Is There Any Chance of Me Winning This Libra Man Back?
This topic was created in the Libra forum by virgowoman96 on Wednesday, March 27, 2019 and has 31 replies.
I'm a Virgo and I met this Libra man last week through a common friend at a party. He was coming on strong, heavily flirting with me but I kept playfully rejecting him. He asked for my Instagram, and a few days later, he messages me to ask for my number. Then he asked me out on a date to a fancy restaurant and it was amazing. Two days later, he asks me out to drinks with his friends and I went - another great night where we told each other we really liked each other. Now this is where I fucked up. He was planning to leave (this was around 5am already) but asked me if I wanted to come back to his place as well, said he didn't want to do anything, just that it would be nice to wake up beside each other and get brunch in the morning. I agreed, so we headed back to his place. In bed we started making out, and one thing led to another. We ended up sleeping together (big mistake I KNOW) and got lunch and went back to his place. He let me stay until 7pm that day and was really sweet in bed (we were cuddling) and even said stuff like "let's catch a movie next time", "let's hang out by the pool next time", "let's do this again sometime" but it's been 3 days and I still haven't heard from him although he's been viewing my Instagram stories. All my friends say let him text me first but my question is.. should I just go for it? I really like this guy and I can't accept the fact that I fucked it up by doing too much, too soon. He also said while we were together that he really didn't expect us to sleep together which makes me feel that I might've initiated it. Help, I really want to make things right with this guy. Or is he done with me forever?
just send a text and ask him what up
just wait around
if he doesn't reach out, then he's just not that interested
libras have lots of options
if he doesn't reach out, then he's just not that interested
libras have lots of options
Its been 3 days. If a week goes by then you know he isn't that into a repeat.
Or just reach out and say whats up, no need to play by gender stereotypes ya know.
Or just reach out and say whats up, no need to play by gender stereotypes ya know.
Posted by virgoOPPP
just wait around
if he doesn't reach out, then he's just not that interested
libras have lots of options
no he wont reach out and he probably doesn't. Lol
Look I don't see how you treetrunked up by having sex. You obviously wanted it or you wouldn't have gotten in his bed so just own it. I agree that if he doesn't make plans with you within a week then he will probably contact you later for more sex. He won't get serious about you.
Posted by DonnaLibra
Look I don't see how you treetrunked up by having sex. You obviously wanted it or you wouldn't have gotten in his bed so just own it. I agree that if he doesn't make plans with you within a week he has low to no interest. He may contact you again for more sex later on. He won't get serious about you.
"He let me stay until 7pm that day and was really sweet in bed and"
He LET you? What kind of wording and self-esteem is that?
The issue is not whether you had sex too early on not because that's kind of manipulative. Onlybyiu can say if it was too early or not but that would be for different reasons such as your own preference. For example some people dont like sexual relations without commitment and etc. Etc.
I wouldn't assume you fucked up if you're worried of his perception because it takes 2 to tango. Ant guy who tried to blame solely you for a decision that was made together is not worth a single minute.
Him not contacting you could be many reasons but if you really like him a "hi thinking of you" kind of text doesn't hurt because either he'll be goad you reached and reciprocate or he won't. So you'll have your answers. Also if you make your text more of a statement than a question it will take pressure off him from responding so if he does respond itll grrater chance that it was because hes interested.
And finally work on your self esteem.... you and him enjoyed your time together... NOT he LET you. Thats defeatist talk.
He LET you? What kind of wording and self-esteem is that?
The issue is not whether you had sex too early on not because that's kind of manipulative. Onlybyiu can say if it was too early or not but that would be for different reasons such as your own preference. For example some people dont like sexual relations without commitment and etc. Etc.
I wouldn't assume you fucked up if you're worried of his perception because it takes 2 to tango. Ant guy who tried to blame solely you for a decision that was made together is not worth a single minute.
Him not contacting you could be many reasons but if you really like him a "hi thinking of you" kind of text doesn't hurt because either he'll be goad you reached and reciprocate or he won't. So you'll have your answers. Also if you make your text more of a statement than a question it will take pressure off him from responding so if he does respond itll grrater chance that it was because hes interested.
