source of his actiions are and it sounds like that hasn't happened.

My two cents...

QS, Welcome back. GREAT PHOTO!

Thanks buddy.... Atom. More photos to come, once I download them from my digital camera...

HP

Yea I did have a one night stand, because I choose to I never said that I wanted to be with this man. He was suspect from day one when he wanted to spend all this money on me. All I wanted was some insight on this person personality.

I am a single women and have been for a while, so if I go out and have a one night stand, I have no feelings afterwards because it strictly about sex. That is why it was so strange that this brother claim to be in love and talking of marriage he became suspect and I told him and my hunch was right I never let my guards down. But for him to say one thing and change his mind at the last minute when I asked him twice and me telling him that I was dissapointed is the reason he stop calling then so beit, that is his issue.

Scorpiolady, exactly what are you disappointed about? There is no relationship here. He is a Libra, so he may change his mind often, if he doesn't think he is making the best decision at hand. So what were you disappointed about again?

Also, again, they just know when they meet someone how they feel and they can feel very strong about their feelings he could actually have feld that way about you. We don't know anything about his past so we can't tell you. We don't know if he is damaged or not etc. We need a little more info.

Sounds damaged...she has other posts on the Scorpio board.

Queenscorpio

Lets just say that if somebody ask you do you want to do something and you assure them and then change your mind at the last minute, would you be dissappoint.

It does not matter anymore, nor am I gonna keep dwelling on this issue it is over.

Time to move on I have no hard feelings, nor did I have intentions other than knowing about his personality and know that that is over, I will stick to my own views on Libra's they are not for me.

HP

He could be damaged, but I learned enough in 3 days to know that I don't want to deal with a Libra.

Like I said my son is a young Libra and he gets on my nerves, with his wacky way of thinking, I be like boy what were you thinking. He go through girls like running water been hurt when he was 18.

And yes HP I have a more detailed story of my encounter with him on the Scorpio board.

I do wish you both happines with your libra guys.

***Queenscorpio

Lets just say that if somebody ask you do you want to do something and you assure them and then change your mind at the last minute, would you be dissappoint.***

If it wasn't anything other than a one night stand, nothing else. There was no relationship nope not at all. People change their minds, just reschedule if you were interested, if he doesn't want to then you know he either loss interest or decided not to persue the issue any longer.

Remember Libra men have a lot of pride, you could have bruised it when you underminded how he felt about you... Whatever the case. You don't care right? So move on.

HP, we can always count on you to investigate.

Scorpionlady if he was damaged then, hey he will probably never make his mind up in the near future. Who knows.

Thanks for the good luck, but it doesn't seem like I need luck, it is all happening naturally for me. Thanks anyway and I hope you find what you are looking for.

If you had no intentions other than to know his personality, then I don't understand why you made plans to have dinner with him and "get to know him". If you were not thrown off by his ILU's then you would have dropped kick that guy back to another street corner, dusted yourself off, put another notch in your horny belt, and moved on.

Instead you have dwelled, analyzed, and pondered about this guy and his intentions behind his words. If that wasn't true, you would not have come here seeking out QueenScorp.

Can I get an amen?

HP

You have this all wrong

He became suspect with the ILU's and the constant spending of money. I don't know about you but when a man I just slept with tell me he loves me spends hundreds of dollars on me in just a couple of days they became SUSPECT and that is what he did. This was not about me building a relationship with him when I told him to slow his road.

Why don't you read what I wrote on the Scropio board instead of trying to pry in a story you only know half about.

"Instead you have dwelled, analyzed, and pondered about this guy and his intentions behind his words. If that wasn't true, you would not have come here seeking out QueenScorp."

I see what the problem here is you refuse to read what I wrote but instead make your own opinion of things. I wrote INSIGHT is all I wanted I did not ask for any help or advise on how to deal, handle or please him. I WANTED INSIGHT you get it? That does not mean I was dwelling, maybe over analyzing his actions I don't dwell on nothing. I know when to move on I know when I am not wanted, I have lived and experience a lot in my life this is a peice of cake to me.

All I was doing was trying to get the upper hand on something I was not familiar with, shoot me if I am wrong for that. I am a scropio my guard goes up when I am in a strange situation that I am not used to. He was suspect point blank. I don't know about you but I don't just go around believing people every word all willie Nilly.

It was what it was I have no need to search for anymore information because I am not going after him. So leave it alone and move on.

hold on....I will break all of your hypocracies down for you...give me a few minutes.

1 - "What scares me is him telling me he Love Me so so so soon. " Why would it scare you if you had no intentions of it moving forward? 'so so so soon'? so soon to what? what are you comparing it to? So soon to dating/relationship/what?

2 - "So I said here's the thing, lets just be friends get to know each other and see what happens. " Again, no intentions of hopes of getting anything more than a one night stand from here is negated when you tell him 'let's get to know each other and see what happens'. If you weren't interested, one night stands are just that. You meet, you do the deed, and you never see or possibly hear from the person again. If you do, then it no longer can be classified as a one night stand.

3 - "I am going out to dinner with him tonight only because when we went to the hotel and because I did not know him, I had my gf hold on to his license and I forgot to give it back to him when she picked me up the next morning." No intentions? Then should have taken his license back to the hotel or the club of which he knows how to get to rather than meeting him face to face. Or, if that wasn't a possibility, then just meeting him in a public place for just the exchange of the license...no dinner was necessary if you had no interest in the guy.

4 - "I think I will have to lay down some concrete rules that he needs to live by when dealing with me because I don't want to hear the ILU's right know I want to get to know him because I believe that he really a nice sweet caring person." If he was just a guy you had a one night stand with, when why do you even care that he's a sweet caring person? Why would you want to lay down some "concrete rules" for dealing with you? You admitted in this statement that you wanted to get to know him...

Now off to the Scorpio to find more hypocracies....stayed tuned.

I don't think these need any rebuttals?they speak for themselves, except for the last one:

?I think what the problem is that he is to nice, sweet, caring and I am not used to that, I am used to cussing men out and given them a piece of my mind letting them know I am not to be played we. I have grew a very hard shell over the years.?

?I told him I won't sleep with him until the weekend and he said ok I can wait. Damn?

?Ok here's the problem, the ILU's are ridiculas, the your are so cute and beautiful is getting on my nerves. the I am crazy about you all the things that he says to me is irratating the hell out of me. And it's crazy because I wanted someone to appreciated me love me and adore me but damn this is an over abundance of attention, and admiration, and so call love.?

?He throws money at me like crazy. ok he gave me 40 bucks for my pocket, brought me dinner, put gas in my car, gave my son money for putting my headlights in my car?

?So I must really really take this slow and make him take it as slow as possible because if he does not. I don't know how long I will continue to date him.?

?He gave me the 200.00 to get my hair done?
you took money from the dude? I think I figured it all out.