Is this Common LIBRA Behaviour?
This topic was created in the Libra forum by shiinelikethemoon on Sunday, April 26, 2009 and has 7 replies.
It sounds like hes stalking you...? I think it may just be a pride thing but none the less thats weird, doesn't that bother you? You should tell him to leave you alone...
Yeah I thought he was a STALKER too...be careful!
If he is acting this way and you aren't even going out does that not ring off warning bells????? Seriously!
The only person I would think that may act like that is someone that is following around a cheating wife/husband for confirmation of the infidelity!
I would suggest you tell him straight out that he's being creepy!
The only person I would think that may act like that is someone that is following around a cheating wife/husband for confirmation of the infidelity!
I would suggest you tell him straight out that he's being creepy!
Yes your right in a sence sweethearts!
But i cant just up and accuse him of stalking?? each time has been in the open (public places)! It may even be coinsidental? i would make an obstacle of myself!
But i cant just up and accuse him of stalking?? each time has been in the open (public places)! It may even be coinsidental? i would make an obstacle of myself!
Sit him down and have it out with him, lay the law down of what you want if you must but he sounds very immature. I say that because he has resulted in stalking you instead of talking to you about where your realtionship is. Is there any reason why he thinks he cant talk to you?
Do you want to be with him?
Do you want to be with him?
First of all men and women are so different so I dont even know if what I am saying is the same for him but...if I was doing what he was doing it's because I'm not convinced whether you want me or not and I dont want to let it go so I'm popping up...just in case. Until I get a definite "I dont want you" I find it hard to let go. This is probably why Librans pop in and out of past lovers lives because they are never told point blank "it's over and I dont ever want to see you again"
So if you dont want him around you have to make it VERY clear and he will let go but if you do, now is the time to open those communication lines up and make it perfectly clear what YOU want!
One thing though, if you chose to be with him, I would make sure you address the other guys he had seen you with or make him address it because I know that in this circumstance if I got you I would let it slide for now so as not to create waves....BUT I'd never forget and it would come back up in the future...whether that be through a heated arguement or a legitimate reason for me thinking you could be a player or cheater...
Yes think this through and make up your mind whether you want him or not because at the moment you are both in limbo.
So if you dont want him around you have to make it VERY clear and he will let go but if you do, now is the time to open those communication lines up and make it perfectly clear what YOU want!
One thing though, if you chose to be with him, I would make sure you address the other guys he had seen you with or make him address it because I know that in this circumstance if I got you I would let it slide for now so as not to create waves....BUT I'd never forget and it would come back up in the future...whether that be through a heated arguement or a legitimate reason for me thinking you could be a player or cheater...
Yes think this through and make up your mind whether you want him or not because at the moment you are both in limbo.
shiinelikethemoon I would like to ask you, what's your Zodiac sign?
After reading your story, I can tell you a couple of things, Libra men are VERY jealous (well at least the immature type) when it comes to the object of their affection. When they want someone, or something, they'll try their best to get it by playing it cool and staying calm. It's not whether he loves you or not, but because he simply just wants you.
I know you probably don't want to hear this, since you're loving the attention from him and think that this could work. But keep in mind that now you're loving this sort of attention from him (him following you to places to confirm you're not dating other guys) but if you get into a serious relationship with him, and 6 months from now, he'll be the same, will you like it then? He sounds like the guy who'll always want to keep tabs on you, are you going to be ok with that?
You say when you talk to him he doesn't bring up the subject of him popping you when you're with other guy friends, that's probably because he knows he's doing the wrong thing by keeping tabs on you (stalking is the right word) so why would he make himself look bad infront of you. Remember, he's trying to win you over, not lose you. You also say that he keeps very calm.... it's a Libra trait! Doesn't matter how bad of a storm is going on inside of them, they can hide it VERY well, and since he's a guy, he doesn't want to say the wrong thing, so he's probably keeping calm to prevent you from freaking you out.
Hope this helps.
After reading your story, I can tell you a couple of things, Libra men are VERY jealous (well at least the immature type) when it comes to the object of their affection. When they want someone, or something, they'll try their best to get it by playing it cool and staying calm. It's not whether he loves you or not, but because he simply just wants you.
I know you probably don't want to hear this, since you're loving the attention from him and think that this could work. But keep in mind that now you're loving this sort of attention from him (him following you to places to confirm you're not dating other guys) but if you get into a serious relationship with him, and 6 months from now, he'll be the same, will you like it then? He sounds like the guy who'll always want to keep tabs on you, are you going to be ok with that?
You say when you talk to him he doesn't bring up the subject of him popping you when you're with other guy friends, that's probably because he knows he's doing the wrong thing by keeping tabs on you (stalking is the right word) so why would he make himself look bad infront of you. Remember, he's trying to win you over, not lose you. You also say that he keeps very calm.... it's a Libra trait! Doesn't matter how bad of a storm is going on inside of them, they can hide it VERY well, and since he's a guy, he doesn't want to say the wrong thing, so he's probably keeping calm to prevent you from freaking you out.
Hope this helps.
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