And finally work on your self esteem.... you and him enjoyed your time together... NOT he LET you. Thats defeatist talk.
Hope you can make put my typos... on my phone.
And what is there to win back from? Lol you hardly know him and you think hes some kind of a prize.
Posted by stillstillwater
And what is there to win back from? Lol you hardly know him and you think hes some kind of a prize.
yeah why do women think that we're some kind of prize lol. Like wtf
Damn if I know. If they only knew the truth.
😂 Just call him! Or text.
You sound like you did something horrible and it was all your fault. Chill.
You sound like you did something horrible and it was all your fault. Chill.
Posted by Librasetting777Exactly... you guys are just one more thing we gotta take care of ya big babies!!Posted by stillstillwater
And what is there to win back from? Lol you hardly know him and you think hes some kind of a prize.
yeah why do women think that we're some kind of prize lol. Like wtfclick to expand
Posted by virgowoman96
I'm a Virgo and I met this Libra man last week through a common friend at a party. He was coming on strong, heavily flirting with me but I kept playfully rejecting him. He asked for my Instagram, and a few days later, he messages me to ask for my number. Then he asked me out on a date to a fancy restaurant and it was amazing. Two days later, he asks me out to drinks with his friends and I went - another great night where we told each other we really liked each other. Now this is where I fucked up. He was planning to leave (this was around 5am already) but asked me if I wanted to come back to his place as well, said he didn't want to do anything, just that it would be nice to wake up beside each other and get brunch in the morning. I agreed, so we headed back to his place. In bed we started making out, and one thing led to another. We ended up sleeping together (big mistake I KNOW) and got lunch and went back to his place. He let me stay until 7pm that day and was really sweet in bed (we were cuddling) and even said stuff like "let's catch a movie next time", "let's hang out by the pool next time", "let's do this again sometime" but it's been 3 days and I still haven't heard from him although he's been viewing my Instagram stories. All my friends say let him text me first but my question is.. should I just go for it? I really like this guy and I can't accept the fact that I fucked it up by doing too much, too soon. He also said while we were together that he really didn't expect us to sleep together which makes me feel that I might've initiated it. Help, I really want to make things right with this guy. Or is he done with me forever?
Sit back
Let him come to you
He will run if you chase after him.
If he sees you’re not coming, he will come after you. In the mean time keep posting your fun life and enjoy while he arrives
Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Librasetting777Exactly... you guys are just one more thing we gotta take care of ya big babies!!Posted by stillstillwater
And what is there to win back from? Lol you hardly know him and you think hes some kind of a prize.
yeah why do women think that we're some kind of prize lol. Like wtfclick to expand
but I take care of myself.is this why bitches hate me because I take care of myself 🤔🤔🤔🤔
Posted by Librasetting777Lmao!! Ahh shush all men need TLC, mostly emotionally. Dont tell me you dont ever call your girl to vent about a particularly hard day?Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Librasetting777Exactly... you guys are just one more thing we gotta take care of ya big babies!!Posted by stillstillwater
And what is there to win back from? Lol you hardly know him and you think hes some kind of a prize.
yeah why do women think that we're some kind of prize lol. Like wtf
but I take care of myself.is this why bitches hate me because I take care of myself 🤔🤔🤔🤔click to expand
Posted by tizianiDelivery it is then... and a virtual hug.Posted by stillstillwaterSend food, send halp.Posted by Librasetting777Exactly... you guys are just one more thing we gotta take care of ya big babies!!Posted by stillstillwater
And what is there to win back from? Lol you hardly know him and you think hes some kind of a prize.
yeah why do women think that we're some kind of prize lol. Like wtfclick to expand
There... there...
Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Librasetting777Lmao!! Ahh shush all men need TLC, mostly emotionally. Dont tell me you dont ever call your girl to vent about a particularly hard day?Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Librasetting777Exactly... you guys are just one more thing we gotta take care of ya big babies!!Posted by stillstillwater
And what is there to win back from? Lol you hardly know him and you think hes some kind of a prize.
yeah why do women think that we're some kind of prize lol. Like wtf
but I take care of myself.is this why bitches hate me because I take care of myself 🤔🤔🤔🤔click to expand
lol I'm single and have been for awhile,I usually keep to myself. Taurus moon doesn't let emotions out. Just me myself and I.
Posted by Librasetting777aww sounds lonley ...Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Librasetting777Lmao!! Ahh shush all men need TLC, mostly emotionally. Dont tell me you dont ever call your girl to vent about a particularly hard day?Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Librasetting777Exactly... you guys are just one more thing we gotta take care of ya big babies!!Posted by stillstillwater
And what is there to win back from? Lol you hardly know him and you think hes some kind of a prize.
yeah why do women think that we're some kind of prize lol. Like wtf
but I take care of myself.is this why bitches hate me because I take care of myself 🤔🤔🤔🤔
lol I'm single and have been for awhile,I usually keep to myself. Taurus moon doesn't let emotions out. Just me myself and I.click to expand
but what about when you're in relationships... you don't ask for TLC? Lol
Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Librasetting777aww sounds lonley ...Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Librasetting777Lmao!! Ahh shush all men need TLC, mostly emotionally. Dont tell me you dont ever call your girl to vent about a particularly hard day?Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Librasetting777Exactly... you guys are just one more thing we gotta take care of ya big babies!!Posted by stillstillwater
And what is there to win back from? Lol you hardly know him and you think hes some kind of a prize.
yeah why do women think that we're some kind of prize lol. Like wtf
but I take care of myself.is this why bitches hate me because I take care of myself 🤔🤔🤔🤔
lol I'm single and have been for awhile,I usually keep to myself. Taurus moon doesn't let emotions out. Just me myself and I.
but what about when you're in relationships... you don't ask for TLC? Lolclick to expand
no, it's always a no "I dont deserve it,gimme money"
Posted by Librasetting777You just want money?Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Librasetting777aww sounds lonley ...Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Librasetting777Lmao!! Ahh shush all men need TLC, mostly emotionally. Dont tell me you dont ever call your girl to vent about a particularly hard day?Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Librasetting777Exactly... you guys are just one more thing we gotta take care of ya big babies!!Posted by stillstillwater
And what is there to win back from? Lol you hardly know him and you think hes some kind of a prize.
yeah why do women think that we're some kind of prize lol. Like wtf
but I take care of myself.is this why bitches hate me because I take care of myself 🤔🤔🤔🤔
lol I'm single and have been for awhile,I usually keep to myself. Taurus moon doesn't let emotions out. Just me myself and I.
but what about when you're in relationships... you don't ask for TLC? Lol
no, it's always a no "I dont deserve it,gimme money"click to expand
Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Librasetting777You just want money?Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Librasetting777aww sounds lonley ...Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Librasetting777Lmao!! Ahh shush all men need TLC, mostly emotionally. Dont tell me you dont ever call your girl to vent about a particularly hard day?Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Librasetting777Exactly... you guys are just one more thing we gotta take care of ya big babies!!Posted by stillstillwater
And what is there to win back from? Lol you hardly know him and you think hes some kind of a prize.
yeah why do women think that we're some kind of prize lol. Like wtf
but I take care of myself.is this why bitches hate me because I take care of myself 🤔🤔🤔🤔
lol I'm single and have been for awhile,I usually keep to myself. Taurus moon doesn't let emotions out. Just me myself and I.
but what about when you're in relationships... you don't ask for TLC? Lol
no, it's always a no "I dont deserve it,gimme money"click to expand
no women do
Posted by Librasetting777Lol so they say that you don't deserve TLC and to just give them money?Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Librasetting777You just want money?Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Librasetting777aww sounds lonley ...Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Librasetting777Lmao!! Ahh shush all men need TLC, mostly emotionally. Dont tell me you dont ever call your girl to vent about a particularly hard day?Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Librasetting777Exactly... you guys are just one more thing we gotta take care of ya big babies!!Posted by stillstillwater
And what is there to win back from? Lol you hardly know him and you think hes some kind of a prize.
yeah why do women think that we're some kind of prize lol. Like wtf
but I take care of myself.is this why bitches hate me because I take care of myself 🤔🤔🤔🤔
lol I'm single and have been for awhile,I usually keep to myself. Taurus moon doesn't let emotions out. Just me myself and I.
but what about when you're in relationships... you don't ask for TLC? Lol
no, it's always a no "I dont deserve it,gimme money"
no women doclick to expand
I'm surprised women like emotionally catering to men... 🤔
Unless you've just been with super selfish women. I think libra men fall for the selfish type then.
Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Librasetting777Lol so they say that you don't deserve TLC and to just give them money?Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Librasetting777You just want money?Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Librasetting777aww sounds lonley ...Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Librasetting777Lmao!! Ahh shush all men need TLC, mostly emotionally. Dont tell me you dont ever call your girl to vent about a particularly hard day?Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Librasetting777Exactly... you guys are just one more thing we gotta take care of ya big babies!!Posted by stillstillwater
And what is there to win back from? Lol you hardly know him and you think hes some kind of a prize.
yeah why do women think that we're some kind of prize lol. Like wtf
but I take care of myself.is this why bitches hate me because I take care of myself 🤔🤔🤔🤔
lol I'm single and have been for awhile,I usually keep to myself. Taurus moon doesn't let emotions out. Just me myself and I.
but what about when you're in relationships... you don't ask for TLC? Lol
no, it's always a no "I dont deserve it,gimme money"
no women do
I'm surprised women like emotionally catering to men... 🤔
Unless you've just been with super selfish women. I think libra men fall for the selfish type then.click to expand
I'm very cautious with women and their neo feminism bullshit I see right though that fake shit.Hell I've only had two major relationships the first one was actually good I'll give her some credit even though she cheated she told me and broke up with me and they eventually got married their still together. My 2nd was a nightmare who was a libra who just played a good game and just uses guys. No I hate selfish bitchs i ain't yo daddy I'm not paying your bills.
Posted by Librasetting777
I'm very cautious with women and their neo feminism bullshit I see right though that fake shit.Hell I've only had two major relationships the first one was actually good I'll give her some credit even though she cheated she told me and broke up with me and they eventually got married their still together. My 2nd was a nightmare who was a libra who just played a good game and just uses guys. No I hate selfish bitchs i ain't yo daddy I'm not paying your bills.
what's a neo feminist?
Posted by jeanePosted by Librasetting777
I'm very cautious with women and their neo feminism bullshit I see right though that fake shit.Hell I've only had two major relationships the first one was actually good I'll give her some credit even though she cheated she told me and broke up with me and they eventually got married their still together. My 2nd was a nightmare who was a libra who just played a good game and just uses guys. No I hate selfish bitchs i ain't yo daddy I'm not paying your bills.
what's a neo feminist?click to expand
look it up you have the internet. I'm not your library
Posted by virgowoman96
I'm a Virgo and I met this Libra man last week through a common friend at a party. He was coming on strong, heavily flirting with me but I kept playfully rejecting him. He asked for my Instagram, and a few days later, he messages me to ask for my number. Then he asked me out on a date to a fancy restaurant and it was amazing. Two days later, he asks me out to drinks with his friends and I went - another great night where we told each other we really liked each other. Now this is where I fucked up. He was planning to leave (this was around 5am already) but asked me if I wanted to come back to his place as well, said he didn't want to do anything, just that it would be nice to wake up beside each other and get brunch in the morning. I agreed, so we headed back to his place. In bed we started making out, and one thing led to another. We ended up sleeping together (big mistake I KNOW) and got lunch and went back to his place. He let me stay until 7pm that day and was really sweet in bed (we were cuddling) and even said stuff like "let's catch a movie next time", "let's hang out by the pool next time", "let's do this again sometime" but it's been 3 days and I still haven't heard from him although he's been viewing my Instagram stories. All my friends say let him text me first but my question is.. should I just go for it? I really like this guy and I can't accept the fact that I fucked it up by doing too much, too soon. He also said while we were together that he really didn't expect us to sleep together which makes me feel that I might've initiated it. Help, I really want to make things right with this guy. Or is he done with me forever?
I'm a Libra guy who's dated a Virgo woman or two, so I have some experience...what are y'alls other major placements/aspects?
Either way, I'd say text him something light. Libras are indecisive, and we tend to not take initiative when we're weighing our feelings. I know Virgos over-analyze, and I think I've had similar misunderstandings with my ex, where I was gathering my thoughts and she thought I was distancing myself. It sounds pretty likely he's catching feelings that he's processing, since you guys seemed to move pretty quickly. If that's the case, he'd probably be very happy to hear from you.
Posted by Librasetting777Posted by jeanePosted by Librasetting777
I'm very cautious with women and their neo feminism bullshit I see right though that fake shit.Hell I've only had two major relationships the first one was actually good I'll give her some credit even though she cheated she told me and broke up with me and they eventually got married their still together. My 2nd was a nightmare who was a libra who just played a good game and just uses guys. No I hate selfish bitchs i ain't yo daddy I'm not paying your bills.
what's a neo feminist?
look it up you have the internet. I'm not your libraryclick to expand
huh. never come across one. you must have bad luck.
(i'm guessing you are using the urban dictionary definition and not the wikipedia definition.)
Posted by jeanePosted by Librasetting777Posted by jeanePosted by Librasetting777
I'm very cautious with women and their neo feminism bullshit I see right though that fake shit.Hell I've only had two major relationships the first one was actually good I'll give her some credit even though she cheated she told me and broke up with me and they eventually got married their still together. My 2nd was a nightmare who was a libra who just played a good game and just uses guys. No I hate selfish bitchs i ain't yo daddy I'm not paying your bills.
what's a neo feminist?
look it up you have the internet. I'm not your library
huh. never come across one. you must have bad luck.
(i'm guessing you are using the urban dictionary definition and not the wikipedia definition.)click to expand
naw didn't look at either of those.
Posted by Librasetting777Damn...feel you. I wouldn't understand why women would expect a guy to pay for their bills. I think most of had is guys paying for a dates and gifts. Both men and women can be so shitty, I suppose. Well if you're in the mood to be pissed off here's a song that'll just add fuel to the fire...Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Librasetting777Lol so they say that you don't deserve TLC and to just give them money?Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Librasetting777You just want money?Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Librasetting777aww sounds lonley ...Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Librasetting777Lmao!! Ahh shush all men need TLC, mostly emotionally. Dont tell me you dont ever call your girl to vent about a particularly hard day?Posted by stillstillwaterPosted by Librasetting777Exactly... you guys are just one more thing we gotta take care of ya big babies!!Posted by stillstillwater
And what is there to win back from? Lol you hardly know him and you think hes some kind of a prize.
yeah why do women think that we're some kind of prize lol. Like wtf
but I take care of myself.is this why bitches hate me because I take care of myself 🤔🤔🤔🤔
lol I'm single and have been for awhile,I usually keep to myself. Taurus moon doesn't let emotions out. Just me myself and I.
but what about when you're in relationships... you don't ask for TLC? Lol
no, it's always a no "I dont deserve it,gimme money"
no women do
I'm surprised women like emotionally catering to men... 🤔
Unless you've just been with super selfish women. I think libra men fall for the selfish type then.
I'm very cautious with women and their neo feminism bullshit I see right though that fake shit.Hell I've only had two major relationships the first one was actually good I'll give her some credit even though she cheated she told me and broke up with me and they eventually got married their still together. My 2nd was a nightmare who was a libra who just played a good game and just uses guys. No I hate selfish bitchs i ain't yo daddy I'm not paying your bills.click to expand
Dedicated to my last relationship... whose bills I continue to pay...
"you triflin' you need your own car!"
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